I am all for the paid experience the first time.
Why?
My first sexual experience was outrageous, and I was completely unprepared mentally...
Our school cut out at lunchtime on a special day. They had outdoor activities during the afternoon, cookout first, etc.
I planned on staying for that. Or we could just go home @ noon. Looking back, wish I had just gone to the mall, alone for the afternoon.
Was in line for food, my friends showed up, already buzzed, and obviously into mischief lol... They were like "Hey man, we got something special back at ****'s place...They had picked up some chick, walking the street, and she was @ his place. His idiot friend was part of it too, an annoying dweeb. So, I'm like Okay.
We get there, there's a chick laying in bed, naked, passed out (or really out of it, I think...) They had been taking turns on her. Just had brought her back from the bathroom to "wash her out", so she was now ready for more. No protection, these dudes were plugging her raw and cumming in her! She looked like she was living on the streets. Not bad looking, just very plain, and very skinny. So, we're all nude and I'm on the bed, she's spread eagled, and I'm carpet munching, basically trying to get in the mood.
Keep in mind, I was a Virgin...yeah this was tough as f*** for me, these two "friends" were hid around the corner, giggling and watching. They didn't know I was a Virgin, and I never told them. I smoked some weed, drank some whiskey, but still couldn't get hard for her. I just wasn't into it- this is not what I had imagined my first time being with a woman sexually would be, not at all. I finally told them I just wasn't into it all, sharing her with two other guys, etc. and went for a drive. She was on some heavy stuff, she wrote the strangest letter before she left that day. I kept it for years, it was so weird and creepy, she was really strung out on something.
I, so do wish, that my first time had been with a pro, who helped me through it all...I have to admit, this is one thing about our newer generations being better in my opinion, they can all talk to someone, like here for instance. So much ego/pressure back then ('80? I think...)
So yeah man, go out, get a pro that will be helpful and learn well and have an excellent time. I f'n envy you man!!!!