I met this girl at the mall about a month ago. She's 22 and recently came from Colombia. Has a law degree. Both face and body are solid 9/10 at least, which means she'd be labeled a 10+ SHB on ASF. I initially rated her an 8.5, but after seeing her dressed up, decided to bump that up. Anyway, she's only had two boyfriends and seemed to have serious MLTR potential... up until today.
After exchanging numbers a month ago, we met for coffee two weeks ago and things went great. We immediately clicked and had fun talking for over an hour, even though her English is still pretty weak. The date ended with a kiss. So far so good.
Today, i went to pick her up for another date. Because her temporary license isn't valid for highways, I had to go up to her place to meet her, which took 30 minutes. I told her that i wanted to go grab some food, take it to my place and watch a DVD, but she refused.
I'm guessing she didn't want to go to my place yet because she barely knows me, which is understandeable. Then i suggested we eat and go watch a movie at a theatre, to which she said that she only has enough time to eat. Fair enough.
So we drive back and arrive at the restaurant 45 minutes later. On the way, we're talking and really connecting. I had fun talking to her, though admittedly, i was the one generating the vibe and she was just playing along. She did that well though.
The meal was fun. Talking, laughing, etc. One of her friends called her and reminded her that they're going camping for the long weekend. He wanted an answer then and there, because they had to arrange for transport. So she hung up and started thinking, then called a few of her girlfriends who are going to ask their opinion.
I didn't mind her talking on the phone because i was busy eating, and she did apologize. And then asked me for my opinion. So i'm thinkin... long weekend, camping with a hot chick and a bunch of her south american friends... sounds like fun! And besides, last time we spoke on the phone, she said that she wanted to spend this weekend with me.
So i told he that she should go and i'll with her. Take my car and if we don't like it, we can go back after a day and not stay the entire weekend. For some reason, she refused. Something about being uncomfortable with going in such a big group, where she only knows 2 people.Yea, that was disappointing. I'm an adventurous guy and like adventurous girls. And her decision didn't fit the profile.
So we finished eating, and when the time to pay came, i playfully told her to fork out a 20 for her meal. She obliged, but pretended to be slightly mad at me for making her pay on the way back to the car. This was ignored. When we got back to the car, i decided to show her the beach. She said she misses Colombia a lot, and hasn't seen white sand since leaving home. So i figured what the hell... there's a sandy beach nearby, the night is beautiful, lets go!
We get there and get out of the car.. its a little chilly, but incredibly beautiful. I was alright wearing only a shirt, but she was wearing a jacket and said she was freezing. Its constantly +40 in Colombia, so i guess +10 is freezing to them. She wanted to leave after only two minutes, even before seeing the sand.
Now, this is where things went wrong for me. I mean, i spent all this time driving to her house and then to the restaurant, and now had a long drive back to her place to look forward to... and instead of spending some time with me at a place i enjoyed, she wanted to leave?!
What the hell? This really got to me because i immediately thought of my other MLTR, who would have never done that! She would have stuck around, even if she was freezing to death... just to make me feel good! And i'd do the same for her. That's the way it's supposed to be!
So i drove her back. Didn't talk to her at all. She asked me if i was alright and if i was mad at her about 4 times during the trip. Tried making conversation a 4-5 times, but i basically ignored her. When we got back, she said thank you and told me to have a good night, and i just looked at her and nodded. Guess she was expecting a kiss. But i wasn't in the mood.
Yea... so i dunno. She seems spoiled and inflexible. Always wants things to go her way. Her last boyfriend nearly married her, so i guess he spoiled her rotten. On the other hand, if those issues could be addressed, she'd make an amazing MLTR. She's really beautiful and intelligent and i think she'd be a very caring, passionate and devoted girlfriend. Should i give her another chance?
After exchanging numbers a month ago, we met for coffee two weeks ago and things went great. We immediately clicked and had fun talking for over an hour, even though her English is still pretty weak. The date ended with a kiss. So far so good.
Today, i went to pick her up for another date. Because her temporary license isn't valid for highways, I had to go up to her place to meet her, which took 30 minutes. I told her that i wanted to go grab some food, take it to my place and watch a DVD, but she refused.
I'm guessing she didn't want to go to my place yet because she barely knows me, which is understandeable. Then i suggested we eat and go watch a movie at a theatre, to which she said that she only has enough time to eat. Fair enough.
So we drive back and arrive at the restaurant 45 minutes later. On the way, we're talking and really connecting. I had fun talking to her, though admittedly, i was the one generating the vibe and she was just playing along. She did that well though.
The meal was fun. Talking, laughing, etc. One of her friends called her and reminded her that they're going camping for the long weekend. He wanted an answer then and there, because they had to arrange for transport. So she hung up and started thinking, then called a few of her girlfriends who are going to ask their opinion.
I didn't mind her talking on the phone because i was busy eating, and she did apologize. And then asked me for my opinion. So i'm thinkin... long weekend, camping with a hot chick and a bunch of her south american friends... sounds like fun! And besides, last time we spoke on the phone, she said that she wanted to spend this weekend with me.
So i told he that she should go and i'll with her. Take my car and if we don't like it, we can go back after a day and not stay the entire weekend. For some reason, she refused. Something about being uncomfortable with going in such a big group, where she only knows 2 people.Yea, that was disappointing. I'm an adventurous guy and like adventurous girls. And her decision didn't fit the profile.
So we finished eating, and when the time to pay came, i playfully told her to fork out a 20 for her meal. She obliged, but pretended to be slightly mad at me for making her pay on the way back to the car. This was ignored. When we got back to the car, i decided to show her the beach. She said she misses Colombia a lot, and hasn't seen white sand since leaving home. So i figured what the hell... there's a sandy beach nearby, the night is beautiful, lets go!
We get there and get out of the car.. its a little chilly, but incredibly beautiful. I was alright wearing only a shirt, but she was wearing a jacket and said she was freezing. Its constantly +40 in Colombia, so i guess +10 is freezing to them. She wanted to leave after only two minutes, even before seeing the sand.
Now, this is where things went wrong for me. I mean, i spent all this time driving to her house and then to the restaurant, and now had a long drive back to her place to look forward to... and instead of spending some time with me at a place i enjoyed, she wanted to leave?!
What the hell? This really got to me because i immediately thought of my other MLTR, who would have never done that! She would have stuck around, even if she was freezing to death... just to make me feel good! And i'd do the same for her. That's the way it's supposed to be!
So i drove her back. Didn't talk to her at all. She asked me if i was alright and if i was mad at her about 4 times during the trip. Tried making conversation a 4-5 times, but i basically ignored her. When we got back, she said thank you and told me to have a good night, and i just looked at her and nodded. Guess she was expecting a kiss. But i wasn't in the mood.
Yea... so i dunno. She seems spoiled and inflexible. Always wants things to go her way. Her last boyfriend nearly married her, so i guess he spoiled her rotten. On the other hand, if those issues could be addressed, she'd make an amazing MLTR. She's really beautiful and intelligent and i think she'd be a very caring, passionate and devoted girlfriend. Should i give her another chance?
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