Should I do it?

[Jmasta23]

Whats up guys? Just a quick question/concern about my situation rite now. I've been seen/dating a girl for the past month, we hang out 2-3 times a week. We usually end up messing around when we hang out, We have done everything except sex, however she has mentioned a few times that thats only for boyfriends lol. My question is do you think her defenses are gonna go down eventually or should i asked her officially out? I mean i really like the girl so i really wouldnt mind getting in a relationship w/ her, however i've read on this forum to let the girl bring/mention that issue first about the relationship status and so on..

Thanks

 

[Ease]

personally i find it works smoother if u let her mention become exclusive relationship first

otherwise you lose challange and power a bit.

not a 100% rule but beware.

 

[Jay Dee]

...We have done everything except sex, however she has mentioned a few times that thats only for boyfriends lol. My question is do you think her defenses are gonna go down eventually...

Man, she is spouting some bull$hit. Talk is cheap, see how expensive you get if you escalate. And escalate you must, soon, else she will tire of the non action.

Guide her to the side of you or get her to sit on you, kiss her silly, until she is gasping for air, and slowly yet surely get her horny - she will jump your bones... boyfriend or not.

 

[scrouds]

Don't listen to what chicks say. Words lie, body language doesn't.

 

[DarthNihilus]

Yeah let her bring up the relationship stuff first.

It keeps you in the frame of power which is more important than anything else to a woman as they want to see their man as strong and dominant over them.

 

[Jmasta23]

Man, she is spouting some bull$hit. Talk is cheap, see how expensive you get if you escalate. And escalate you must, soon, else she will tire of the non action.

Guide her to the side of you or get her to sit on you, kiss her silly, until she is gasping for air, and slowly yet surely get her horny - she will jump your bones... boyfriend or not.

Dude, i escalate trust me. Every time she comes over i have her hot and horny, naked on the bed moaning and stuff. I start fingering her but after a while she stops me cause she doesnt want to go all the way yet..
By the way She did it again tonite and mention the boyfriend thing again lol

 

[Deniska]

Stop making out and fingering her. Show her that you are bored of this middle school first base games.

 

[Ridingthelightning]

You don't give up power by bringing things up. Its not true.
If you want to date someone then do it if the chance is given. If not, then don't.
If you just wanna bang this chick then escalate escalate escalate.!.
Are you good at cunnilingus, giving face, munching the carpet, tonguing her cherry, etc. etc.? Thats always worked wonders for me.