should I bother...? I ask myself more and more

[napoleon]

Lately I ask myself should I even bother approaching. Not because I am afraid to approach. Not because I am afraid of rejection. Not cause I dont know how to approach...
It is because EVERY FUKING GIRL I MEET, TRY TO GO OUT WITH, AM FRIENDS WITH HAS A BOYFRIEND.:cuss:
Now THAT really pisses me off. Im 22 and it seems that there are no single girls. Everyone is in some relationship that I, when I see them (I dont know them, but I am good at judging ppl) would say their relationship is, on an excitement scale from 1-10, a 3. It seemp as most of girls are in tepid, and boring relationships with AFCs just not to be alone or out of habit. And there should be more girls in this world than guys. Do I need to date uglies?
I was talking with my friend and came to a question. All 6,7,7.5s are taken, maybe the eights and nines arent? Cause most guys are afraid to approach them?

I need your encouragement, guys.

 

[resilient]

Woman are branch jumpers.

After being a DJ for 3 years now, you should have figured this out by now. You're reacting to their relational status, but what you should be really thinking about is: are you more of a man, than her b/f?If you are, and if you play your cards right she'll leave him for you.

Most women have low self-esteem and feel low and heavily judged for being valueless when they're single, so she'll stay with a guy when her interest level is in the 40-49% range while she begins spinning plates (hopefully you) so she can dump him for you.

Seriously bro, don't sweat it... you're obviously overreacting too much to her situation. You have to face the fact that HB6-10s have AFC boyfriends and are desperate to meet mature DJs that have their act together.

#close her, go out on a date, and if she likes you enough, she'll dump him.

Love is a battlefield and you can win the victory if you learn how to survive a few battles on your own while remaining a challenge and non-needy.

So get out there, man it up and be a DJ! :kick:

 

[Faca]

which i'll never understand, is that you guys are giving numbers to them.. it just reminds you of how hot she is.. and put more and more value to it..

for me there are really 2 options:
0 - not attractive
1 - attractive

don't think, that there's more to judge a woman's physical appearance..

Maybe you should go some place else, there where are more single people.. in every town you have bars where a lot of couples come.. and other where more single people come...

dont think you should steal another man's girl, it has just no moral.. and to demonstrate so that he's an afc and you're not is just stupid.. there are a lot of great attractive woman... just keep your eyes open!

and just to quote Einstein:

The significant problems we have cannot be solved at the same level of thinking with which we created them.

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

 

[DJ_in_making]

Woman are branch jumpers.

After being a DJ for 3 years now, you should have figured this out by now. You're reacting to their relational status, but what you should be really thinking about is: are you more of a man, than her b/f?If you are, and if you play your cards right she'll leave him for you.

Most women have low self-esteem and feel low and heavily judged for being valueless when they're single, so she'll stay with a guy when her interest level is in the 40-49% range while she begins spinning plates (hopefully you) so she can dump him for you.

Seriously bro, don't sweat it... you're obviously overreacting too much to her situation. You have to face the fact that HB6-10s have AFC boyfriends and are desperate to meet mature DJs that have their act together.

#close her, go out on a date, and if she likes you enough, she'll dump him.

Love is a battlefield and you can win the victory if you learn how to survive a few battles on your own while remaining a challenge and non-needy.

So get out there, man it up and be a DJ! :kick:

EXACTLY, think of the game frogger, you're waiting in one log until you can jump to a better one. You wouldn't believe how willing girls are to cheat on their boyfriends and will not feel a SINGLE ounce of guilt! They're pretty evil. You game her right enough she'll forget about him.

 

[napoleon]

which i'll never understand, is that you guys are giving numbers to them.. it just reminds you of how hot she is.. and put more and more value to it..

for me there are really 2 options:
0 - not attractive
1 - attractive

don't think, that there's more to judge a woman's physical appearance..

Maybe you should go some place else, there where are more single people.. in every town you have bars where a lot of couples come.. and other where more single people come...

dont think you should steal another man's girl, it has just no moral.. and to demonstrate so that he's an afc and you're not is just stupid.. there are a lot of great attractive woman... just keep your eyes open!

and just to quote Einstein:

The significant problems we have cannot be solved at the same level of thinking with which we created them.

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

So, if I play the loto I am insane by your proverbs or what is it.

Well, in a perfect world I wouldn't steal girlfriends, and I wouldn't try to show her I'm more cool than her BF. But this is not a perfect world, so if there are taken women, I will try to retake them.
Look at it this way, I'll be doing them a favour!
Tonight I made out with some girl as a cure for so many girls with BFs.


OK, now I had it. I am sick and tired of girls telling me they have bf's. I WILL take them out and do them the favour of spending time with me.
Now I just need to think of some responses to when they tell me they have a boyfriend.
I usually get the "my boyfriend wouldn't like that", "my boyfreind would be jelaous"....


What could I reply with?

 

[Faca]

I usually get the "my boyfriend wouldn't like that", "my boyfreind would be jelaous"....
What could I reply with?

