LondonTowers
Don Juan
Went out with her for a few years, things got rocky as I was without a job and under a lot of stress. I asked her we needed to slow things down as I got my sh*t together and we got into an argument. We then said we will
have a bit of space but it wasn't official break up and we still talked and met up as I looked for work and the general feeling was we would get back together a few months down the line, she would even lock arms with me. In this time she started chatting to some guy at work for a couple months then out of the blue she sends me a text saying she had gone on a date and kissed this guy. I pretty much said fine your choice though I was a little pissed that she went about it with a text message rather than talk things out earlier face to face.
Anyway I then remained low contact and no contact for about 8 months, I saw her a few times and we had a couple chats about how things broke down, she pretty much said I had become emotionally unavailable and things were not going anywhere, I was a bit heartbroken at this point and was too apologetic about letting life get in the way of our relationship. Anyway we met up again recently after not chatting for a couple months and she has been flirty and trying to get me jealous by telling me how many guys at work like her and pretty much saying she likes her boss. She also complained about her current boyfriend too.. suddenly she is looking slutty and not he girl I was in a relationship with.
The last 4 months I have really got my **** together, got a great job and my head is back in a great place, I'm confident again and been reading a lot of stuff on these forums and others about sorting my game out. I guess I have had a red pill moment and now suddenly I see how ****ty she is, she is an emotional cheat and a validation ***** with zero girl mates. She is already doing this now to her current bf with me and her boss and hell knows who else. When I was in a relationship with her she insisted on staying friends with her ex and would hang out, later after we broke up told me that he had tried to kiss her and that he still loved her. I now see she must of been emotionally cheating on me then as well for her ex to behave like that.
So now my head has come out of the beta cloud.. I have lost all respect for her, even though she is still in contact and acts like friends.
I want to give her a piece of my mind and make her feel ****. I know this ain't Alpha and cool, but she is like an emotional hurdle in my head now and I feel I need to call her out on her pattern of behavior and then disappear forever to continue my journey to Alpha-hood. What do you guys think? Is there anything bad about this, I'm gonna be calm and straight up psychological, pull her apart and expose her for what she is.. then go ghost.
have a bit of space but it wasn't official break up and we still talked and met up as I looked for work and the general feeling was we would get back together a few months down the line, she would even lock arms with me. In this time she started chatting to some guy at work for a couple months then out of the blue she sends me a text saying she had gone on a date and kissed this guy. I pretty much said fine your choice though I was a little pissed that she went about it with a text message rather than talk things out earlier face to face.
Anyway I then remained low contact and no contact for about 8 months, I saw her a few times and we had a couple chats about how things broke down, she pretty much said I had become emotionally unavailable and things were not going anywhere, I was a bit heartbroken at this point and was too apologetic about letting life get in the way of our relationship. Anyway we met up again recently after not chatting for a couple months and she has been flirty and trying to get me jealous by telling me how many guys at work like her and pretty much saying she likes her boss. She also complained about her current boyfriend too.. suddenly she is looking slutty and not he girl I was in a relationship with.
The last 4 months I have really got my **** together, got a great job and my head is back in a great place, I'm confident again and been reading a lot of stuff on these forums and others about sorting my game out. I guess I have had a red pill moment and now suddenly I see how ****ty she is, she is an emotional cheat and a validation ***** with zero girl mates. She is already doing this now to her current bf with me and her boss and hell knows who else. When I was in a relationship with her she insisted on staying friends with her ex and would hang out, later after we broke up told me that he had tried to kiss her and that he still loved her. I now see she must of been emotionally cheating on me then as well for her ex to behave like that.
So now my head has come out of the beta cloud.. I have lost all respect for her, even though she is still in contact and acts like friends.
I want to give her a piece of my mind and make her feel ****. I know this ain't Alpha and cool, but she is like an emotional hurdle in my head now and I feel I need to call her out on her pattern of behavior and then disappear forever to continue my journey to Alpha-hood. What do you guys think? Is there anything bad about this, I'm gonna be calm and straight up psychological, pull her apart and expose her for what she is.. then go ghost.
