Should i go out with this girl?? She seems mentally unstable..

[Anchorman]

bro she says she doesent want a relationship but still wants to hang out?

dude stop filling your head with thoughts about what she wants or about her problems. Seems like she just wants to bone. So go and bone her, and dont worry about her issues.

 

[Corona]

"Should i go out with this girl?? She seems mentally unstable."

Really? You have to deliberate upon this?

:nono:

 

[Jokerlsk]

W.e i'm over that. Tell me how i did on this though guys. So i've been talking to this girl and heres the convoLol, that sucks. You should probably go to bed early tonight


Her
July 14 at 5:35pm
ya i think i have too
girr!!!!


Me
July 14 at 5:36pm
yeah that bites. I'm at my grandparent's house right now.....

Her
July 14 at 5:36pm
ohh sounds FUN haha


Me
July 14 at 6:46pm
It sounds fun but it isn't lol.


her
July 14 at 9:29pm
ohh yahh sounds very entertaining :]
go GRANDMA! woot woot.


Me
July 14 at 9:31pm
lmao you have to meet them b4 you judge haha.


Her
July 14 at 9:32pm
awww guess i have to meet them then :]


Me
July 14 at 9:36pm
Yeah, i can tell you where they live. You probably won't make it back though lol


Her
July 14 at 9:39pm
haha ohh that sounds dangerous


Me
July 14 at 10:08pm
haha don't worry i'd protect you.


Her
July 14 at 10:12pm
yay
im scared :]]]]


Me
July 14 at 10:13pm
haha i would sacrifice myself so you could get away on my bike. And waaaait a sec. You don't think i could protect you do i? lol


Her
July 14 at 10:19pm
ohh that heroic
ya o'course you could save me :]]


Me
July 14 at 10:20pm
I would probably have to live with them for a week. My grandpa delivers dead bodies to a morgue lol.


Her
July 14 at 10:23pm
hah that suckkss


Me
July 14 at 10:24pm
Yeah i went one time. Some lady killed herself or something...... You should come with me next time hahaha


Her
July 14 at 11:24pm
uhh.. eww
that would be a lil scary. o


Me
July 14 at 11:25pm
yes, yes it is. It could be like our own scary movie 3d adventure!!! That sounded so gay lol


Her
July 14 at 11:29pm
ya it did but thats cool haha
DUDE you just made me laff so hard!!!!


Me
July 14 at 11:31pm
Haha i laughed when i typed it. So whats your number. I'll need it if were gonna do the scary movie 3d adventure together lol


her
July 14 at 11:32pm
dud i feel so stupid laffing to myself. ahah
###-###-####


Me
July 14 at 11:36pm
Next time i'm at my grandparents house i'll have to call you. I get to drive though you ride shotgun. My number is ###-###-####


Her
July 14 at 11:39pm
oh well i cant call ppl cause my phone is still blocked from being grounded :[
but i can recieve calls
if i dont answer then youll have to leave a message and ill have to find some way to call beackk


Me
July 14 at 11:41pm
Haha. Hmmmmmmmmm i wonder what you did..............
Yeah i'll call you later on. I've got an idea! Since you can't call me you can send me a message telepathically!

 

[Igetit!]

Is this the same girl who is supposedly "mentally unstable"?

 

[Jokerlsk]

nah different. I just randomly started talking to her lol. She's hotter too. What do you think guys? She's in NY right now but should i ask her out when she comes back? and how should i handle it?

 

[Igetit!]

That`s good news man.I`m glad to see you had the strength to ditch the mentally unstable girl(if in fact that`s what you did).You want to ask this new girl out?Sure dude,go for it.But when you ask her out,don`t do the classic"Hey,would you like to go out sometime?"Don`t do that.This is what I would do.The next time you talk to her,instead of saying "Do you wanna go out?"try something like this:
You:Hey,listen.I`m going to the mall this Thursday.JcPenney`s supposed to be having a sale,and I need to get me a new pair of pants,but I`m only going to be up there for like a hour or two.Come up there and walk around with me,I mean,I can use a woman`s opinion anyway.
Now when you do this,don`t ask her .Don`t say,"I`m going to the mall Thursday,Would you like to come?"Don`t ask her,just say it exactly I worded it above.Now this part is IMPORTANT!!If she says yes,then she ask what time,DO NOT SAY,"I don`t know,what time would you like?If you say that,you might as well hang up the phone right then and there.YOU decide the time.
It is important that you be a man

 

[Jokerlsk]

yeah, i'll try that. I did ditch that other girl lol.

