should I reply to her message?

[edegoge]

don't give up dude she sounds like a real catch.

Just called her, she did pick up the phone weirdly enough. But she was in bed, and she said she didn't reply to the message because "she was eating". Obvious bullsh1t. I know you're being ironic but yeah, not the greatest woman in the world, 6/10 maybe looks wise, sh1tty personality.

 

[edegoge]

The stupid whöre wants to meet tomorrow afternoon.

Should I meet her or not? What would you have done?

 

[edegoge]

And also, should I have a wank now or not? I've got the wine. Anyone else ever fapped while drinking?

 

[edegoge]

Ok, so maybe someone can respond to this. In December last year I fücked a 5/10 woman. I didn't like her super much and she was super easy. I mean, she pretty much approached me, sat down really close to me on a bench in a subway station even though there was plenty of space. I just said hi and minutes later I had her number, and later when scheduling the first date she asked if she could come to my home. So she came straight here and we fücked right away. And then she wanted to leave right after we fücked. And she didn't want me to drive her home, presumably because she didn't want me to know where she lived. For these two reasons, A) that I didn't like her a lot and B) that she was super easy to fück, I decided to give it a shot to ask her if she could bring a female friend next time, and she was talking about coming here again. She stopped replying a few days later, probably because I asked that question.

So my question is, should I try the same thing with this whöre that wants to meet me tomorrow? Ask her if she wants to have a threesome with another woman. Maybe go to some bar and try to pick up a woman that can come with us to a hotel room, because it's probably not going to be good in my small apartment, although we might go here first and then go to a hotel. But I fapped yesterday and every day before that for several days so my libido and stamina might not be that great.

 

[ShayB]

I am still trying to process your request for permission to have a wank.

 

[MrWood]

re-reading this thread...
you are 33 and she is 31, she is Euro

She is right, in her mind, you are too young.
I date younger chicks, Scandinavian/Russian in their 30s, they all say men in their age range are "boys"
in America this is not true at all, however.

Most all women I know say a guy 42-50 is the right age for kids/ltr etc.

 

[edegoge]

re-reading this thread...
you are 33 and she is 31, she is Euro

She is right, in her mind, you are too young.
I date younger chicks, Scandinavian/Russian in their 30s, they all say men in their age range are "boys"
in America this is not true at all, however.

Most all women I know say a guy 42-50 is the right age for kids/ltr etc.

No, she is from Colombia, I'm from Europe. And what she said about me being too young is total bullsh1t. I've never heard anyone say 50 is a good age to become a father, stop pulling sh1t out of your ass. She probably thought I was too poor, or too weak physically or mentally, or whatever, I don't know, for having children. As I said the father of her child was younger than I am now when they had the child, and when I asked her about this it was obvious she was lying, was trying to change the age of her child which she had already told me, then tried to play dumb like she didn't understand the most basic English etc.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

I don't understand what you're trying to ask here. If you don't get on with her, stop seeing her. I really don't understand the problem.

Every post you're ranting about how much you can't stand this woman and you're also ranting about how much you want to come over and sleep with you. It seems very self destructive and weird.

 

[edegoge]

Just woke up, 2 pm now. No message from her. I don't think I will message her. But even if she messages me I'm not sure whether I want to or should meet her, because of:
A) Her insults, especially that I can't have a child, I can't get over it.
B) The fact that even though she messaged me first yesterday and even though she was home and not doing sh1t she took between 10 minutes and an hour to reply almost every fücking time. I also saw her online whatsapp at times, presumably chatting to someone else.
C) I fapped for hours last night. Wanted to try while drinking. Was nothing special by the way. Maybe because I had fapped the day before. I'm gonna do a one-week nofap and then try fapping while drinking again, then after that I will begin nofap+noporn again from then onward. Might stop using dating sites too, I feel like that has almost the same negative effect on me as porn and fapping.

 

[edegoge]

I don't understand what you're trying to ask here. If you don't get on with her, stop seeing her. I really don't understand the problem.

Every post you're ranting about how much you can't stand this woman and you're also ranting about how much you want to come over and sleep with you. It seems very self destructive and weird.

Yeah, you're right. I guess I'm asking what to do, and if I should meet her, because A) I don't know what to make of my feelings, for example about how she insulted me, and how she took forever to reply yesterday even though she apparently wasn't doing anything. B) I don't have any other options right now, besides one woman who is 10 years older than me that texts me every day but I haven't replied for a month or something. She's wants to marry and have children and I don't want that with her. I don't like her very much, I thought she was moralizing. And she doesn't want to have penetrative sex yet, only handjobs. Only reason I didn't block her is that I thought maybe it looks good if I'm with a woman and I get messages or calls, because nobody else ever messages or calls me and it might not give a good impression if you're with a woman for hours and get no messages or calls during that time. That's another insulting thing this Colombian slüt did, asked me if I have any friends. C) I don't feel like approaching other women, I've been fapping too much lately and feel like sh1t about that after over 2 years nofap. And on dating sites I don't get that many replies.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Yeah, you're right. I guess I'm asking what to do, and if I should meet her, because A) I don't know what to make of my feelings, for example about how she insulted me, and how she took forever to reply yesterday even though she apparently wasn't doing anything.

