should I Next this HB7?

[909pua]

thanks guys for all the advice. you guys are really good at this. i'm molding my mind like all you DJs.

 

[909pua]

ok here is an update. after not seeing, talking, texting, calling her since Friday night last week, she sees me at work today, Thursday. To those of you that don't know, i met her at work and before i boned her, she would visit me everyday. Now she comes visits me and I need to know what the master DJs think or someone experienced how I'm doing so far. The whole conversation, i felt a sexual vibe from her but I don't wanna be a chump so i kept my cool. The following is our dialogue:

HB7: WHere have you been, I haven't seen you, i stopped here monday, tuesday, but i didn't come yesterday
Me: Ahh, i've been busy, been out to the field alot and running here and there getting work done
HB7: Oh ok
Me: So what you been doing?
HB7: Well i ended up leaving work on Sunday and went to Knotts Berry Farm rode all the rides and that place was empty
Me: Oh that's cool so what else?
HB7: On Tuesday i wanted to watch Transformers but there were no times after 7 pm
Me: Ahhh man i dont like the new transformers. I'm old school, i like the old transformers better. People only want to watch the new one because of that girl megan fox
HB7: Well go watch it then. Don't you think she's fine.
Me: Ya i think she is, but my philosophy is if I can't take them home, why bother watching them (I was busting up and joking at this point)

At this point, she showed me she didn't like that comment and got kinda jealous

Me: girl, im just playing...
HB7: Instead of watching Transformers, I stayed home and watched a movie
Me: Oh that's cool. A friend of mine told me about a good movie, she said that its a movie about some guys that they get drunk and then the next day they end up with all these girls and all these unusual things that they can't remember the day before.
HB7: Oh, that's hangover
Me: ya hangover. But what i really want to watch is that johnny depp movie "public enemies" on july 1 (this is the day me and her are supposedly suppose to get together to watch it from our agreement a few weeks back).
Me: But you know what, i dont think imma watch it, i have a doctors appointment that day
HB7: For what?
Me: Oh, just a general checkup
HB7: Oh, i see since you work out alot you want to keep in shape and keep fit
Me: Ya
HB7: How is your kickboxing, you still doing it? Do you even wear protection cause you can get hurt
Me: Ya I got hurt already, i caught knees to my rib cages twice already, had a dead leg numbed and bruised from getting kicked and got my eardrum blown out twice already. Ya i do wear protection, i only wear a cup, shin guards, mouth piece.
HB7: THat's all? How about your face?
Me: Well i dont have a head gear, we fight for real.
HB7: Wow, you like being rough huh
Me: Yes I do, I like it ruff>....(giving her the look and she smiles back at me, she knows what I'm talking about)
HB7: Look i got my peticures and manicures done
Me: (I just look over and don't say anything).
Me: Wow, so its been a while, you look a bit different
HB7: (she gives me that look like what am i talking about. At this point, from being in control over me, shes losing her control and her confidence is going down. SHe starts to show me her weakside but I keep the heat up)

Then the rest of the time she lingers around me, and we make more small talk...then she says "well I'll let you go then"

Then i give her a hug and I say bye...

The whole time i could feel the sexual tension but I didnt' want to ask her to hang out because I'm afraid she'll regain control of the situation and might come up with something and say "Oh no, i can't today" just so she can prove to herself that I still want her.

What you guys think? Am I in the right track? What shall I do next? I haven't texted or called her, she was probably expecting one!

 

[imaginemypotential]

Nice your back on track, wait a week if she doesn't ask you out ask her

 

[909pua]

Nice your back on track, wait a week if she doesn't ask you out ask her

man i know for a fact this girl is HORNY, i could see it in her eyes...so just to punish her for her misbehavior the last week, i played with her head. I know at some point, her hormones will overcome her

Man i swear, im gonna give it to her for being bad and I will let her know this by pulling her hair in doggy style...