 

[Walker9]

the best thing u can do as a good friend and someone who genuinely cares ( u seem u do ) , is ask her to see a counsellor , although it should be told to her in a very subtle way . next be gud friends but dont get into emotional foreplay , u know wat i mean . give it good time . if she is willing to iron out her psychological issues then maybe u guys can click . if she doesnt do that , then ur risking her happiness and urs . but certainly now is not the time to get into a relationship with her

 

[Jokerlsk]

Now i have another problem. I have 3 girls that like me. 1 of them is the girl i think maybe mentally unstable another is a really fat girl and i wish she would leave me alone because i'm not interested and the last one is the one i like the most. How do i tell the fat girl to leave me alone w/o hurting her feelings. She goes to church w/ me and is really annoying me.

 

[Igetit!]

Let me get this straight.You said that you have another problem,and the problem is that three girls like you.That`s a problem?Girls liking you?Nah,man,I`m just messin with you.Let`s see.Three girls like you,the mentally unstable one,a fat girl,and the one you like the most.To me,the answer is simple.According to you,you already ditched the mentally unstable one,so that`s taken care of.The one you like the most,since you both like each other,that`s no problem.That leaves the fat girl.This is what I would do.The next time you see her,either at church,or wherever it is,have a smile on your face.A big,huge grin.If she ask you what are you smiling about,tell her you met this girl who you really like,and things seem to be going well so far,and either you have a date with her,or are planning on asking her out.This way you can tell her indirectly without saying outright"Hey,I don`t like you,leave me alone."If she doesn`t ask why you`re smiling,just say to her,"You see this big smile on my face?Do you know why I`m smiling?Then when she says"No,why?then go into what I said above.

 

[Jokerlsk]

YEah, i kinda feel bad about the fat girl though. The mentally unstable girl i may keep on hold. She called me again today and we had a good convo. My friend keeps telling her and everyone else i like her though. The girl i like the most is pretty cool although she can be kind of a "*****" sometimes. W.e i'm confused. Until i got on this site i've never had this many girls interested in me. I was suppose to go to church w/ my friend tomorrow but i decided to pass because i'm really tired and don't feel like waking up early. I think that unstable girl will be dissapointed lol. I'm 16 btw guys.....

 

[Igetit!]

Hey Jokerisk,let me let you in on a little secret.People get hurt.Period.I know you don`t like to hurt people,no good person does,but that`s the way it is.The unstable girl (according to you)has been hurt a lot in her life,but you know what?She`s still here.She`s still alive.The fat girl may be a little hurt or dissappointed about not dating you,but I don`t think that this is the first hurt in her life or the last one.She`ll get over it.And I`m sure that you have been hurt before or have experienced rejection,but hey,you`re still here too.
The girls you are not interested,trust me, they`ll survive.
Now for the girl you`re intersted in.You said that sometimes she can be a,(well,let`s just say she can be very snobbish,rude, and stuck up at times),right?Do you know why she acts this way with you sometimes,because I do.It`s a test.It goes back to what I said about being a man.
Here`s the deal.A woman wants a man.She wants someone who is strong,masculine,someone who can protect her.The reason she acts mean or rude or snobby with you sometimes is because she wants to see if you can handle it.You know why?Because if you can`t handle the test she throws your way,what are you going to do if something serious comes along?
If you can`t stand up to her,how are you going to stand up for her?
That`s why women act crazy with you sometime.They`ll do things,say things,act and behave in ways that seem absolutely crazy,then they`ll sit back and watch you to see how you`ll respond.Then your response let`s her know if you are the type of guy she`s interested in.You see,she can`t just come straight out and say to you,"Hey,if I date you,if I get in a relationship with you,would you be able to protect me,provide for me,take care of me?She can`t just come straight out and ask a guy that,because he might lie.She`s not stupid,she knows that.It all goes back to what I said in the beginning.Be a man

 

[ProDJ26]

Fvck that lmao

well then again ALL WOMEN ARE UNMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE

 

[Jokerlsk]

Damn guys. I went to church w/ my buddy and that girl was there. She tried to talk to me but i just froze........ I'm such a chump..... I feel bad now. Any advice here??? I don't know what happened, i'm also so social and talkative. I guess i was intimidated. Geeze....

 

[Igetit!]

That girl was there?What girl?The unstable one,the fat one or the one you like?

 

[Jokerlsk]

The unstable one............ She tried to talk to me, but idk i just didn't talk back. They want me to go back to his church though...... What should i do next time?

 

[Igetit!]

I dont get it.I thought this was already taken care of.I thought you said you ditched her already.How many unstable girls do you know?Anyway,do you remember what I told you to do with the fat girl? You know,the smiling,her asking why,and what I told to do and say with her?Do it with this girl.

 

[Jokerlsk]

Yeah i know confusing. But for some odd reason i really like this girl. idk. But the fat girl is taken care of.

 

[Jokerlsk]

Ok so now. Guys bear w/ me, another girl may like me. This girl goes to the same church and i jsut met her today. She added me on facebook and after flirting a little she gave me her number w/o me asking