The most obvious question here, have you tried actually talking to her about how she made you feel? You said she backtracked and made some excuse for what she said at the time, but if it genuinely hurt you, you should tell her that.

Continuing to sleep with her and just ignoring it is going to suggest to her that what she said didn't upset you when it clearly did. She probably meant it as a throwaway remark rather than an insult, and possibly didn't think about how you would take it. But if you just let it slide without calling it (respectfully and without anger) then you're not going to fix the problem.

It's not weakness just to express irritation or insult to a woman who has made you feel bad. It's emotional honesty.

If you have a relationship in which you can't tell your girl she's p*ssed you off, it's going to be s***ty. Rather than getting angry about it, just tell her calmly that you weren't happy with the remark she made. Explain why. If she's b*tchy about it then you can finish things, if she's worth having around she'll probably apologise and give you more respect in the future.

Just continuing to have sex without saying anything is probably the worst thing you can do. If a girl disses me I call her on it and 90% of the time they don't even realise what they said was an insult.

 

[edegoge]

The most obvious question here, have you tried actually talking to her about how she made you feel? You said she backtracked and made some excuse for what she said at the time, but if it genuinely hurt you, you should tell her that.

Continuing to sleep with her and just ignoring it is going to suggest to her that what she said didn't upset you when it clearly did. She probably meant it as a throwaway remark rather than an insult, and possibly didn't think about how you would take it. But if you just let it slide without calling it (respectfully and without anger) then you're not going to fix the problem.

It's not weakness just to express irritation or insult to a woman who has made you feel bad. It's emotional honesty.

If you have a relationship in which you can't tell your girl she's p*ssed you off, it's going to be s***ty. Rather than getting angry about it, just tell her calmly that you weren't happy with the remark she made. Explain why. If she's b*tchy about it then you can finish things, if she's worth having around she'll probably apologise and give you more respect in the future.

Just continuing to have sex without saying anything is probably the worst thing you can do. If a girl disses me I call her on it and 90% of the time they don't even realise what they said was an insult.

I didn't tell her I was insulted but it should have been obvious, but then again not much is obvious to a feeble-minded subhuman like her. Do you do keep seeing women who have insulted you no matter how great the insult?

 

[edegoge]

I get that people can have a life, they can be busy. But she is ALWAYS busy, and I don't recall that she was like this when I first started talking to her. Just now I sent her "good morning". She went online instantly, replied, asked "how are you?". But then I asked instantly "and you?", and then this b1tch logged out and it's now been 15 minutes and no reply. EVERY FÜCKING time it's like this. I doubt she's genuinely busy every time, it's just a compulsive behavior on her part to log out and take forever to reply. Or even be logged in and yet not reply, even go online and offline multiple times and not reply.

And yet it was SHE that messaged me first yesterday, I hadn't messaged her anything in a week and thought it was over with her.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

I didn't tell her I was insulted but it should have been obvious, but then again not much is obvious to a feeble-minded subhuman like her. Do you do keep seeing women who have insulted you no matter how great the insult?

If I'm honest, women I'm seeing don't insult me mate. My GF spent most of her time either kissing me or telling me I was a great guy.

That's the kind of woman you want - someone who treats you right, like you treat them. Also dude, you're banging this girl. You are asking her to come round and have sex with you. That means you value her at least a little - no need to be calling her subhuman, that is no way to treat a person.

If you don't like her, move on and see someone else. Insulting her helps no-one, and it makes you sound bitter.

 

[MrWood]

she lies, yet you want her
she disrespects you, yet you want her
she insults you, yet you want her

are your friends disrespectful, insultive or liars?

yet, this is someone you still want to put your c0ck inside?

 

[edegoge]

she lies, yet you want her
she disrespects you, yet you want her
she insults you, yet you want her

are your friends disrespectful, insultive or liars?

yet, this is someone you still want to put your c0ck inside?

I don't have any friends.

 

[MrWood]

then let us guys come over and treat you like sh1t, im sure you will get off on that?
no?

DO YOU NOT GET WHAT WE ARE TRYING TO TELL YOU?

 

[edegoge]

Stupid piece of sh1t woman says she has stomach pain. Pretty sure she's lying. I don't know why the fück she texted me yesterday. Sh1t woman.


I'm considering whether I should send her a message telling her to fück off.

 

[MrWood]

stop responding
you need to go full NC

 

[edegoge]

She says she can't meet today because she's in a bad mood due to her period. Never heard of any woman that becomes totally incapacitated just because she's on her period.