Should I Still Go For It?

[LiftnWeights09]

ok back in october we had our homecoming dance at the dance i saw the girl i liked n she was by herself so a buddy of mine went up to her n asked her to dance with me she said the next slow song that came on she would dance with me n he came n told me n was all excited about it n then i thought could she have been intimidated by someone whos 6ft 290lbs when he asked her she told him she liked me n i was cute so i figured it wasnt intimidation. when the next slow song came on i could not find her anywhere i looked 2 or 3 times n then gave up. that monday at school in class the whole time she was looking over at me n when i would catch her she would turn her face or it look like she would look me in the eyes n she would look away real fast. well this went on for about 1 month n i only talked to her once im really shy around girls i like n recently she has been tlking to another guy n when she does shes usually around me . could this mean shes trying to make me jealous? should i try to get her or just let it go aand also what would be a good way if i should try to get her wat is a good way of starting conversation? I dont know if i should go for it or not so can i please have some help on this
thanks

 

[Dearl]

This probably not no help, but I am going threw the same ****. The look and look away stuff then I get nervous too. Not the nervous that she doesnt like me its obvisous that she does just that I dont say nothing that a fvck it up. (which I feel i did before winter break) But Im going threw the same so you not alone in this win or lose your life situation lol

 

[TheNewGuy]

Did you read the bible?

 

[PleasureKing]

your only shy because you never approached a girl before. and i mean a *real* approach where your main goal is to know if the girl is right for you. you fear something you havent done yet.

1. dont get nervous. they are girls. not monsters. (although some people would beg to differ)
2. who is the man? is it you? then its *your* duty to approach her. listen, she already selected you. most women are like this, they choose you, and let you know, in some way, they are interested. they are shy of what you would think of them. 90% of women are insecure about themselves, even the really popular ones that you think could get all the guys. its up to you to see if she is good enough for you. you already are good enough for her.

if you think she is good enough for you, then go for it. be relaxed, if your nervous, she will be nervous. if your joyful, she will be joyful. ok.

starting the conversation is the easiest part in communication. all you have to say is,
"hey <insert babes name>."
her response, 99% of the time would be;
"hey" / "hi" / "heyyyy <insert your name>".

simple ey? haha.

now, ask her an open ended question.
"what are you up to"

judging by her response, select a keyword, and ask another open ended question, and continue the conversation.

example
you: "hey <insert babes name>"
her: "hi"
you: "what are you up to?"

then BOOM. she immediatly knows your interested in her. the first thing she would ponder about is why your asking what she is up to. why would you take notice, and be intrigued about her. if she is REALLY interested in you, she would smile and respond in a fun way. but most women are shy, and would conceal their emotions so they dont seem "too easy, too open, too available"

her: "nothing."
you: "nothing? i hate doing that."
her: "ya me too"
you: "so tell me, what DO you like to do?"
her: "what do you mean"
you: pause..."just answer the question" (start chuckling)
her: "bla bla bla. ba bla ba ba bla bo bla bla bla"

note: listening to her wont make your ears bleed. it will make her know you care. =]

 

[Dearl]

^^^No homo but you raw as hell

 

[gymshorts]

is it me, or does the "n" after every 3 words in his post make you go crazy and want to stop reading, sounds like a three year old on crack

 

[PleasureKing]

^^^No homo but you raw as hell

what?

 

[Raikojo17]

^^^No homo but you raw as hell

u guys such jealous idiots sumtimes. y not take some advice sumtimes instead of fighting it. u might improve, who knos?

 

[asdfghjkl]

Hmm, i suspect before you make a move you should probably try talking to her haha. Dont worry about it, like you said, she said she likes you, so its not like she wont be open to conversation. I bet as soon as you open her, she will be all smiles and positive body language.

And, just to add to Pleasureking's post, if your having a real hard time making conversation, or theres just an awkward pause, try looking at your surroundings, i bet theres something funny/stupid going on somewhere.