Should I presue this girl?

Doonoo

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So this girl I've been talking to on and off has been giving me mixed signals. Like she knows I like her (because I asked her out last week) but then she gave this excuse that her and a ex had a bad time, and then I asked for her sc and she said sure she would give it to me. But today I was just standing next to a rail ( this is high school) and she just oddly looked at me and walked passed me. I've decided myself not to talk to her but I'm thinking maybe I'm irrational. When we talk she usually laughs at my jokes, but I know jokes don't mean ****. What should I do?
 

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When she gives excuse then she is not interested, just ask yourself would you give excuse to someone you want to go out with and she ignored you which is obviosly disrespect.. forget about her, since you have no history it should be easy..
 

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You shouldn't presue anyone unless you want to be laughed out of court.
 

FwoGiZ

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She is clearly not interested.
Start acting distant a bit, start hitting on other girls instead and see how she reacts but don't waste your time and effort any more on her if you've already 1. pitched a date and 2. got her sc and now she's playing games
 

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You're confused. Girls with high interest won't leave you confused about their intentions.
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You asked her out. She gave you an excuse not to go, with no counter offer.
Find other girls. This one isn't interested.
 

GT40

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Move on. She's not interested
Why waste your valuable time. Not worth the effort at all.
What do you have to gain vs lose?
Forget her.
 

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So this girl I've been talking to on and off has been giving me mixed signals. Like she knows I like her (because I asked her out last week) but then she gave this excuse that her and a ex had a bad time, and then I asked for her sc and she said sure she would give it to me. But today I was just standing next to a rail ( this is high school) and she just oddly looked at me and walked passed me. I've decided myself not to talk to her but I'm thinking maybe I'm irrational. When we talk she usually laughs at my jokes, but I know jokes don't mean ****. What should I do?
Nothing. Go live your life. Meet new girls. Lots of them. Date have fun. You're in highschool. Take nothing serious from a girl under 25. Do not commit to them. Do not get attached to them.

Highschool girls brains haven't finished developing yet. They aren't mature enough. They will change their mind from one day to the next about what they like and what they don't.
Do not get caught up in the mental disaster that is a girl under 25. They aren't capable of having a real relationship.

Date. Have fun. But give zero f_cks.
 
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