To that i always reply with; that's not my problem.. simple and clear..
Actually they don't want you to answer that.. just something for them, so that they don't feel like cheating or something.. to justify their actions..

hehe.. i think you might have misunderstood some of the proverb.. it's more in the way of: if something doesn't work.. the first couple of times... then it probably won't work the 15th time!.. example, being a nice guy all the time to girl.. and hoping for her to like you..

 

[napoleon]

To that i always reply with; that's not my problem.. simple and clear..
Actually they don't want you to answer that.. just something for them, so that they don't feel like cheating or something.. to justify their actions..

hehe.. i think you might have misunderstood some of the proverb.. it's more in the way of: if something doesn't work.. the first couple of times... then it probably won't work the 15th time!.. example, being a nice guy all the time to girl.. and hoping for her to like you..[/QUO

Yesterday I met these 2 girls in a pub, and I came to this girl and started dancing. This is how the conversation went like:
G: I dont feel like dancing, I'm tired.
me: talking to the them, (I hate when women won't say no so I bug them even though I know I am boring them)
her friend: (after 3 min of not wanting to dance) : Uhhhhhhhhhhhh... we have a boyfriend (making it up)
me: It took you 5 min to come up with this, I thought it will be something more original.
Than I understood that she said that her friend(the one I was intrested in) didn't have a bf
me: Would you like to have one?
g: What?
me: A boyfriend
g: I already have one.
me: Would you like to have 2?
g: giggling after my every answer- But I have a BF
me: I'm not into threesomes with other guys, I prefer girls
g: bla bla
me: Do you have fun with your boyfriend
g: yes
me: Think of all the fun that you'd have with both of us. Twice the fun
g: He alone is too much for me
me: I won't be
g: But if he is, plus you, that would be too much
me: Than you need to blow him off

than the convo went for about 1-2 min and they were like get away from us.

I didn't get the number but as I said I hate it when they don't say no. When they start making excuses they get on my nerve.

 

[Faca]

Your problem is not that she made things up, but your problem is you BEGGING her to dance with you! Why wouldn't she, i can see from what you said.. that you don't believe that you deserve her.. or that you don't think that you're the prize!..

I hate when women won't say no so I bug them even though I know I am boring them
If she was really attracted to you, then her being tired.. would be an issue. She said that cause she felt no attraction for you.

Would you like to have 2?
Again sounding desperate!.. Try rather to tease her.

 

[KEddie]

Let me see if I got this right.

First, we all know women are like Tarzan and his vines.

Second, everytime some guy (usually a HUGE AFC) writes a thread about stealing a girl away from her bf everyone is quick to say that it is a bad idea, and that she'll do the same thing to you one day etc.

Third, Now you are telling this guy to go steal these girls. WTF get your ideas straight guys.

Finally, here's my view on the whole situation napoleon. I think alot of the attractive chicks are already taken and then the ugly ones are usally always free. You just have to keep gaming these b!tches until one happens for whatever reason not to be in a relationship. Keep on keeping on is the lesson to be learned here.

 

[skip2mylou781]

Napoleon -

here is a sample size of 100 girls that id hit on, whether thru myspace, at the club, or in a mall:

50 "have bf's" (some do, some are lying and arent interested)

25 are single, but still not interested

10 are single, interested, and we talk, but i dont end up with the #

5 are single, interested, we talk, i get the #, call, but nothing comes out of it

5 are single, interested, we talk, i get the #, call, we go out, maybe kiss or cuddle or makeout, but dont end up fvcking and i never see her again

5 i HAVE SEX WITH, and out of those 5, i either date them, fvck buddy them, or just 1 nite stand them

so the answer to ur question is - PLAY THE NUMBERS

 

[DJ_in_making]

damn man!

Napoleon -

here is a sample size of 100 girls that id hit on, whether thru myspace, at the club, or in a mall:

50 "have bf's" (some do, some are lying and arent interested)

25 are single, but still not interested

10 are single, interested, and we talk, but i dont end up with the #

5 are single, interested, we talk, i get the #, call, but nothing comes out of it

5 are single, interested, we talk, i get the #, call, we go out, maybe kiss or cuddle or makeout, but dont end up fvcking and i never see her again

5 i HAVE SEX WITH, and out of those 5, i either date them, fvck buddy them, or just 1 nite stand them

so the answer to ur question is - PLAY THE NUMBERS

I understand the whole concept of the numbers game but even for that, this ratio is still exorbitantly low!!! I think if you put time into your appearance and show value that average can come higher.
I know I can't take THAT many rejections props to you if you can.

 

[Faca]

if you just make yourself the guy that's fvcking attractive, and woman can't get enough of.. then your problem shouldn't be al those boyfriends.. and you wouldn't have to play the "numbers" game.. With playing the numbers game you think of chance, but life isn't chance.. there are certain things that work.. and some that don't.

And if they really into you, then their situation doesn't much matter.. it's just what you're going to do about it. I personally don't go after chicks in relationships. If she wants something with me, then she should break with the other guy. And anyway, if she wants to cheat on that guy with me, how could i ever be able to trust her..