Should I next?

[TheWanderer]

Alright, so the same b*tch my last 4 threads have been about......well, we were going to hang out today. Well, she is going out of town for about a week....leaving tomorrow, so today was our last chance to hang out for a while. So, she tells me she hopes she can do something today since her mom might want her to stay home and clean or pack her bags......So I give her a break and beleive her since I've seen her mom and I know what she's like.

Well, she calls this morning, and she's like "I'm cleaning my room so I can go out with you tonight......hope my mom lets me though......call me around 4 and I'll let you know." So that's what I did, I called around 4 and her dad answers and says she isn't home. Aight, now I'm gettin mad but I decide to give her a break. SO I call back at 5:30, and her dad answers again, still not home, and this time I'm smart enough to ask at what time she'd be home and he says prolly not until 8.

Alright, first I thought she could have gone somewhere with her mom to do some sh*t.....but please, until 8? So I'm pissed as hell right now, I was driving around in my car listenin to rap, and right now I feel like if I see her (or anyone who I don't like or annoys me) I'll just rip their head off.

Now, maybe she was out with her mom or whatever, but until I know what actually happened, I hope she gets raped and gets aids and dies. I mean, if you read my other threads, you saw I was getting all the right signals and I had a green light and sh*t. But she didn't even bother to call me to tell me she had other things to do, that's what bothers me the most.......but to quote eminem:
"Not a jelous man but females lie
But I guess thats just what sluts do"

So, as of now, I can't wait to talk to her and tell her to f*ck off.....cus I'm not gonna put up with this sh*t.

What do you guys think?

 

[blienk]

Yeah, so that's pretty flakey. You can't let it piss you off so much though. First, there's always the chance that she has a legitimate excuse, so you should try to find out before you b*tch her out or anything. Secondly, and most important, if she did flake on you then she's only proving that she's a high-quality chick. It's her loss, not yours.

 

[TheWanderer]

btw, she's going outta town tomorrow.....and she'll be gone for a week. Should I call her tonight try to see what the hell happened? I mean, my pride says no, but I don't wanna have this on my mind for more than a week.

Eh........anyone else wanna help me out?

 

[UltimateScoundrel]

I would call her and find out what happened if I were you.

 

[TheWanderer]

Well...........my friend who was all worried about this when I told her......she called her even though I didn't want her to. Anyways, she didn't say she was calling for me, in fact she just talked to her dad and he told her that this girl had been "out and about all day"


idk, what do you guys think?

 

[Jerky Boi]

Well, before you go out and chew her out for flaking on you, call her and see what exactly happened. If your friend called and her dad answered and said that same thing he said to you, then she probably was out doing something.

 

[TheWanderer]

Ya, prolly too late to call her now though. Her dad said she was getting ready for bed (to my friend) so she's prolly asleep now. And she'll be out of town for a week.

I think I'll do as my best friend (and biggest player I've ever met) told me to.......ignore her for a while. haha, won't be too hard since she won't be in town, but wouldnt not talking to me raise her IL? I mean, she will HAVE to be thinking about me like all week if she's human and she feels guilty about pulling this sh*t on me today. So not talking to her could actually work out well for me, huh?


Anyways, i dont know what will happen, but I do know one thing though, I'm not gonna sit around and think about her. Me and my best friend are going to some festival tmm night and pick up chicks.....should be successful since he always gets what he wants, and well, I'll be the good looking stronger friend, lol.

More advice will be welcomed

 

[Jerky Boi]

Yea dude That's probably the best thing you can do right now. That sounds like a great idea. Just go out and have fun, try not to think about her, and above all, don't worry about what's going to happen with you and her. If she sincerely feels sorry about what she did, she'll call you and apologize and try to set something up. Good luck

 

[TheWanderer]

Alright, update. ***** just called me right now......of coarse she had to call. So she tells me she went to her friend's house because her friend's parents almost like abuse her and so does her bf so she went over to her house so her friend wouldn't kill herself.

Well, that would have been cool and all if she would have called me to let me know, thats what bothered me the most. She said she tried calling me but her mom wouldn't let her use the phone and her cell phone is a piece of sh*t (its like 30 years old, I've seen it) and it wouldn't work.

Honestly I don't know what the hell to think of this. Give her another chance? Ignore her? Either way, she was all complaining about how she'll be so bored this week since she's only with her family in the middle of nowhere........so I'm glad, she deserves it.

 

[UltimateScoundrel]

Sounds like bull**** to me. Anyway, weems like there are many things that are more important to this girl than you. If she can't make time for you now, she never will.