So, we've been on 4 dates (last one wasn't really a date, but more of she just invited me to a party and kissed me in front of some girl I'd been previously working) and each one of them ended with intense make out/groping sessions. I know she likes me, but the question is how much? I'm starting to think not that much because it's been 3 weeks of this **** and we haven't ****ed yet. I feel like I'm just an attention source for her.
Last Thursday, when the party was winding down, I asked her if she wanted to come to my friend's place for a nightcap (you know, a shot) and she turned it down. Last Friday, she wanted to hang out with me, but I was not willing to ditch my awesome party to go hang out with her and her French friends at a ****ty bar. Plus, I had this other girl on the hook. Last Saturday, I asked her to come back to my place to watch a movie, and she turned it down because she was sick and too tired (legit excuse, she gave me that sickness last time we hung out). I ran into her yesterday, we made out, and I sent her a text saying we should hang out today last night, no response. I'm sick of this.
So, I can either send her a message that this is weird and doesn't work for me and proceed to block her number, just block her number without telling her anything, or just ignore her. Honestly, she isn't that good looking (bad teeth, French hygiene) The reason I would block her number is because it's very difficult for me to completely ignore a girl, so this way I'd never find out if she called or sms'd me. There's another chick that wants me to take her out (again, nowhere near as good looking as my ex
), and she definitely is DTF.
Also, I think this points to an even bigger problem. Why the hell do I get oneitis so easily for girls that have gotten physical with me? I mean, I used to get oneitis when some girl merely talked to me for longer than 5 minutes, but then I started going out and hitting on tons of girls, and no longer place all that much value on the verbal side of things. I started getting my first makeouts around then. None of them with women I really liked, mostly 6's and 7's. I think I made out with like 7 girls before I got to my ex and the first girl I banged before her. To get over making out with chicks, should I just make out with them whenever I get a chance regardless of whether or not I'm feeling it? I had an opportunity last Friday, but didn't take it because she wasn't that attractive. Same thing for sex, right? I ****in hate the oneitis, it consumes my entire being.
Last Thursday, when the party was winding down, I asked her if she wanted to come to my friend's place for a nightcap (you know, a shot) and she turned it down. Last Friday, she wanted to hang out with me, but I was not willing to ditch my awesome party to go hang out with her and her French friends at a ****ty bar. Plus, I had this other girl on the hook. Last Saturday, I asked her to come back to my place to watch a movie, and she turned it down because she was sick and too tired (legit excuse, she gave me that sickness last time we hung out). I ran into her yesterday, we made out, and I sent her a text saying we should hang out today last night, no response. I'm sick of this.
So, I can either send her a message that this is weird and doesn't work for me and proceed to block her number, just block her number without telling her anything, or just ignore her. Honestly, she isn't that good looking (bad teeth, French hygiene) The reason I would block her number is because it's very difficult for me to completely ignore a girl, so this way I'd never find out if she called or sms'd me. There's another chick that wants me to take her out (again, nowhere near as good looking as my ex
), and she definitely is DTF.Also, I think this points to an even bigger problem. Why the hell do I get oneitis so easily for girls that have gotten physical with me? I mean, I used to get oneitis when some girl merely talked to me for longer than 5 minutes, but then I started going out and hitting on tons of girls, and no longer place all that much value on the verbal side of things. I started getting my first makeouts around then. None of them with women I really liked, mostly 6's and 7's. I think I made out with like 7 girls before I got to my ex and the first girl I banged before her. To get over making out with chicks, should I just make out with them whenever I get a chance regardless of whether or not I'm feeling it? I had an opportunity last Friday, but didn't take it because she wasn't that attractive. Same thing for sex, right? I ****in hate the oneitis, it consumes my entire being.
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