Should I ditch her? Fickle, but keeps contacting me

[skinnydart]

So I took your advice on the kidney thing...

She doesn't want to date you

When she said "I'll check my schedule" I tried to switch the control back over to me by telling her I'll contact her when I have a free evening.

me: so I might be getting a Porsche for $200
Her: NO WAY DUDE!!!
me: (it's an older one)
Her: still, the older ones are still sweet
Her: if you get a jag, ill have to marry you
me: lol, yeah, the guy said he just wants it out of his garage
Her: yeah, if you change your mind, referr me!!!
Her: you get brownie points for that
me: lol, sure
me: yeah, walking everywhere is only fun for so long
…
Her: i wish we could have gone to the play, i really wanted to go but it was such bad timing
me: o yeah, I mean I had to sell my kidney to get us tickets and everything
me: jk
Her: HA
Her: ill have to uh...well its not like u dont have another
Her: or i would buy you one
me: I heard there would some on eBay a while ago
me: that's terrible
Her: ha!
Her: hey wait
Her: had you actually bought those play tickets?
me: I had to get them ahead of time, they were selling out on the weekends
Her: crap, i will pay you back!!! i feel so bad
me: no, we'll make it up sometime
Her: sweet
Her: thats really cool of you
me: u work most evenings?
Her: ill have to check my schedule tomorrow
me: and who knows, maybe by then I'll have that porsche
Her: HA
Her: that would be sweet but id still go no matter.
me: yeah, I'll give you a call when I have a free evening
me: or before I have a free evening
Her: cool. hey, have you ever seen donnie darko?

does this sound genuine enough?

 

[christz]

already the strings are attaching themselvs to your arms and legs.

don't be a puppet you did good to get control, but i think she's still giving you just enough to keep you intrested.

do you know anything about this guy shes' dateing? or did this just all the sudden pop up? how long have you known this girl? its hard to belive you never knew she had a man.

unless things are going bad between him and her.

OR

even worse (on your part) things are going bad, but she's attempting to work things out but keeping you on the side for the possible chance that if it doesn't work out she'll want to be with you. If its the second choice i'd advise to just reduce contact to a min and persue other women until she comes around.

if she likes you she will come around.

 

[skinnydart]

do you know anything about this guy shes' dateing? or did this just all the sudden pop up?

um... I've never seen him with her, she's never mentioned him before, that's why I was a little curious when she brought him up all of the sudden. Lets see, what else... he like doing AFC stuff like get her pink roses and that's about it.

how long have you known this girl? its hard to belive you never knew she had a man.

I've known her for a year. We didn't start off in a dating relationship, but after reading here for a while I decided to give it a shot.

unless things are going bad between him and her

I dont' know, evidently she felt a need to bring him up (and how sweet he was( when I asked about her birthday.

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by skinnydart

I dont' know, evidently she felt a need to bring him up (and how sweet he was( when I asked about her birthday.

gifts, she wants u to buy gifts like he does for her birthday.
u know the solution to that.

 

[skinnydart]

Ok, took the advice and bought her a oversided big pink teddy bear (you know, to try to outdue those wimpy pink roses) we'll see how it goes.

 

[dereklearnslow]

Jesus H Christ.

1-3 years from now, when you are looking back on all of this, I hope you feel as ashamed as I do right now.

 

[huge_guy_pimpin]

Originally posted by skinnydart
Ok, took the advice and bought her a oversided big pink teddy bear (you know, to try to outdue those wimpy pink roses) we'll see how it goes.

uh no the ****en solution was to go busy yourself with other women and forget this gold digger.

 

[Kaine]

Ok, took the advice and bought her a oversided big pink teddy bear (you know, to try to outdue those wimpy pink roses) we'll see how it goes.

If you took advice like that, then you need to revisit the bible

You CANNOT buy her attraction to you. Gifts of this kind are ONLY ever for girls who have high IL and you have been dating for a while AS A REWARD or it will have reverse effect!

Now you MUST NOT give this bear to her

Thats it, no more hand holding from me

 

[christz]

i can't belive you got her a bear, return it get your money back lol! unless she's a gold digger and will more than welcome gifts and i know a few out there.

TAKE IT BACK

 

[BGMan]

Something (such as "") tells me he was joking. I hope.

BGMan

 

[skinnydart]

I WAS JOKING! Lol. I'm not that stupid. Actually, I havne't had contact with her since the last posted convo.

 

[DeathDealer]

Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
we always seem to be asking them when they are free, and we are avalible for them. This is bad, as DJ's we should not be doing this, do not ask her when she is free and then be free for then.

you say to her look im free on such and such day so lets go out then.

I disagree with this. You'll learn this when you reach past adult age when you have to deal with incredibly busy schedules where the other person might be doing a work project or if during college there are huge exams going to take place soon.

 

[DeathDealer]

Let me tell you this:

People who break dates should do it hours ahead of time and make it up if they can, not at the appointed time or not even show up. It just shows they care little about you. And that first date doesn't matter - it was good to you but was it good to her?

She keeps contacting you to keep you in the loop, her own little private ego booster. Cut all contact with her, seriously.

 

[spaceMAN]

"Jesus H Christ."
"uh no the ****en solution was to ..."
"Now you MUST NOT give this bear to her"
"i can't belive you got her a bear, return it get your money back lol! "


Damn! I laughed my ass off i knew he was joking the whole time. .. yall are gullible.. . .lmao

-spaceMAN

 

[Porky]

STOP!

just stop.

 

[skinnydart]

I disagree with this. You'll learn this when you reach past adult age when you have to deal with incredibly busy schedules where the other person might be doing a work project or if during college there are huge exams going to take place soon.

Yeah, she works like 40 hours a week, and for some reason is trying get A's in all her classes , so I can see why she's busy... and so am I for that matter, it seems all we do is play phone tag, even though we both have cell phones.

People who break dates should do it hours ahead of time and make it up if they can, not at the appointed time or not even show up. It just shows they care little about you.

True, so are you saying the responce she gave above, about not knowing I had actually planned something, and then claiming to feel "real bad" about it, and then agreeing to make it up sometime wasn't genuine? Does it even sound like she thought it was a date?

I can't belive you got her a bear, return it get your money back lol!

Good advice, I went ahead and asked for the bear back, telling the girl I needed it for another chick hotter than her, now I don't think she likes me anymore, and my face still kinda hurts from where she slapped it... did I do something wrong?

 

[dereklearnslow]

Oh the sarcasm is burning my eyes.