Should I get a Plenty of Fish account??

[fivestarplayer]

As one guy said earlier let them come to you. It's like fishing, only your profile is the bait. Let them bite first and your basically guaranteed success. So long as you don't sat something stupid.
You have already won this way, you know she's obviously interested in you and that makes it all 100x easier. Look at here profile skim through the bs send her back a message ask maybe two question that can't be answered with yes or no. She sends message back you tell her to hit you up sometime, she sends you digits.

From there just set your date up and do your thing.


Hot women do use that site and will message you. They use it like a shopping market to browse the best of the market. So look interesting, and write some catch bs in your about me.

 

[fivestarplayer]

As one guy said earlier let them come to you. It's like fishing, only your profile is the bait. Let them bite first and your basically guaranteed success. So long as you don't sat something stupid.
You have already won this way, you know she's obviously interested in you and that makes it all 100x easier. Look at here profile skim through the bs send her back a message ask maybe two question that can't be answered with yes or no. She sends message back you tell her to hit you up sometime, she sends you digits.

From there just set your date up and do your thing.


Hot women do use that site and will message you. They use it like a shopping market to browse the best of the market. So look interesting, and write some catch bs in your about me.

 

[TheManOfSteel]

I say don't bother, as somebody stated earlier... decent looking girls don't even reply back... and it's only fat and fuglies who message/spam you.

 

[uafootball24]

so true, waste of time

 

[nismo-4]

It's all about the pics and luck. If you're handsome with a great bod, you're at the top of the pyramid! If not, you better get some plastic surgery (Lipo, ab etching, bicep implants, etc.) or else you'll have to rely on luck to get a girl.

Thankfully, you can photoshop yourself onto some abs. It can really help. Being average only gets you so far. You may talk with a girl for a while, but you'll wither into the background if a better looking pic starts talking to her.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Just re-registered after 4 years of dwindling views, results, returned emails, etc etc. Basically, PO fvckin F had screened out my profile from probably like 90% of women on there JUST BECAUSE I'd once changed my "intention" or "search" to "for intimate encounters." Doing that automatically (through their program) caused my profile to be filtered out of EVERY woman's profile that said, "Must not be searching for intimate encounters." Mind you, I was just playing around when I set that parameter, but once you set it, you're in a sense "filtering yourself out" from almost ALL of the women on there for the LIFE of your account, because they almost ALL set their parameters to "Must not be searching for intimate encounters."

Also, I never was rude to any women on there, but this initial welcome email "Warning" to new members from the owner of POF is news to me as well:

"Here are some things you should be aware of

1. If you are a jerk, are mean to other users, upload nude images, do not fill out your profile correctly, etc., you will be deleted and banned. As a free site, we work extra hard to maintain the quality of our database

2. Cut and paste messages are blocked. No one wants to read a message you sent to 100 other people.

3. You should check out our chemistry test. We tracked thousands of couples who found someone on the site and from that we build a predictive model to see who you would actually match up with. It basically works by removing all the people you wouldn't date in a million years."

To that I say, "Define 'jerk.'" I guess that a woman can be a "b!tch" on there all she wants, but you can't be a "jerk" in defense to her behavior?? As always, the AFCs set the rules in dating arenas, the workplace, life.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Well, since I've created a new account, I've been getting tons of replies to the point where I'm going, "Sigh, I've gotta answer another one of these attention hos?" before I open one up and type. My online banter with these b!tches has never been better. Maybe they are all looking for a Halloween date idk. I can't really help them there, I'll be tied up with a for sure one. I guess that I could make plans and then cancel on their as5 just because I can. These huffers Only want me because of my pics, I'd imagine. I even tell them so. That she wouldn't have said such n' such if it weren't for my pics. Then she gets testy and I call her "touchy" then she says, "She's not like that" and say well I like touchy girls and back and forth it goes, these insecure qualifying girls are so easy on POF...when you have good pics (and mine are from my iPhone of me in a statue park one of me standing behind and sticking my hand up a boar's as5 and balls about a month ago).