 

[909pua]

BTW i asked her today if she wanted to kick it and she said "no not today im kinda tired and im going to a club tonight at 9 pm" and then I was like "what no way" then i turned around kinda pissed (BIG MISTAKE) and looked at my table..she said "hey don't ignore me and don't be a jerk" and I said "I'm not being a jerk" and then I said "well that's cool, then if you're tired and you have to go to a club then just go with your friends" then she says "well i have at least 1 hour" and i said "no way, i know you can dish out more than that"...then she became kinda hesitant then i pulled her arm and said "give me more than that" then she says OK then i said "meet me here at 5 pm". 5 pm came and we met. she went in my car then i give her hug and an erotic 1 minute kiss. Then we drove off and she asks "where are we going" and I say "we are gonna go get a room" she says "no i dont have alot of time" and then I say "well i had planned our day out and i wanted to get a room and get dinner afterwards. if you don't wanna go by my plan then its ok i can take you back to your car" she says "ok then just take me back, i hope you are not mad, i can't have sex with you today because I'm on my period, i was trying to tell you but you didn't understand" i said "that's cool, let's just proceed to the motel and we'll just kick it, we don't have to have sex." then she says "ok"

at the motel, we take a shower together naked and did some more erotic kissing. then .....

The end result: I boned her ..that's all i gotta say and it was a good 15-20 min of foreplay + bone. We are supposed to kick it again next Friday...and hang out the whole day with each other...After boning, we ate at subway and then told her afterwards to have fun at the club...

Its awkward, at some point during the motel she asked me if i was thinking of her the whole time and i say yes, and then she says "no you haven't". I said "i've been for real..."

and also earlier i talked to her and asked if she "........took the day after pill after our first bone and she said she did. i was like thank god she got her period. then i say "wow that must have been expensive pills, can i give you the money back?", she said "no its ok, even though i spent that much it was worth it"

hahah, my style is UNORTHODOX

 

[Pimp-sicle]

BTW i asked her today if she wanted to kick it and she said "no not today im kinda tired and im going to a club tonight at 9 pm" and then I was like "what no way" then i turned around kinda pissed (BIG MISTAKE) and looked at my table..she said "hey don't ignore me and don't be a jerk" and I said "I'm not being a jerk" and then I said "well that's cool, then if you're tired and you have to go to a club then just go with your friends" then she says "well i have at least 1 hour" and i said "no way, i know you can dish out more than that"...then she became kinda hesitant then i pulled her arm and said "give me more than that" then she says OK then i said "meet me here at 5 pm". 5 pm came and we met. she went in my car then i give her hug and an erotic 1 minute kiss. Then we drove off and she asks "where are we going" and I say "we are gonna go get a room" she says "no i dont have alot of time" and then I say "well i had planned our day out and i wanted to get a room and get dinner afterwards. if you don't wanna go by my plan then its ok i can take you back to your car" she says "ok then just take me back, i hope you are not mad, i can't have sex with you today because I'm on my period, i was trying to tell you but you didn't understand" i said "that's cool, let's just proceed to the motel and we'll just kick it, we don't have to have sex." then she says "ok"

at the motel, we take a shower together naked and did some more erotic kissing. then .....

The end result: I boned her ..that's all i gotta say and it was a good 15-20 min of foreplay + bone. We are supposed to kick it again next Friday...and hang out the whole day with each other...After boning, we ate at subway and then told her afterwards to have fun at the club...

Its awkward, at some point during the motel she asked me if i was thinking of her the whole time and i say yes, and then she says "no you haven't". I said "i've been for real..."

and also earlier i talked to her and asked if she "........took the day after pill after our first bone and she said she did. i was like thank god she got her period. then i say "wow that must have been expensive pills, can i give you the money back?", she said "no its ok, even though i spent that much it was worth it"

hahah, my style is UNORTHODOX

Okay couple issues here with your game:


Stop chasing her so damn much!!! She knows you want her, she knows you REALLY REALLY like her, but the problem is even though she likes the sex, your making her feel like a slvt. Now don't get me wrong, this chick is a dirty little w-hore, but you need to make her think and wonder about YOU! Instead your chasing and chasing and chasing..... then when you back off she's still hesistant.

Put the power back in your hands by meeting new girls. This girl is good for sex and nothing more! So hit her up every once in a while and that's it! Also don't reveal too much of your true feelings.... when she asked you if you have been thinking about her, you should've responded with a sarcastic comment or changed the subject all together..... girls want what is just out of their grasp. You are wrapped up in her web and until you get out, she'll only make time for you when she has no better options.




