Should I pass the really low hanging fruit?

[Smooth_texter]

Hi forum.


So this week I matched with a nurse on OLD. A 3 out of 10, early 40s. From the get go, she was very eager and we started some pretty heavy sexting. She said that she is only interested in having a s*x buddy and meeting just for that.
Basically she is down to come at my house for the first date (which is a major no for me, as I like to screen first, and also value my privacy, peace and quiet). I have set up a coffee date this weekend for entertainment purposes.


The thing is, she seems too promiscuous (judging by the sexting and the stuff she describes she does) and a single mother. Very probable to have unnecessary drama with her.
However, it has been 5 months since the last time I had s*x and also have been grinding my @ss off at work with 10-14 hrs workdays a couple of times each week. Which left me with no time for hobbies and rest. So I am stressed and not in a very good place mentally.


So my legit question would be - would you basically risk and have a no effort and zero investment FWB (who seems a bit shady/promiscuous) in order to get a quick mental and confidence boost, or not? This would help me get positive traction in all areas in my life, and to gradually start building hobbies and social circles.


P.S. I am aware that redpill gurus advise to date/sleep with women aged 20-23 even if you are in your 70s. However, I have found that in real life women even in their 40s have unlimited options and things are a bit different.

P.S.2 I am 60-70% leaning towards "No".

 

[member160292]

The bitter taste still left in your mouth...it lingers, knowingly, that you dropped your standards to bust a nut.

 

[Smooth_texter]

The bitter taste still left in your mouth...it lingers, knowingly, that you dropped your standards to bust a nut.

I am used to usually having relations with 7s. However, a new and interested one comes every two years or so, which is a lot of time.

Currently my problem is that I am not very social because of the workload and stress, but I will aim to change this, as this would solve a lot of my current problems.

A few sessions with this woman might boost my will to do something with my life (both because of the release, but also because this would be more or less rock bottom for me, dating wise)

 

[CyrusTheGreat]

Hi forum.

So this week I matched with a nurse on OLD. A 3 out of 10, early 40s. From the get go, she was very eager and we started some pretty heavy sexting. She said that she is only interested in having a s*x buddy and meeting just for that.
Basically she is down to come at my house for the first date (which is a major no for me, as I like to screen first, and also value my privacy, peace and quiet). I have set up a coffee date this weekend for entertainment purposes.

The thing is, she seems too promiscuous (judging by the sexting and the stuff she describes she does) and a single mother. Very probable to have unnecessary drama with her.
However, it has been 5 months since the last time I had s*x and also have been grinding my @ss off at work with 10-14 hrs workdays a couple of times each week. Which left me with no time for hobbies and rest. So I am stressed and not in a very good place mentally.

So my legit question would be - would you basically risk and have a no effort and zero investment FWB (who seems a bit shady/promiscuous) in order to get a quick mental and confidence boost, or not? This would help me get positive traction in all areas in my life, and to gradually start building hobbies and social circles.

Honestly, I don't think it's good to f*ck ugly and/or promiscuous chicks. It can negatively affect your sense of self-worth and your expectations from future LTRs.

P.S. I am aware that redpill gurus advise to date/sleep with women aged 20-23 even if you are in your 70s. However, I have found that in real life women even in their 40s have unlimited options and things are a bit different.

They might have lots of options, but they simply don't want those options.

P.S.2 I am 60-70% leaning towards "No".

There is your answer.

 

[Smooth_texter]

Honestly, I don't think it's good to f*ck ugly and/or promiscuous chicks. It can negatively affect your sense of self-worth and your expectations from future LTRs.


They might have lots of options, but they simply don't want those options.


There is your answer.

I've honestly never f*cked ugly or promiscuous chicks as well, it's more like a long drought, coupled with a few other things that led me to consider this.

 

[LucianoM]

Go for it, its better than jerking off. Plenty of guys smash ugly girls.

 

[devilkingx2]

Hi forum.


So this week I matched with a nurse on OLD. A 3 out of 10, early 40s. From the get go, she was very eager and we started some pretty heavy sexting. She said that she is only interested in having a s*x buddy and meeting just for that.
Basically she is down to come at my house for the first date (which is a major no for me, as I like to screen first, and also value my privacy, peace and quiet). I have set up a coffee date this weekend for entertainment purposes.


The thing is, she seems too promiscuous (judging by the sexting and the stuff she describes she does) and a single mother. Very probable to have unnecessary drama with her.
However, it has been 5 months since the last time I had s*x and also have been grinding my @ss off at work with 10-14 hrs workdays a couple of times each week. Which left me with no time for hobbies and rest. So I am stressed and not in a very good place mentally.


So my legit question would be - would you basically risk and have a no effort and zero investment FWB (who seems a bit shady/promiscuous) in order to get a quick mental and confidence boost, or not? This would help me get positive traction in all areas in my life, and to gradually start building hobbies and social circles.


