I have been talking to this girl for a long time. After many weeks of texting and phone conversations, she finally came to visit me for a weekend with my friends. We had an amazing time together and it's definitely a weekend I'll never forget.
She stayed over with me at my friend's apartment and we shared an air mattress both nights. We made out with each other pretty often but it never got carried away. With past girls I was always quick to start touching them sexually and get things going in the bedroom but with this girl I'm not interested in that. She's definitely by far the most attractive girl I've ever been with but I really like her and don't want to mess it up. She also seems like a very respectful and traditional girl so I want to respect her. I'm still getting to know her so I want to play it safe and not make a move and turn her off.
The last night we were at my friend's apartment, we got back late from the bars and she moved the air mattress to a more private area away from my friends. We made out more intensely than we ever had before and were much more touchy. At one point she was on top of me and I started moving my hands along her legs. She never stopped me and seemed to be enjoying it. I never went further than that however and I eventually stopped and just held her in my arms until we fell asleep.
I'm still on a high from that experience but I'm worried I didn't do enough. My friends think I messed up by not trying to have sex with her because in their opinion she definitely wanted to. I was hoping she would like that I didn't act like a typical guy who just wants sex and actually showed her respect but now I'm worried that I came across as weak and not confident because I didn't pursue anything more. Part of me is tempted to talk to her about it but at the same time I don't want to make a big deal about it especially if she may be happy with my behavior. Can someone please let me know what I should do or if I did anything wrong? Thank you!
She stayed over with me at my friend's apartment and we shared an air mattress both nights. We made out with each other pretty often but it never got carried away. With past girls I was always quick to start touching them sexually and get things going in the bedroom but with this girl I'm not interested in that. She's definitely by far the most attractive girl I've ever been with but I really like her and don't want to mess it up. She also seems like a very respectful and traditional girl so I want to respect her. I'm still getting to know her so I want to play it safe and not make a move and turn her off.
The last night we were at my friend's apartment, we got back late from the bars and she moved the air mattress to a more private area away from my friends. We made out more intensely than we ever had before and were much more touchy. At one point she was on top of me and I started moving my hands along her legs. She never stopped me and seemed to be enjoying it. I never went further than that however and I eventually stopped and just held her in my arms until we fell asleep.
I'm still on a high from that experience but I'm worried I didn't do enough. My friends think I messed up by not trying to have sex with her because in their opinion she definitely wanted to. I was hoping she would like that I didn't act like a typical guy who just wants sex and actually showed her respect but now I'm worried that I came across as weak and not confident because I didn't pursue anything more. Part of me is tempted to talk to her about it but at the same time I don't want to make a big deal about it especially if she may be happy with my behavior. Can someone please let me know what I should do or if I did anything wrong? Thank you!