PIMP

 

[909pua]

Okay couple issues here with your game:


Stop chasing her so damn much!!! She knows you want her, she knows you REALLY REALLY like her, but the problem is even though she likes the sex, your making her feel like a slvt. Now don't get me wrong, this chick is a dirty little w-hore, but you need to make her think and wonder about YOU! Instead your chasing and chasing and chasing..... then when you back off she's still hesistant.

Put the power back in your hands by meeting new girls. This girl is good for sex and nothing more! So hit her up every once in a while and that's it! Also don't reveal too much of your true feelings.... when she asked you if you have been thinking about her, you should've responded with a sarcastic comment or changed the subject all together..... girls want what is just out of their grasp. You are wrapped up in her web and until you get out, she'll only make time for you when she has no better options.




PIMP

well she's the one who asked me out for a date next friday the 3rd, not me. so far i haven't called her but yeah you got a point.

so i really dont look forward to kickin it with her til next friday...

but other dudes in other forums say that once you are already boning a girl, you should once in a while check up on them or take them out w/o any sex otherwise they will feel bad and slutty and won't talk to you anymore.

and this girl told me that if i want to screw her to ask for it directly otherwise she won't know...

 

[bukowski_merit]

why do you get a room?

and this girl told me that if i want to screw her to ask for it directly otherwise she won't know...

watch out doing this... ive had girls request similar... it #1 - gives her complete control over if you are having sex or not... #2 puts you in the position of saying you want sex .. #3 puts her in position to have a good reason to turn you down if you try to take her without properly informing her ahead of time.

my response to anything like this: "thats cute (smile).sex is always better when it happens in the moment. its better when it happens because BOTH OF US want it at the same time. our eyes will tell us when its time. no need for words."

 

[909pua]

why do you get a room?



watch out doing this... ive had girls request similar... it #1 - gives her complete control over if you are having sex or not... #2 puts you in the position of saying you want sex .. #3 puts her in position to have a good reason to turn you down if you try to take her without properly informing her ahead of time.

my response to anything like this: "thats cute (smile).sex is always better when it happens in the moment. its better when it happens because BOTH OF US want it at the same time. our eyes will tell us when its time. no need for words."

your explanation looks right. next time i hang out with her, my body and eyes will ask for it...so from now on i won't say words..

and also we already got a room twice. once was yesterday and the other time was 2 weeks ago.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

well she's the one who asked me out for a date next friday the 3rd, not me. so far i haven't called her but yeah you got a point.

so i really dont look forward to kickin it with her til next friday...

but other dudes in other forums say that once you are already boning a girl, you should once in a while check up on them or take them out w/o any sex otherwise they will feel bad and slutty and won't talk to you anymore.

and this girl told me that if i want to screw her to ask for it directly otherwise she won't know...

Bottom line here is she's running the show...

Once your boning a chick you SHOULD call to shoot the shhhit and let her know you don't have a one track mind even if you never plan on dating her. However the whole point I was making is you never established this from the beginning.... plus you mentioned she had LJBF'd you prior to you fuvkin' her the first time, which tells me you were chasing her back then... IE: not a challenge

What do you want from this girl??? What we are all trying to tell you is this whole thing should be on your terms and your agenda.... sounds like at this point she has all the power and you either play by her rules or don't play at all....


Time to do the take away.... and make her chase you if you want to truly re-establish that interest. The way you do this is by:

a) stop contacting her so much
b) meet new girls
c) become less available



PIMP

 

[DonGorgon]

If you have to ask then yes you should next her..

i did not even read your whole post but if it questionable and your not happy with it then next it..! Unless you enjoy bs

 

[909pua]

Thanks for your guys advices. ALso this girl practically visits me at work everyday... I'm not the one looking for her so... its the other way around...its been 2 days and i haven't called her..

i guess i will just not contact her too much. and do all the other things you guys advise.

WHat i want from this girl is just to bone her and maybe go out and kick it once in a while as friends...

