Should I Dump Her?

[soulforge]

Met this chick on a night out in my city.. She is super fukin hot.

Beautiful body... 10/10 body...

However i have vetted the crap out
Of her.. And unfortunatly she aint wife material.

She is occasional cocaine user too.. Also bit of a attention wh0re.


Should I keep smashing? And for how long?

Or simply dump and move on... Like I said.... She is super hot. But a hot fukin mess!

Its rare to meet a woman this super fit.. However should i give up that azz for the sake of my sanity?

I can sense a train wreck ahead lol

Have any of you guys walked away from super hot woman, in order to avoid getting tangled up in a toxic mess?

 

[17 shots]

You love slutty bad girls tho (from what I've seen in most of your threads)

I don't get why you're always trying to act like your looking for your wife/soulmate. It's like who are you trying to fool? Us or yourself

 

[Spaz]

You love slutty bad girls tho (from what I've seen in most of your threads)

I don't get why you're always trying to act like your looking for your wife/soulmate. It's like who are you trying to fool? Us or yourself

He's attracted to the bad gals because he's the typical good guy type.

Just like bad guys are attracted to good innocent girls.

Yin and yang.

 

[backseatjuan]

In and out no ting yang.

Like how often do you see her per week?

How much time do you take between dates and meets or is it and on going daily affair?

Is she pushing for relationship? Is she witholding sex?

 

[Apex]

There are several red flags here. Drug use, attention seeker, etc. Looks won't mean anything if she keeps up this behavior, and you deserve better.

 

[lamath]

Hey man.

Not ltr worthy, you know that already

I see a similar pattern than the one you had with now ex .

Keep an eye on this,
So far the common denominator on this is you, you might need to change ypur ways

 

[soulforge]

Okay so i decided to stick by my principle of smash and dash when it comes to chicks with red flags.

She called me last night for a phone chat.. I ignored her call.. Waited an hour, then dumped her by text.

Simply said, the drugs thing is deal breaker for me.

I only smashed it twice.. Oh well haha

 

[soulforge]

Hey man.
By
Not ltr worthy, you know that already

I see a similar pattern than the one you had with now ex .

Keep an eye on this,
So far the common denominator on this is you, you might need to change ypur ways

Yeh Mate.. I met this one on a night out.. She looked super hot.. But yeh fashionably damaged sloot.

Two bangs and its done... I think its about making a quick exit with these girls.

6 weeks maximum.. Then drop her.

Or better still avoid all together.. Sometimes difficult to do when you wana get laid.

 

[DariusTheBartender]

I recommend trying for a threesome before you dump.. win/win situation, either she goes for it and you get a good threesome for the books, or she wants to breakup and you are home free. I've seen some of your other posts, you strike me as the type of dude that will meet another 10. don't waste emotions and time on this one dawg.

 

[soulforge]

I recommend trying for a threesome before you dump.. win/win situation, either she goes for it and you get a good threesome for the books, or she wants to breakup and you are home free. I've seen some of your other posts, you strike me as the type of dude that will meet another 10. don't waste emotions and time on this one dawg.

Tempting thought.. However i have come to realize it better to quickly move on from these sloots.. The longer you stick around for the sex, the deeper you sink into there mess.

Once you get that threesome, the temption for another one is still there.

The sex itself with these types becomes addictive.

I'm leaving this one in the rear view mirror.
She was worth a bang and nothing more.

 

[DariusTheBartender]

Tempting thought.. However i have come to realize it better to quickly move on from these sloots.. The longer you stick around for the sex, the deeper you sink into there mess.

Once you get that threesome, the temption for another one is still there.

The sex itself with these types becomes addictive.

I'm leaving this one in the rear view mirror.
She was worth a bang and nothing more.

well done my friend. Even though a threesome is fun I wish I had the will power to cut them off earlier in some cases!

 

[soulforge]

well done my friend. Even though a threesome is fun I wish I had the will power to cut them off earlier in some cases!

How long did you sleep with her for man?

Mate there is always going to be a certain level of attatchment when you sleep regular with a hot chick.

Best to give it a time line to cut it off, especialy if she has many red flags.

 

[DariusTheBartender]

How long did you sleep with her for man?

Mate there is always going to be a certain level of attatchment when you sleep regular with a hot chick.

Best to give it a time line to cut it off, especialy if she has many red flags.

I'm almost 40, so various cases, from a few weeks to almost a year, my new rule... which I hope to enact is no more than 6 weeks to 2 months for casual, if it ain't going anywhere by then, it's time to move on. No need to waste time on sh-t that isn't gonna produce at least a decent short term relationsh-t.

 

[Cckybold]

Soon you will get yourself into trouble..
She can sleep with guys for drugs that for sure..Better out of this mess

 

[soulforge]

Soon you will get yourself into trouble..
She can sleep with guys for drugs that for sure..Better out of this mess

Exactly. This is why its best to avoid or simply smash and dash, before things go wrong.

 

[soulforge]

This is true. Theres been research done pointing bio chemical bonding not just in a mental context but physical chemistry too.

Exactly man... Casual sex with a damaged sloot can come with a hefty price tag if you stick around too long.

6 weeks max.. Then drop off the earth.

 

[Alvafe]

have someone asked the same before?

if she use drugs you drop her, don't matter how hot or cool she is you drop her, hell i'm turned off by woman who smoke, so imagine who use drugs

 

[soulforge]

have someone asked the same before?

if she use drugs you drop her, don't matter how hot or cool she is you drop her, hell i'm turned off by woman who smoke, so imagine who use drugs

Yeh mate.. But i have noticed the amount of woman using cocaine now is crazy.

Just seems to be the in thing for them.. They probably smoke and drink too.

 

[Alvafe]

Yeh mate.. But i have noticed the amount of woman using cocaine now is crazy.

Just seems to be the in thing for them.. They probably smoke and drink too.

rightttt..... I think that is a problem in your region then

 

[In2theGame]

She is occasional cocaine user too.. Also bit of a attention wh0re.

Right there is your answer man. Definitely not wifey or GF material and if she can be reckless with herself then you don't know if she can get some kind of STD/STI and pass on to you. Great if the girls hot but are you willing to take the risk.