It's sad how these are all 28 to 36, though I've got my parameters set to 18 to 30 something. What the fvck Plenty of Fish? my search results only turn up oldies.

Anyway, I've got one fattie right now basically saying that I should come over for home made soup (I'd bantered with her about needing a momma (that mine was always mean to me), then she said she couldn't be my mom, then I said all she'd have to do is fix me soup, then she says "what kind?" and I say "home made" and she says, "that's the best kind," and I say, "if it's made right" and she responds, "here's my number if you wanna try it."

 

[big weezy]

Do you have any guys have tips for me?

as per my other thread

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1853528#post1853528

i'm getting dates lined up with hot women who wear expensive clothes go to expensive places etc.

I haven't written much about what I do on my profile but it signifies success without explicitly saying what i do.

some of the 1s i'm aiming for are the high earner 1s (looking for independent women) but they still want to be wine and dined or at least go places with the same income bracket.

i'm fotunate that where i live i can do a lot of cheap day time dates to see a art gallery and get a coffee outside or ice cream.. because the area is so expensive and nice it makes it look not cheap even tho i'll only end up spending about 10 bucks.

however if it goes well, 2nd and 3rd meetings they're gona want to go expensive restaurants or something.

how do i intertwine into conversation on the 1st date that i'm reluctant to take her expensive places not cos i 'supposedly' dont have the money (i dont) but cos i was possibly used before by an ex as an ATM and want to avoid women like that.

Obviously I'll need to exhibit value of success i.e. wear expensive clothes, talk the talk but when coming actually down to going to expensive places at night i want to avoid.

I cant really see how i'm going to do this given the type of women i'm going for. Even the independent women on there still want you to pay.

 

[Iceberg]

how do i intertwine into conversation on the 1st date that i'm reluctant to take her expensive places not cos i 'supposedly' dont have the money (i dont) but cos i was possibly used before by an ex as an ATM and want to avoid women like that.

Maybe you explained this already, but I'll have to ask again:

Why can't you just recommend 1 or 2 places (in your price range) and meet them there?

Most of my date setups are basically "Have you ever been to (Bar X)? I think you'd like it. Let's grab a drink there."

And when I say drinks I mean drinks...These chicks don't deserve dinner....it's your 1st date with them, after all.

Obviously I'll need to exhibit value of success i.e. wear expensive clothes, talk the talk but when coming actually down to going to expensive places at night i want to avoid.

I'm pretty successful at my job. I don't feel a need to wear expensive clothes to prove my success. If anything, I try to exhibit value of manliness. I wear flannel, or plaid, or denim. Maybe a nice pair of boots.

My point is....you don't want a girl who's going to judge you based on income. So why do you seek out these type of women?

I'm sure there are women in the world who won't date me because I'm not wearing an expensive watch or suits. But f**k them. Why would I want that kind of poison in my life?

Your money is your money. Whether it's six-figures or $6k. Don't date chicks who would judge you based around something that has nothing to do with them.

 

[big weezy]

Maybe you explained this already, but I'll have to ask again:

Why can't you just recommend 1 or 2 places (in your price range) and meet them there?

Most of my date setups are basically "Have you ever been to (Bar X)? I think you'd like it. Let's grab a drink there."

And when I say drinks I mean drinks...These chicks don't deserve dinner....it's your 1st date with them, after all.



I'm pretty successful at my job. I don't feel a need to wear expensive clothes to prove my success. If anything, I try to exhibit value of manliness. I wear flannel, or plaid, or denim. Maybe a nice pair of boots.

My point is....you don't want a girl who's going to judge you based on income. So why do you seek out these type of women?

I'm sure there are women in the world who won't date me because I'm not wearing an expensive watch or suits. But f**k them. Why would I want that kind of poison in my life?

Your money is your money. Whether it's six-figures or $6k. Don't date chicks who would judge you based around something that has nothing to do with them.