 

[909pua]

ok here is an update, after not calling or texting her since we last F*Ked, which was friday the 26th

she passed by my work and comes sees me today Monday

Her: Hey
Me: hey whats up how are you
Her: Good
Me: How was yer weekend?
Her: Good
Her: I watched transformers yesterday
Me: Really, who all went?
Her: Just me and my friends
Me: that's good. So this Friday we still on to watch "Public Enemies"?
Her: ya, doesn't that movie come out on Wednesday
Me: Ya
Her: well what time do you want to hang out on Friday? In the morning?
Me: Well you told me last week you wanted to chill the whole day friday and go out and watch that movie......(btw she was the one that asked me to hang out this day, not me and then turns around undoes herself)
Her: Ummm.....well why don't we just catch the movie on wednesday...cause Fri i'm going to the beach with my friends...
Me: ya cool, we;ll just do it Wednesday (I kept my cool)

ANd then she tells me that she has to make a quick phone call and will be back then never returns...

...anyway...im thru with this girl...playing games....wtf!

What shall i do with this girl?

 

[DonJuan11]

ok, here's the deal. i had sex with this girl (even gave her two orgasms on that day) (who comes around my job on a daily) about a week ago Fri. this is the timeline of events since then:


Sat: We were supposed to hang out to go clubbing this evening but told her I couldn't since I was stuck at a party. She ended up going to a BBQ and getting drunk that night. Text her back and forth about wanting to see her again and making her scream. After 3rd or 4th text to her, i text "your kitty taste so good, i can't wait to make you scream again", she doesnt' respond to this text.


Translation: "You are a slut and I want to have sex with you again while you are still giving it up to me."

I don't know about you, but that doesn't sound too sexy to me.

Sun: No contact

Mon: Texted her in the morning to say "hi, good morning". she doesn't respond. Didn't see her at work today.

Tue: Didn't see her at work either, then i texted saying "didn't see you today, how are you doing?" she doesn't respond. Then after work hours, I called her she picks up and I said "what up girl, what you doing today?" She says "I'm going to my friend's son's 5th b-day". After that we had small talk and I told her "well alright have fun then, see you later"

Wed: I see her at work, she comes by to say hi. I said "whats up what you doing after work?" She says "I'm going to a friend's HS graduation at 7 pm". I said "Can you hang out today for a couple of hours after work?" She says "No, after work I'm going straight to my friend's house". I got kinda irked at this point and I told her "well have fun, i'll talk to you later".

Thurs: I see her again, and she comes by and says hi. She asks "Are you busy?" I said "yeah kind of, you know how it is." She then asks "What time are you going home today?" I said "4 pm". After that answer, I ignored her acting like an AFC reacting to her treatment to me the day before just completely looking disappointed and didn't even make eye contact with her. After 30 seconds, she left and said "Well I'll let you go".

So because she didn't kiss you and sleep with you the night before, you act all angry and upset and let her know through you actions its very important to you that you didn't get any the day before? Come on dude, you're giving her the perfect excuse to not sleep with you ever again. What did you expect her to say?

HB: "Are you busy?"
909: "yeah kind of, you know how it is."
HB: "What time are you going home today?
909: "4 pm"
HB: "OK well sorry about yesterday, I'll follow you home right now and give great sex to make it up to you"


Fri: I texted her saying "Hey i hope you didn't take me that i was blowing you off yesterday. My manager chewed me out and gave me a bad day (this was a lie)."

Good.

She doesn't respond. THen around 11 pm that evening, i called her and she picks up. I said "what up girl, i am pissed off and hit a parked car blah blah blah blah". We talk for like 3 minutes. SHe sounded like she needed to go and not talk on the phone too long. SHe then says "hey you know what I gotta go, I'll call you tomorrow because I have to go to work in the morning, i have sleep". I said "ok, bye".

And that's it. Is this girl trying to play games or what?

SHould I next this girl?

Oh man, again, guys get so confused about this. They keep acting and reacting with girls based on their emotions, their feelings, their moods. Dude, you have to look at the situation from HER POINT OF VIEW. . What is she supposed to say to you when you phone her at 11 pm Friday night and tell her you hit a parked car? Are you in a serious relationship with her? Are you her husband? She has a life of her own, she has to work, she's busy, she's tired. Your job is to make her forget about everything when she's with you except having fun. Look at everything from the GIRL'S POINT OF VIEW!

