Should I have a goal for when I go out

[Kal0051]

I used to have an extreme case of oneitis, spent months chasing after a girl. But I finally got over her, and now I want to become more popular with the ladies. I had a few things I needed to work on before hand though; get over her, done; get new clothes that show off both my good looks and body, done but is took lots of money; and just be happier in general, done. So I think I'm ready to start approaching and closing. But I don't know if it will help to have some sort of goal for when I go out (# of approaches or # of closes, either fclose, kclose, or #close). Thanks for any suggestions.

 

[Jitterbug]

Some people work well with clear goals for the night, but for most, it'll make them outcome-dependent and that's usually not a good thing.

I'd have a plan (flexible enough to be adapted to different situations) - particularly with logistics - so if I manage to create some opportunities, I'll be in the best position possible to make the most out of them. Other than that, just go out there and have fun, and keep a keen eye on opportunities that present themselves (i.e girls sending out signals).

 

[WORKEROUTER]

Just be open to opportunities and when you see one, don't stall. But beyond that have a good time. I've gone out with goals of picking up or getting (x) numbers and sometimes it goes well other times it just makes it seem like the night sucked. Plus when you're having a good time, women will naturally feel more comfortbale around you anyway vs. being so focused on getting the close.

Plus what I always realize is that the time spent with some friends is always better than what I'll find with some drunk chick at a bar.