Should I Call Her?

[giovannikast]

Hi
Buddies
I have been dating with a beauty for about two months, and everything has been cool n nice, but yesterday I arrived late for our date and I didnt find her.
Well, I do not know if I should call her and apologize, or what to say without seeming weak. Maby I could use some CAF stuff.
I would like to read your ideas guys, what should I do?

Giovanni

 

[Caveman]

How late did you arrive and have you pulled that stuff before?

 

[chicksrock]

for fvcks sake...
we have no idea about the facts...
what your relationship is like with the woman...
and how she reacts,etc.....

you would know best what to do....

In these kind of situations go with your gut feeling...

 

[giovannikast]

I arrived 40 mints late

Well, I arrived 40 mints late

 

[giovannikast]

I arrived late the last dates

I arrived late the last dates
Well, I have arrived late the last dates, and she was angry, but nothing to worry about. Although I never thought that she could not wait for me, well, I recognize that I arrived late 40 mints.
I dont know what to do, Should I call her and apologize? But I dont want to seem weak.
I want to read your ideas, guys.

 

[Caveman]

Re: I arrived late the last dates

Originally posted by giovannikast
she was angry, but nothing to worry about

I kinda feel that you don't think it is a big deal being late and having her wait for 40 minutes. You even seem to be proud of it. In this case she is angry for a reason.

You don't have to be an azzhole to be confident. You don't have to treat her like a groupie or anything. In this case, I don't think it is weak to apologize. You are treating her like sh!t making her wait for you and laughing about it or at least not even apologizing.

 

[Alen-Delon]

Cavemen is right. call her and apologize it will make you feel better. the weeknes is that you cant apologize, your to scared of what she might think. just do it be a man. unless you want to creat an a$$hole image in her mind. then just dont call her see what she does

 

[Dukester]

I agree w/ the last 2 guys. You do seem like an azzhole if you dont apologize. Apologizing doesnt make you weak, it shows you actually care. Girls are wired different, and an apology to them shows you made a mistake and are willing to admit it. In that case, when a guy apologizes, his confidence level is high enough where he can admit he's wrong. That keeps the girl interested. yes she's gonna be angry if you show up late, hell i would too if you made plans to be sumwheres at a certain time. Just call her and apologize, but dont grovel at her feet. Let her know your sorry, and dude, dont do it again

 

[Dukester]

Well, caveman, and the other dude- i agree w/ them