Should i go for it?

[crazyman11]

Alright, so theres a girl, maybe a hb 7 or 8. I've only seen her once, and she is very attracted to me. We've been texting each other a little bit for a couple of weeks now, and she is hinting toward me asking her out. The thing is, i don't really feel like going out or anything with her. I mean, she's cute and everything, but i dunno if i really want to date her or not. What do you guys think, should i go for it?

 

[Bobby.net]

Would you care if she said ''no'' to your date?

 

[crazyman11]

It's not that i'm scared she's going to say no. I know she'd say yes, cuz she obviously has a crush on me. The thing is whether or not I want to go out on a date with her. I'm actually kind of on the fence here

 

[Bobby.net]

You have to understand what puts you on the fence here.

 

[crazyman11]

I dunno, i think it's because i'm really just not all that into her, because whenever i try and flirt with her (with texting) she always just takes it seriously.... I dunno, but i think that's what puts me on the fence. Either i'm not all that funny/good at flirting, or she just has no sense of humor, and i doubt it's me

 

[crazyman11]

Eh, forget it. I'm gonna blow her off

 

[Black suit]

Good thinking.

 

[Scars]

Date her, but don't go out with her. There's a huge difference. I'm dating 5+ girls right now, but I don't have a "girlfriend". Go on dates, do sh!t with her, maybe get your d!ck wet a little and have fun. If she wants to be exclusive she will let you know. Just be straight up with her when she asks. "I'm not really looking for a relationship right now, but I enjoy your company and hanging out with you. We should do this more often.." etc.. I have one girl who literally calls herself my "number one ho" because she knows she will never be my girlfriend, but she knows I still love hanging out and making out. :]

 

[PrinceKong]

Major props to OP for thinking about what HE wants, not what she wants.