should I pass on the sex

[napoleon]

OK, this saturday I'll see a girl I've gone out with 2 times, (1st time is the night I met her in the club, we made out), and I'm coming to her house this saturday. She is very horny . But the thing is I don't want sex right away so I was thinking that, when she starts to undress herself or me, I'll say "Lets go slow." My question is- Will that get her IL up (cause who passes on free sex), or will I blow the chance, and, mind you, I WANT to have sex with her but after, lets say, 2 weeks, not just yet.
On the first date(not the night when we met) I sucked her nipples, she was riding me,rubbed her pussi through her clothes, everything... she's very horny.


SHORT:
If I say to a horny girl (that wants to have sex with me), not yet, will I blow my chances of having sex with her at all?

 

[MacDiddy]

her IL will go down... you'll just make her feel cheap by refusing her offer.

 

[seagull]

her IL will go down... you'll just make her feel cheap by refusing her offer.

I agree, if you don't **** her she will find somebody else who will.

You may raise her IL by sleeping with her because she will probably want to come back for more.

 

[napoleon]

I agree, if you don't **** her she will find somebody else who will.

You may raise her IL by sleeping with her because she will probably want to come back for more.

Every guy buys flowers, writes poetry and wants to have sex with her...so? Maybe she'll be a little intrigued why I don't want to have sex with her like every other guy...ar am I wrong (looks like it)

 

[mrRuckus]

If I say to a horny girl (that wants to have sex with me), not yet, will I blow my chances of having sex with her at all?

Probably not.

I say no a fair amount, and it doesn't really affect anything. It might come down to how you say no.

I don't get why you want to stop. If you don't want to have sex just don't push it to that level. Fool around as much as you want and if she really starts pushing for all the way (they usually aren't the ones saying put it in put in since they expect you to take that initiative) just say it's getting late or you just don't want to go that far yet. Sure she'll wonder why but i've never seen one run away like "i'm gonna get a real man who will fvck me" like guys here always make it sound. A man can control his desires.

I play it slow when i feel like. I go fast when i feel like. Never really noticed a difference. She either wants to fvck me or she doesn't. Man so much of this sh1t is just pointless to worry about. If you have her interested in your personality she's not going to just go away because you don't hump her leg at your first opportunity.



oh nevermind she's just some club wh0re it sounds like now that i re-read it. no holds barred

 

[seagull]

Every guy buys flowers, writes poetry and wants to have sex with her...so? Maybe she'll be a little intrigued why I don't want to have sex with her like every other guy...ar am I wrong (looks like it)

She wants to have sex. You are the one for her at the moment. If you don't come up with the goods, she will find someone else who can deliver. You could be right, but based on your description of her, she sounds like someone who just wants to get laid, whether by you, or someone else.

 

[napoleon]

The main reason I don't want to fuk her yet is cause I want to know her better (not her personality, but I don't want to stick my d1ck in somebody that has 3 d1cks a day:cuss: , my health comes first. Yes, I wanna eat her too )

 

[BlackJackal]

Every guy buys flowers, writes poetry and wants to have sex with her...so? Maybe she'll be a little intrigued why I don't want to have sex with her like every other guy...ar am I wrong (looks like it)

Aww poor her, every man who thinks she's attractive wants to have sex with her.

And? That comes with the territory of being attractive. Sex is the reason anything gets done between a man and a woman. I dont know why people try to fool themselves otherwise. You're no different from those other guys. Your goal is the same, but you're trying some vain noble route to get there. Not to say you dont want more, but you know like I know what it all comes down to.

Just have sex with the girl, she'll be alright. Besides, women wouldn't admit it, but they'd have a heart attack if the world never found them attractive/ or never wanted sex from them.

 

[BlackJackal]

The main reason I don't want to fuk her yet is cause I want to know her better (not her personality, but I don't want to stick my d1ck in somebody that has 3 d1cks a day:cuss: , my health comes first. Yes, I wanna eat her too )

Oh I didn't read this part. If you're that concerned (which you should) then you either ask her to take and std test, or not fvck her at all. 3 d!cks a day? damn.:crackup:

 

[napoleon]

3 d1cks in a day is a methaphor man!:crackup: I don't know how many she's had. That's the whole poit of this thread. But I decided this. My health comes first...if she is a hor and lets me go for not fuking her (that is if she only wants sex with me) so be it. In sex vs. d1ck, my d1ck always wins:trouble:

 

[STR8UP]

With a woman there is something that is called a "window of opportunity".

You can walk the tightrope and hope it will amp up her attraction, but it's a big gamble. Personally I would rather fukk her once which puts the ball in YOUR court, THEN you can pull the strings with a little more leverage.

 

[MacDiddy]

A man is meant to lead... unfortunately, you lead her too quick down this path to horny land and for you to back out now could be fatal. If you got a handle on this girl, then lead her to settle down a bit without getting to hot and heavy. Don't tease her coz she'll want it even more and come flat out and tell you she wants to fcuk where your not yet might be taken as a serious rejection. she'll probably go find someone else just to see if there is anything wrong with her and if there isn't (if she's hot then no), then she'll think there is something wrong with you.

 

[Obsidian]

Ok, I will now state your best response strategy in this particular interaction. Listen closely:

She is a hor. You may pimp a hor if you so desire, but do not love her. If you go too softly with a hor, you WILL lower her IL, in all likelihood. And you might not get another chance.

Since your main hangup is your health (rather than morality, emotions, etc.), have intercourse with her using a condom. And then you can slow things down if you want afterward. Save the oral stuff 'til later so you can make sure it's safe.