Reyaj said:
Also I keep hearing everyone say not to go back in her until you urinate... I am assuming this is after ejaculation you mean right? Like if I am doing her and my scholong comes out... I can put it back in without higher risk?
After, yes. Pissing afterward cleans out/kills anything left in your pecker after you finish so when you go for round 2 no residual can make its way in. If you're going to raw this one to the finish line, you have to make sure she's on the pill, plain and simple, and of course, be disease free. Always pull out regardless, just for the sake of your conscience. Some women get pregnant very easily, and you don't want that in your world.
If she's on the pill, and it were me, I'd be in that for a week straight with no rubber. Also, you're clearly attracted to this broad. If you go raw, do it when you're used to her physically or you'll lack control and make all kinds of mistakes.
That's just me though. I've had pretty good luck with not wearing raincoats with 1 exception when I was 17 and it broke on me and led to undesirable consequences.
If you want to raw her but you're still worried, just raw her for a bit, then suit up toward the end. Best of both worlds.
Either way, you cannot escape risk entirely if you're going to bed her. It's up to you to determine the risk level you're willing to accept. You have full control over that.
Edit:
Just read she's not on BC. Up to you, but like Colossus said, at the end of the day, the decision to protect yourself is yours alone. If this were me? I'd go raw then suit up toward the end, but my risk tolerance is pretty high. Curious to hear how this pans out, and good luck!