should i hit on my ex's friend?

[snoop8]

hey, lol ok, well i been talking to this girl and that girl and my ex r like good friends, well the friend, i just been chatting wit her on the internet and thats it, but shes like a 7.5 and i like her but i dont know if i should like try to hook up wit her cause u know, shes my ex's friend, so im confused, thats sort of bogus and i dont know wat to do, and how to do it, i just been chatting wit her, and like how should i tell her to meet up or something, or I DONT KNOW WAT TO DO! lol im too confused, please help!

 

[Docs]

common rule of a dj, use the ex and friends.

 

[snoop8]

sooo, u think i should do it then? ummm and how? i mean im just chatting wit her and thats all

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

I think you should do what you want to do.

But if you care about your ex's feelings... do what you want to do.

It's really up the the ex's friend (that you like), to start something with you.

That's what I think.

 

[FreshAir1z]

1.get her number
2.call her
3. Start hanging out
4.She's all yours......if you know how to manipulate

 

[snoop8]

ok well now i got another question, its sort of the same topic, so i didnt wanted to make a new thread so a mod would later lock it or something, so heres the question, i got this friend, who i flirt some wit, and i like her, and i was thinking i should start talking to her like getting a lil bit more intimate, lol well ok, i might not have problems wit that, but wat i got problems wit is, my friend, this is a guy, he likes her too! and they even made like this sort of play around thingy that was like if they were going out and stuff! but he didnt made a real move on her, so i think he still likes her, and if i start like hittin on her, that would be bad i think, i dont know wat to do, and wat to tell my friend so he wouldnt get like mad if i hit on her. WAT SHOULD I DO???? thanks

 

[snoop8]

well.... people please! i got skool tomorrow so i gotta know wat should i do???

 

[Docs]

they 'play dated??'

I got no answer..just that question.

 

[snoop8]

lol yea like, he liked her, but she didnt but sort of seemed like if she did and he knew that and they just acted like if they were dating.

 

[Docs]

so he's living in a false reality..

I have no answer...

 

[snoop8]

yea thats y! i know he does like her cause he told me, but she dont really seem to like him back, she only acts that way when shes wit him, well mostly the three of us together but i know shes just playing wit him! its pretty obvious, but if i start like hitting on her, i know that hes gonna get all mad and depressed! and the worst thing of all, WE SHARE LOCKERS! lol so if i start hittin on the girl he likes, who knows, he might even take the lock and put another one!!!

 

[GirlInTheHat]

Are you sure that she's shown you any kind of hint that she likes you back?

If she's flirting with the both of you, especially when the three of you are together, then she is playing you off on one another- using one to make the other jelous etc.

My advice? Get involved and you could risk losing your friend over it, or at least putting a serious hole in your relationship.

Is the original topic of this post still a problem? Is this a different girl? *slightly confused*

 

[snoop8]

well right now, we r just like friends, like simple stuff, like we talk, and when we see each other we hug, u know, friends stuff, but i like her, that wat i meant, if i should like hit on her or wat? and i mean, if i do, well, its not my fault that my friend didnt take this any futher right?

 

[Docs]

I"d probably step back..just because of your friend really being into her,...

Besides, you 'like' her, you have no sure fact she does back..find another..

 

[S-lemond]

of course you should...lol

 

[snoop8]

Originally posted by E_ze05
of course you should...lol

i should wat? hit on her or find another? lol i dont think it might be too hard for me to find another one, but i like this one, and i also like one of her friends lol i got problems wit peoples friends lol i like all of them lol