Should I go Raw in her?? Condoms suck

[Reyaj]

I know a very immature subject in the mature man's forum.... but let me explain my current dilemma.

I hate using condoms... it doesn't even feel good for me when I use them versus when I don't.... See this thread I wrote http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=208979

So I met this girl that I am insanely attracted to... I have never been more attracted to a girl that likes me back in my life. I mean she is the hottest girl I have ever been with.... Even though we had sex the same day we met... I don't take her to be a slut as she is somewhat religious and we had been talking before we met (POF)

But anyway again this girl is the most attractive girl I have been with... I am reading what I am writing out loud and I think I anticipate the responses I am going to get.... Its easy to justify suiting up in most cases...but I want to experience this girl fully.... I think I can pull out before I ejaculate as I am skilled at doing so... I already was in her raw once but I didn't do it as long as I wanted too..

I am pretty sure she isn't seeing anyone else.... But anyway I know its a risk... but I want to have sex with her without any contraception... I am so attracted to her I almost don't care if I knock her up (even though I will try not to)

If anyone else has experienced this feeling of attraction to a female please chime in... I'll expect the keyboard jockeys to heckle me..

 

[goodganji44]

Don't be a fool man. This is a POF chick you're talking about. Use a rubber. Safe sex is the best sex for many, many, many, many, many, many reasons. Since you're dealing with a POF chick I'd even advise you to pull out, even with the rubber on.



Good luck sir

 

[Reyaj]

Not here to heckle you. I'm sure you know the potential consequences. It's a question of whether you're willing to accept the worst-case scenario. Are you?

If I put it like that, then the answer would be no... However why does it have to be like that?

Why can't I take a calculated risk here... She is white, church-going, and relatively healthy from what I can see. Of course there is a chance she has something... of course there is a chance I could knock her up... but there's also a chance I'll never get to experience this kind of physical attraction/sexual feeling (plus romantic as well) ever gain... and if I do who knows when that would be...

I can't think of anything that would feel more sensational than having true sexual intercourse with this girl while I devour her body...

To put this in presepctive... I never go down on girls... I think its icky.. yet I did it to her and keep fantaszing about doing it... thats how attracted to her I am. I'm no rookie...This sort of physical attraction doesn't come around too often.. at least for me.... I want to have amazing sex with her... all I have been thinking about since I met her weeks ago... She even lives in another state and I am paying to fly out to see her...

The funny thing is I'm usualyl the most paranoid person there is about having unprotected sex with women etc... but until you've really been in this situation where there is a preponderance of attraction... you really can't judge or relate to it... trust me

 

[Bible_Belt]

She's on birth control, right? Do you have kids? Does she?

Maybe part of the reason you are so attracted to her is that she lives in another state, and you don't get to see her all the time, thus getting less opportunity to see her unattractive side.

There are a lot of places on a woman's body that will get you off quite nicely without carrying the risk of pregnancy.

And remember that condoms are considered one of the less-effective methods of birth control anyway, as well as being not particularly good at preventing the less serious STDs like HSV and HPV. There is still trust involved, even with the condom.

 

[Reyaj]

Yeah Sam I usually don't feel great after bedding women even when using a rubber (I mean women who aren't my LTR).

BB that may be true.. I have already seen some selfishness in her personality that turned me off a bit (I told her she could masturbate in front of me since my arm was tired from fingering her and she said then what do I need you for in a serious tone...)

but on a physical level my God she is hot... I want to have the experience of screwing a HOT girl raw...I mean a hot girl!

 

[TheODB]

Try to find a way to verify that she is on the pill. Otherwise, stick to using condoms until you get to know her a lot better.

 

[Lexington]

You met her on POF and fvcked her on the first date. But she claims to love Jesus....I'm sure she's not a slut then.

I would always exercise extra caution with girls you met on POF. I know using condoms sucks but you know what would suck even more? If she had an "accident" and you're on the hook for 18-23 years of child support.

 

[Hyper2010]

Dont do it!!!!!

I did this when I was younger and I'm on the hook for child support for twins until I'm 45-52!

You would NOT believe how this affects your life. It affects your money, mortgage, choice of car, future relationships - I've had hotter women turn me down or break up with me because I already have children.

Use a rubber or stick it in her mouth if you must feel something wet! Or try this, before you go round to hers bash out 5 loads to internet porn. You might not bother going round at all...