 

[909pua]

Oh man, again, guys get so confused about this. They keep acting and reacting with girls based on their emotions, their feelings, their moods. Dude, you have to look at the situation from HER POINT OF VIEW. . What is she supposed to say to you when you phone her at 11 pm Friday night and tell her you hit a parked car? Are you in a serious relationship with her? Are you her husband? She has a life of her own, she has to work, she's busy, she's tired. Your job is to make her forget about everything when she's with you except having fun. Look at everything from the GIRL'S POINT OF VIEW!

hey DJ11, im way past this point now. I just dont like how this girl, after fking her, she tries to regain control of the situation...like she makes plans, i say yes, then after she says let's make it another day..i just play it cool though, but again, i dont wanna show her it bugs me...its just a pain in the @$$ to go thru this.

there are 2 other Hbs that im talking to right now but still this girl plays these games...i freakin hate it... read my very last post...

 

[Joe Stud]

Hey, remember, shes a plate. Nothing more. Bang her and enjoy it, and go sarging on Friday.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

ok here is an update, after not calling or texting her since we last F*Ked, which was friday the 26th

she passed by my work and comes sees me today Monday

Her: Hey
Me: hey whats up how are you
Her: Good
Me: How was yer weekend?
Her: Good
Her: I watched transformers yesterday
Me: Really, who all went?
Her: Just me and my friends
Me: that's good. So this Friday we still on to watch "Public Enemies"?

Did you not read my post above about her running the show??? Dude you should've flirted with her and created those good vibes... instead you showed her that your desperate to hang out with her.....NOT GOOD!!

Her: ya, doesn't that movie come out on Wednesday

Me: Ya
Her: well what time do you want to hang out on Friday? In the morning?

Should've taken this as a clue that she didn't really want to hang with you... who hangs out in the morning unless they fuvked the night before???

Me: Well you told me last week you wanted to chill the whole day friday and go out and watch that movie......(btw she was the one that asked me to hang out this day, not me and then turns around undoes herself)

Oh mannnnn.....YOUR BASICALLY TELLING HER THAT......"my whole life revolves around you!!!" AFC...NEEDY....NO PU$$$$$Y"

Her: Ummm.....well why don't we just catch the movie on wednesday...cause Fri i'm going to the beach with my friends...

Wouldn't be surprised if she flakes on Wednesday... if she doesn't I doubt you'll get to fuvk her.

Me: ya cool, we;ll just do it Wednesday (I kept my cool)

No....you showed her how desperate you are.... and that's why she will never truly make you her number one option. Your her boy-toy.....if she feels like talking to you she does....she knows she basically needs to smile at you and she can make you jump up and down like a monkey...

ANd then she tells me that she has to make a quick phone call and will be back then never returns...

...anyway...im thru with this girl...playing games....wtf!

What shall i do with this girl?

Read my post above.... I told you to take the control back!!! Instead you gave her more power by showing her you have nothing else lined up to do. Your waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too available, your coming off as needy "I thought we were going to hang out allll day!!" and she knows you want her badddddd!!

You say all you want is to fuvk her and hang once in a while.... I call bullshyt... you like this w-hore and each day your getting more and more emotionally attached to her. When you find out that she's fuvkin' other dudes your going to lose it.




PIMP

 

[BustedKnucks]

if you have to ask the answer is NEXT

 

[Kal0051]

if you have to ask the answer is NEXT

or at least that's the easiest route.

 

[909pua]

Read my post above.... I told you to take the control back!!! Instead you gave her more power by showing her you have nothing else lined up to do. Your waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too available, your coming off as needy "I thought we were going to hang out allll day!!" and she knows you want her badddddd!!

You say all you want is to fuvk her and hang once in a while.... I call bullshyt... you like this w-hore and each day your getting more and more emotionally attached to her. When you find out that she's fuvkin' other dudes your going to lose it.




PIMP

hey you know what fk this btch..im not gonna go with her to the movies on wednesday, i wont even bring it up!..... you just fed my ego of not falling into the needy, afc trap! thanks for advice...if i do go, imma make her a$$ pay and say that i don't got any money...and its up to her to say she will pay or not..if she doesn't imma tell her i can't go..

hahha she prolly is fking somebody else, i dont really care!