Should I give it another shot ?

[spinninplates]

About a month ago my friend called me and said he wanted to go out to one of the sketchy clubs located near a few colleges. I've never been before but it was his 21st birthday and i couldnt think of a better way to find out if all this seduction/self-improvement reading was doing me any justice. So later that night we met up with a few other friends and went straight to the club. As soon as we got there everyone took shots then we ordered some drinks and posted up near the wall to check out the scene. There was a few groups of girls, definitely more guys...but i told my friends "fck it, lets walk around." So as we're walking around, this one girl(one of the baddest in the place) bumps into me accidentally with her ass. I mean how could she not, the place was pretty packed out. Instead of walking past her, i stood right behind her. She bumped into me again and instead of letting her run away, i pulled her body in close and she started grinding on me. I think she asked her friend what i looked like bc they started whispering after i showed up...

Anyways, we grinded for an hour and i offered to buy her a drink... ofcourse she said yes. We went right back to the dance floor after. I grabbed her by the hand and took her to the back of the club where there was more space to move around. Another hour went by and i was in the mood for a little more of the juice so i went to get another drink, i offered her one and she said yes. After this i do the same thing..bring her to the back of the club. Some random song came on and i told her "oh this is my sht" and i went in for the kiss. She kissed me back and we hooked up for a long time. I even tried to pull away and she wouldnt let me. I tried to keep it fun the whole time we kissed, grabbing her ass/running my hands along her body/putting her hands on my waist. Unfortunately, the club closed soon after. We walked out together and i gave her a kiss goodbye and just walked away. First, she tapped me to get my attention and after i didnt turn around, she grabbed my arm and and handed me her phone. I handed her mine as well and im glad i did bc i ended up putting the wrong number in her cell(lol). I texted her when i got home for a little and asked her how she was feeling and she told me amazing. Then i showered and passed out.

The next week i called her and invited her over but she said she was with friends and she was probably going to go out to the clubs again. So i asked her to come over a week later and she said she had some stuff she needed to do at home. She was responsive but if she really wanted to hang out..i feel like she wouldve made an effort to figure out a day that worked for the both of us.
Its been a couple weeks since ive talked to her. Should i try her again or should i leave it where it is ?
Tell me what you think !

TL;DR Met a girl at the club and got her number but she gave me excuses when i asked her to hang out

 

[Bingo-Player]

over the years ive learnt women are very situational meaning what seemed like a good idea to her at the time may not be a good idea now

they will constantly change between wanting to ride you into the sunset and never wanting to speak to you ever again depending on what mood they are in or what time of day it is

unfortunately this is just women for you there hormones are really unstable , theres nothing you can do except not give a f@ck about it and crack on with the next one

 

[Fugitive]

It was the drink. She sounds like the type of chick who goes clubbing regularly and probably has a collection of guys at her disposal. You should forget her.

 

[l__i__l]

Yeah sounds like you were just her one night stand.
You should have escalated outside the club, there was a good opportunity to have a shower together.
No contact and then give it another shot after a few weeks, you haven't got much to lose.

 

[ZTIME]

Short version: go to club, buy chick drinks, make out, and get number.

This is much more common than you think.

Ask yourself this: if she truly had a high level of interest, wouldn't she be the one calling you trying to get together??

It seems all of the contact has been initiated by you. Sure she's polite, but if she wanted to get together she'd have come up with an alternative date.

I'd put this one on ice for a bit (about 1 more week) I'd then text and send an invite to a more public, fun place. Something like this.

Hey, finally got some free time to get together. Going to be hanging out here this Saturday (beach, park, some place fun and relaxed). We should meet up.

If it's NO, it's NO.

If she suggests a different place it's up for you to decide.

If she says yes............. Well, you get it.

Pretty basic stuff.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Strike while the iron is hot. Waiting a week was too long. 2 days at the most.