Hope this helps

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Reyaj,
I believe South Africa,has one of the highest HIV rates in the World,but having mixed with the Church going Whites,particularly Boers,they are very straight laced....
So you owe it to the forum to let us know about your last dilemma,where it seems the Girl you were going to jilt was going to bring in underworld heavies to fit you up with Da Concreta Boots,LOL.
,

 

[Mike32ct]

It's definitely a calculated risk. Despite my age, I only tried it once because I've very risk averse.

The short obvious answer is don't do it. But if you must, make sure you look at the entire picture objectively, preferably after you've rubbed one out and can think clearly lol.

 

[( . )( . )]

She's on birth control, right?

Try to find a way to verify that she is on the pill.

They're all on the pill until they "accidentally" get pregnant. You can talk about the pill with her in nodding agreement until your blue in the face. It doesn't make a lick of difference.


OP I've never worn protection and never will and I'm paying CS up the ass. If her hindbrain is looking for seed (which procedes the forebrain which looks for a wallet) you might be it Mr. Oh yeah and you can't get out of it either trust me I've tried. It's up to you whether or not you want to roll the dice. That's all it boils down to. No amount of mental masturbation here will change that.

 

[Married Buried]

Should you go raw in her? Why the **** are you asking us?

Is the on the pill? Dumb****.

 

[Ballie57]

I had to reply to this one as he knows.......

I believe South Africa,has one of the highest HIV rates in the World,but having mixed with the Church going Whites,particularly Boers,they are very straight laced....

I don't do blackbirds - because of exactly that! As for the boerjies they naai lekker (fvck well!).

fellow DJs the answer is very simple - just get a vasectomy. After my daughter was born, I had my pigeon pair and didn't want any more kids. Believe me, there is absolutely no difference in the sensation at all and that was over 20 years ago.

You would be surprised how quickly they will let you shoot up them without a condom once they know. They also prefer it unwrapped as well. It's easy to get it reversed anyway. i have a good friend - who is my age who did exactly that and believe me, you don't shoot blanks, if you did, I would of put a bullet in my head a long time ago.

 

[Stort_Brød]

nothing a coat hanger and a vacuum cleaner won't fix.
unless you catch something.
just suit up bro it isn't really worth it in the end. or take her in the A$$

 

[backbreaker]

going raw inside of a chick you met off POF is the equivalent of putting your **** is a box full of ebola infested maggots.

 

[Ballie57]

If you want to be mean, don't tell them and see the "surprise" pregnancy backfire on them!!! Heh Heh - sometimes I am a mean bugger

Viva the DJ Front Viva!

 

[Reyaj]

No she is not on the pill. I asked her and she admitted she wasn't. I wasn't planning on ejaculating in her.... I just wanted to do her raw for a little bit... then either have her jerk me off or put a condom on and try to *** in it...

Backbreaker you can't generalize that all girls on POF are dirty... I already went raw in her a few weeks ago and also ate her out... She has the hottest looking pvssy I have ever laid eyes upon.

To put it in presepctive, I never go down on girls and I am fantasizing about eating her out right now. Ok going to rub one out

 

[Vekhematu]

If you are that stupid, go for it. I see no reason why you shouldn't be allowed to reproduce. No reason at all.

 

[Vekhematu]

I already went raw in her a few weeks ago

Congratulations, you're now a father-to-be. Ever hear of precum?

 

[Solomon]

Reyaj or Jayer

whatever you call yourself these days. I was really hoping you're trolling with this thread but having seen your post the last two years WOW

POF women are sluts and *****s simple as that. If you go raw in a check make sure she is a 100% clean and on birth control

But even then you're not the first or 2nd or 3rd guy to do that believe me

If I put it like that, then the answer would be no... However why does it have to be like that?

Why can't I take a calculated risk here... She is white, church-going, and relatively healthy from what I can see. Of course there is a chance she has something... of course there is a chance I could knock her up... but there's also a chance I'll never get to experience this kind of physical attraction/sexual feeling (plus romantic as well) ever gain... and if I do who knows when that would be...

I can't think of anything that would feel more sensational than having true sexual intercourse with this girl while I devour her body...

To put this in presepctive... I never go down on girls... I think its icky.. yet I did it to her and keep fantaszing about doing it... thats how attracted to her I am. I'm no rookie...This sort of physical attraction doesn't come around too often.. at least for me.... I want to have amazing sex with her... all I have been thinking about since I met her weeks ago... She even lives in another state and I am paying to fly out to see her...

The funny thing is I'm usualyl the most paranoid person there is about having unprotected sex with women etc... but until you've really been in this situation where there is a preponderance of attraction... you really can't judge or relate to it... trust me

10 years on sosuave and you tricking on hoes?

GEEZUS no wonder these vets are still here, they don't even have the basics down