P.S. I am aware that redpill gurus advise to date/sleep with women aged 20-23 even if you are in your 70s. However, I have found that in real life women even in their 40s have unlimited options and things are a bit different.

P.S.2 I am 60-70% leaning towards "No".

She sounds absolutely fantastic. If she's eager to have sex with you without costing you a lot of time or money then what is there to complain about? What more is there to ask for?

Wait she's a 3/10!?!? Woah. You might need to drink a bottle of liquor for that. Now I can see the hesitation.

Personally I'd still do it but I wouldn't tell anybody or be proud of it. It's a nut not an accomplishment in this case. Better than a dry spell.

 

[pipeman84]

You're playing with matches and a lighter at the gas station.

So my legit question would be - would you basically risk and have a no effort and zero investment FWB (who seems a bit shady/promiscuous) in order to get a quick mental and confidence boost, or not? This would help me get positive traction in all areas in my life, and to gradually start building hobbies and social circles.

- no effort, zero investment FWB ... that's what you THINK ... you have no idea what kind of psycho she could be
- if fvcking what you describe based on OLD photo as a 3/10 (in reality might be 1/10) is such a boost for your life, then that indicates you have some major issues to resolve ... you're trying to solve a deep knife wound to the chest by putting a band aid (and by all indications a poisonous one), when you actually need surgery.

 

[Michael Chief]

However, it has been 5 months since the last time I had s*x

Holy sh!t...

Ideally you should sleep with women you're actually attracted to but 5 months is pretty extreme and I can understand how you'd want to just take whatever you can get. I don't know what 3 out of 10 means to you exactly, but if you can actually find her attractive in some way, go for it. If you think she's not attractive at all, though, step up your damn game and find someone who is.

 

[member160292]

I am used to usually having relations with 7s. However, a new and interested one comes every two years or so, which is a lot of time.

Currently my problem is that I am not very social because of the workload and stress, but I will aim to change this, as this would solve a lot of my current problems.

A few sessions with this woman might boost my will to do something with my life (both because of the release, but also because this would be more or less rock bottom for me, dating wise)

If you got the money, just hire an escort. One and done, on with your life/career, no second thoughts.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Been there and done that, always regretted it

 

[MatureDJ]

The bitter taste still left in your mouth...it lingers, knowingly, that you dropped your standards to bust a nut.

I still get chills down my spine when I think of a few women I've done. The borderline mentally retarded one was the one that made me get much more careful.

 

[MatureDJ]

Go for it, its better than jerking off. Plenty of guys smash ugly girls.

No, it's not.

 

[RazorRambo24]

She's a 3/10 and in her early 40s.. why do you think shes so desperate? sounds gross to me man, why even bother..

 

[Mike32ct]

Nothing wrong with a slump buster, but usually “4” is the limit.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi SmoothTexter,
Though my normal attitude would be that you learn from every interface.With this one,I strongly advise caution,being a Nurse didn't help her avoid pregnacy and probably hasn't helped her avoid the hordes of STD's that are widespread amongst Ladies like this...Best avoided.

 

[DonJuanjr]

A don juan loves women. I think there's value in being able to appreciate sex with lower value women. I've had much better sex with the two lower value women I've been with vs the higher value and average. The higher value had the loosest pusssy, while the most recent lower value knew how to grip her pusssy and had the tightest.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

redpill gurus advise to date/sleep with women aged 20-23 even if you are in your 70s

Holy Mother of God.... *sighs*

would you basically risk and have a no effort and zero investment FWB (who seems a bit shady/promiscuous) in order to get a quick mental and confidence boost

Well....do you think that^ would happen afterwards? And not the opposite?

Personally, by your description, I wouldn't. I have a few friends who probably would though. To each his own.

Nothing wrong with meeting for coffee IMO. Maybe she's got that in person sex appeal or something that works for ya...

 

[Murk]

Depends... is she a 3/10 because she's fat or because she's ugly?

If fat, depends on how fat, maybe you could get her to come over and suck you off/bust in her mouth.

If she's ugly but has a decent body, invite her over to smash, for me the benefits would outweigh the cons.

I think you're scared/talking about privacy/meeting in public (seriously why do that with a 3/10?) because you are intimidated, that's not very manly bro, she's a 40 year old single mother nurse, you think she's going to rob you? Are you 5'4?

With girls like this the only way it works is them coming straight to your house and leaving 1-3 hours later. No dates, no public, then when they leave have a shower and relax/try to forget.

I would say go for it but you're clearly not that guy.

 

[CyrusTheGreat]

I imagine that you will spent 3-5 hrs/week for banging this chick. You can use this time to develop a hobby or sharpen your skills that will refresh your mind, release your tension, and overall leave you in a better place.

With girls like this the only way it works is them coming straight to your house and leaving 1-3 hours later. No dates, no public, then when they leave have a shower and relax/try to forget.

Why would you do something that you need to forget afterwards? Doesn't sound like it's enjoyable.