Ok I am new to this site, and I agree with most of what is said on here. However, if it is calculated it dosen't work in my opinion. You have to had bad experiences in the past in order to change deep inside or you need to have known it since you were born.
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Anyways, along with my question, should I bother with either of these girls?
First one, watched movie at my place, she may have just wanted to see the movie so it seemed like a yjbf, and the fact is that I didnt try for kiss (i hugged). This is because i thought i prefered her close friend. However, i havent talked to her much since, so maybe i misread. The reason i even considered the kiss was cause she grabbed for and offered altoids hah.
Ok, the close friend, who has done a bunch of kino on me in the past. Anyways, lunch-ish date, offered but wasnt allowed to pay. However, I did offered to pay in a non chalant way after she acted like she wanted me to. She talked about her guy friends the whole time making me think she's an AW, in turn making me question the kino. So i cared less and didnt go in for kiss (hugged). I think i built it up too much cause ive been attracted for prolly 2 months. Anyways i see her later with a group and im not sure who started it first (i thought it was her but now im not sure, she was at least distant) but we were flirting with others, her bigtime. So i suppose either she was jealous or wants me to be, or is an AW, but obviously she does have some girl friends.
Both are gonna be gone for summer in 3-4 weeks, so its kinda like make an impression before that. I think I'm done with the first one. With the second one my plan was to ask for the second date (action) just to drive it into the ground finally. However, my third eye says that she will say no either cause I didnt take enough initiative on first 'date' or because ive acted all distant at the date and since.
One other time i ran into her talking to one of her guy friends, i just left and let them talk and when i came back she basically left as she told us to come to where she would be that night, i didnt go.
Now i am thinking i should restart the flirting/attention when i see her with a group this week, and then ask for second date.
It seems like i should surely 'next' her but for some reason i am pining until i get the rejection. One other thing, she is taller than me, which bothers me, call me crazy.
i think my problem is that i was afraid of initiating the kino with her. i did notice one other time when i half-accidently bumped into her that afterwards she started kino.
/thx
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Anyways, along with my question, should I bother with either of these girls?
First one, watched movie at my place, she may have just wanted to see the movie so it seemed like a yjbf, and the fact is that I didnt try for kiss (i hugged). This is because i thought i prefered her close friend. However, i havent talked to her much since, so maybe i misread. The reason i even considered the kiss was cause she grabbed for and offered altoids hah.
Ok, the close friend, who has done a bunch of kino on me in the past. Anyways, lunch-ish date, offered but wasnt allowed to pay. However, I did offered to pay in a non chalant way after she acted like she wanted me to. She talked about her guy friends the whole time making me think she's an AW, in turn making me question the kino. So i cared less and didnt go in for kiss (hugged). I think i built it up too much cause ive been attracted for prolly 2 months. Anyways i see her later with a group and im not sure who started it first (i thought it was her but now im not sure, she was at least distant) but we were flirting with others, her bigtime. So i suppose either she was jealous or wants me to be, or is an AW, but obviously she does have some girl friends.
Both are gonna be gone for summer in 3-4 weeks, so its kinda like make an impression before that. I think I'm done with the first one. With the second one my plan was to ask for the second date (action) just to drive it into the ground finally. However, my third eye says that she will say no either cause I didnt take enough initiative on first 'date' or because ive acted all distant at the date and since.
One other time i ran into her talking to one of her guy friends, i just left and let them talk and when i came back she basically left as she told us to come to where she would be that night, i didnt go.
Now i am thinking i should restart the flirting/attention when i see her with a group this week, and then ask for second date.
It seems like i should surely 'next' her but for some reason i am pining until i get the rejection. One other thing, she is taller than me, which bothers me, call me crazy.
i think my problem is that i was afraid of initiating the kino with her. i did notice one other time when i half-accidently bumped into her that afterwards she started kino.
/thx
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