I should have mentioned i'm only looking to get laid then i'll kick them to the curb but i'll need to keep the facade up for probably 3 dates before i cut my losses.

I should have mentioned the types of girls im going for wear expensive clothes/shoes go to expensive places generally.

i myself am creating the illusion i am successful without needing to actually demonstrate it if that makes sense. im well educated, i have the clothes i can talk the talk but actually avoiding going to expensive places i'm going to find hard to avoid at night for 2nd/3rd date.

i dont care about these women, they're not gf material.. it's purely sexual gratification from my part.

I think maybe i've taken the 'dont spend any money on a girl' thing too far cos it was guys who were spending 100 dollars whereas im aiming to spend max 20 each time and ideally 10. this restricts what i can do.

my only thinking is i need to come up with a story about why i dont take women expensive restaurants and places without looking like i dont have the money, is this possible?

 

[gaspipe]

I think ones experience with pof depends in large part to geography.

I live in South Florida (Miami). Based on my experience with pof thus far I have observed the following in my area:

1. It is full of fat ugly or single mother women who have deluded themselves into thinking that they can snag a good looking guy with money.

2. Most are emotionally damaged and therefore hard to connect with and not relationship material.

3. The hot ones are really there to get attention.

4. Attractive, quality woman are few and far between.

Conclusion: POF is largely an excercise in futility where I live unless you are resigned in having sex with mediocre at best looking women with loads of baggage.

 

[big weezy]

I think I made a mistake, I lost one of my dates from there cos i got too c0cky trying to game and sound busy and ended up alienating her.

she was all like 'it sounds like you're too busy and yes i am busy too but i make time..'

i was like whoa whoa.. but by then it was too late. i think the rule is dont try to be c0cky and funny and act busy in writing as it can be misconstrued wrong?

I should have just taken her bbm pin and set up a date. thats what she wanted. i over complicated things by tryna act like a bigshot.

 

[Gray The Prince]

Is it a goldmine??? I normally game bishes in real life. Does this internet provide greater benefits?? (serious)

Get on the POF crew thread on the Misc. for better judgement on this question.

 

[J Roc]

get off those lame dating sites and get out there in the field. hot women arent looking for guys online!

 

[ENIGMA16]

Like I said in the other thread, a day after setting up my Ok Cupid account I got 2 hot girls that messaged me - and my profile was just a single photo of me and completely blank otherwise. I've since added them on FB, gotten one of their numbers and am planning on pursuing this further. There were some other hits (girls messaging me) that I haven't yet pursued, debating if it's worth it.

POF was just fat girls telling me I'm hot.

Set up an OKC instead.

 

[big weezy]

repeat

 

[big weezy]

I definitely recommend using the Internet as a means to meeting women.

Work your game, amass knowledge, put yourself out there, and you'll very likely start meeting women--and it doesn't matter if it's opening a woman through email or asking a woman in a club to join you for a dance. Women are everywhere, and it's up to you to take advantage.

And by the way, women flake...everywhere...at least that's been my experience. But why are so many of you guys complaining about this? You really wouldn't expect them to come easy, right? Aren't having the best things in life usually the hardest to attain? personally, when a woman flakes on me, I count my blessings. It's better than taking her out for coffee and wasting an hour of my time because I find out we're not clicking.

As long as you're working the fundamentals of PUA game, you're probably gonna be more successful than the average guy--and that includes working game via the Internet just as much as in "the real world" as you call anti-online people like to call it.

If i've been doing ok and pretty much got the digits but said something stupid in a message and shes changed her mind what should my response be?

i keep f'ing up explaining myself trying to clammer and disprove what she said rather than just be like 'ok cool, if you change your mind let me know when you're free' ?

i tried to make out i was too busy and she took offence to it like i had to fit her in my schedule. this has happened a couple times now. the c+f thing backfires.

 

[Huffman]

I had a POF account for a short time, and met one girl. At the end of the evening she begged me to **** her (she literally said it). I refused because she was HIDEOUS... HUARGH