Well, I got involved with this very hot female from work several months back. We dated for almost seven months. Eventually we became close and started spending a lot of time together. I was spending many nights with her. She has a kid and he and I became quite attached. By the fourth months, she had started making plans to be with me for a long time and eventually started saying that she wanted to marry me someday. Although I had really strong feeling for her, I just didn’t think I could marry her.
The problem was that she was just a selfish and materialistic person. She is very career orientated and almost makes twice as much as I and quite independent but I just really didn’t like those aspects about her and she could be quite moody as well. But despite all of this, I did try hard to make things work until I just said “F” it and I walked away from it all.
She was crying and crap and trying to get me back real tough before I made it clear to her that I just couldn’t deal with things anymore and that I was ready to move on. She texted me about 3 weeks after we broke up and said she missed me and she asked if we could go out to dinner. We did go out to dinner and she took me to this really upscale, fancy restaurant. I felt awkward that she treated me out to such a nice place because at that time, I had no plans to get back with her. I just missed her and really wanted to see her. By that time, I was already having sex with my new GF. She did try to reach out to me a few more times but I was real cool towards her.
So I did move on and started dating someone I dated several years back. My new GF is a really nice person and has most attributes that I want in a LTR. She is definitely marriage material although she is not as hot as my other ex, matter-of-fact, although she has quite a bit of sex appeal she is just plain Jane compared to my ex at work.
The problem is that I see my ex around work all the time since we work in the same area. She seem to be going out of her way to look extra nice every day now at work. I was working at a different site for the last two months after we broke up but now I am back and it is so hard to see her now and not want to talk her. We may say “hi” sometimes if we come face to face but that is just about it. She doesn't go out of her way to say anything to me but I figure that it may be because I declined an offer for friendship when we broke up. I am feeling the strong urge to call her because despite her flaws, I miss her and it just seem strange not to talk to her anymore. Do you think I would be out of line if I call her? I really don’t know what might happen but its just kind of burning me up a bit to see her so much and not say anything to her. I do still have feelings for her though but I didn’t know it was to this extent until we started working together so much. I am really confused now with my new GF and all.
The problem was that she was just a selfish and materialistic person. She is very career orientated and almost makes twice as much as I and quite independent but I just really didn’t like those aspects about her and she could be quite moody as well. But despite all of this, I did try hard to make things work until I just said “F” it and I walked away from it all.
She was crying and crap and trying to get me back real tough before I made it clear to her that I just couldn’t deal with things anymore and that I was ready to move on. She texted me about 3 weeks after we broke up and said she missed me and she asked if we could go out to dinner. We did go out to dinner and she took me to this really upscale, fancy restaurant. I felt awkward that she treated me out to such a nice place because at that time, I had no plans to get back with her. I just missed her and really wanted to see her. By that time, I was already having sex with my new GF. She did try to reach out to me a few more times but I was real cool towards her.
So I did move on and started dating someone I dated several years back. My new GF is a really nice person and has most attributes that I want in a LTR. She is definitely marriage material although she is not as hot as my other ex, matter-of-fact, although she has quite a bit of sex appeal she is just plain Jane compared to my ex at work.
The problem is that I see my ex around work all the time since we work in the same area. She seem to be going out of her way to look extra nice every day now at work. I was working at a different site for the last two months after we broke up but now I am back and it is so hard to see her now and not want to talk her. We may say “hi” sometimes if we come face to face but that is just about it. She doesn't go out of her way to say anything to me but I figure that it may be because I declined an offer for friendship when we broke up. I am feeling the strong urge to call her because despite her flaws, I miss her and it just seem strange not to talk to her anymore. Do you think I would be out of line if I call her? I really don’t know what might happen but its just kind of burning me up a bit to see her so much and not say anything to her. I do still have feelings for her though but I didn’t know it was to this extent until we started working together so much. I am really confused now with my new GF and all.
