should i be worried my gf is so private?

[cordoncordon]

her last name on facebook isn't real. but her first name is. i was thinking before when we first met she did tell me she was very private and that she doesn't even use facebook. she made a new account last week. only has 4 friends and i know them all. so yeah, atm it's just her age and last name. i asked her more than once if she was lying about anything else. she swears that's it and i will know soon. i'm starting to back off a little because i was getting a bit AFC on her with all the lovey dovey messages and chatting. feels weird though that we aren't talking as much as when we first met. anyway, just gonna see how it goes and talk to other girls.

I just caught something. You said in a previous post that you are "dark". Does that mean you are black or hispanic? If so, that could explain a lot. You hardly ever ever ever seen a black or hispanic guy and an Asian women together. In fact I don't know if I ever have and I live in Southern CA where there are Asians everywhere. In Asian culture and family, that is very taboo. I don't want to get into the reasons behind it, but that is just the way it is. Remember i've dated an Asian girl for over 2 years now so I have a pretty good idea what is accepted or not. That could explain why she is being so secretive and private with you. Most Asians only date other Asians or white. Just a thought.

 

[SamTheHobit]

wow. is that all u guys think about on here? i really like this one. she is a virgin so no im not yet. i feel like im the only guy here who actually WANTS to be in love rather than just fuk as many girls i can all my life. seriously. where are those guys?

your not the only one, i mean the emotional connection for me would be more important than the sex, thats probably why im still a virgin. Just have not found that 'one'.

 

[georgie24]

she recently just joined facebook. she keeps setting every strict. like now our relationship status is hidden from her wall. she deleted all her wall posts too. removed her profile picture to a waterfall. i dont know whats goin on in her mind. when i ask about it she changes the subject. am i being too serious about this or am i in the right to wonder? she wont even tell me her age. i know shes a lot older but still. she said soon she will.

i read half of the posts before i realized ....

your getting played and played good.

 

[pipe007]

bro you sound like a lil child OP... (original poster)
this is funnny stuff. you must be like 17 or 18... there is no posible way that a man gets into a serious relationship with someone who wont tell u her age or last name... this is hillarious

played? yeah you are being played in so many different levels is not even funny.. who cares if she is a virgin or not... probably not, and it suks that you not only are being played but you dont get to bang her because u are a wuss who only thinks about being in love (a femenine trait) than being action and physical (masculine trait)

you have no understanding of how attraction works , or how to be ina relationship...
I say she is lying to you in different ways, I say this is your first or second relationship, I say you are not man enough, probably a kid. so its ok.

and after she finishes lying , maybe cheating on u and dumping you , remember to get to know ur girl (lastname, friends, family, age? lmao) before you get into a relationship... or you will end up like.... YOU right now

lol

ok ok before your played mind starts wondering what gives me the authority or right to say these things... well years and years of experience, my age, and beign in your same situation numerous times, give me the right to say, I KNOW YOU ARE FREAKING BEING PLAYED, LIED TO, and disrespected in different levels,,, but she is a good actress though.

and yes I do have a GF, and yes I knew her age and last name after the first week of dating, I got to know her friends after the first month, and I dont wine about her secrecies because I would dump her ass if she were to give me secresies or weird behavior like yours.... you noob!

 

[georgie24]

why the OP would even admit that is beyond me, this has to be a joke?

 

[jhl]

jhl: thank you for understanding.

JUST SO YOU OTHER GUYS KNOW. SHE DOES CALL ME HER BOYFRIEND/MAN. yes, even infront of people. she calls me hun and babe etc. i made a mistake about the hiding status part. my phone wasnt showing it. she has me as her boyfriend on her facebook... my bad. she had her photos up too but i think she set privacy on it so her pics arent showing anymore but thats fine. also sometimes deletes her wall messages. comments on my status, pictures etc so people can see that too. she won't tell me her last name or age yet.. thats about the only things she's not telling me.

this thread has turned into something else now... a lot of people don't know that asians are a whole different kind of game. they just think about having s3x all the time with b1tches. i mean hey that's cool and all. ive had my fun too. but i really like this one. it's the fact that she's different than most girls who just put out on the first, second date. it's kind of a turn on that she doesnt put out so quick.

now on to the real info;
i am not sure what kind of asian she is. i think singapore or malaysia but i am not sure. she is mixed with french too. she hangs out with older women than her who drink and party, (she is the designated driver - she doesn't drink or smoke) - so she just likes to help out. she even hangs out with her god father. she doesn't really have "fun" apart from friendly parties and karaoke sometimes. she plays ps3 with me too often so that's fun. she's just seriously a really nice woman, and im not getting sucked into her like a wuss, so dont worry. i know how to play my game. i am just trying to say that she's not the usual type of woman you guys seems to know.

Ok Chance...now that I read a bit more about the situation I have to say there are a LOT of red flags.

1) You're not sure where she's from (singapore, malaysia, or ???) now that is VERY odd. She's not telling you???? If you meet a foreign woman one of the first things you find about is where she's from!

2) You don't know her LAST NAME yet?????

I'm sorry friend...something is terribly wrong. You don't have the basic info that you should have gotten when you first encountered her.

Also...the tone and the manner in which you write your statement reeks of neediness..and clearly you have put her on a pedestal. For "Asian" girls (to some degree), it is almost necessary to do that (but best combined with a takeway, which I find to be extremely effective), but it doesn't even seem that she's fully Asian (part French you said?). Of the 100 or so mixed Asians I have met in my life, I have only met 1 who was conservative. The odds are against you my friend. Good luck.

 

[cordoncordon]

Update on this? Have you found anything else about her yet?

Here is a pic of my gf, the Asian I mentioned earlier upthread. Post a pic of your girl.



http://img695.imageshack.us/i/rose888.jpg/

 

[Adonis PUA Trainer]

*silence*

Is she...an aquarius?

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

Blackwolf:

Please listen to me and the others about this: This woman is going to use you for something. Either it's attention, or money, or worse.

She is keeping you from knowing anything about her that could lead you to find her. You don't know any of her friends and don't know anything about her. That is not a girlfriend. That is a girl who is keeping herself untrackable.

She may be married. She may be a scam artist. She may ask you for money in the future.

How old are you? How old is she? If you're under 21 then you need to trust me that you're not really experienced enough to know a good relationship when you see one. It takes practice.

This one is going to hurt badly, but eventually she'll reveal her motives or she'll drop off the face of the planet. If facebook and a phone are your only connections to her, well then you're one phone call and one button click away from being blocked out of her life forever.

She will hurt you, and I hope you guard yourself to it and don't lose faith in the rest of women.

 

[LoneWolf]

Ok Chance...now that I read a bit more about the situation I have to say there are a LOT of red flags.

1) You're not sure where she's from (singapore, malaysia, or ???) now that is VERY odd. She's not telling you???? If you meet a foreign woman one of the first things you find about is where she's from!

2) You don't know her LAST NAME yet?????

I'm sorry friend...something is terribly wrong. You don't have the basic info that you should have gotten when you first encountered her.

Also...the tone and the manner in which you write your statement reeks of neediness..and clearly you have put her on a pedestal. For "Asian" girls (to some degree), it is almost necessary to do that (but best combined with a takeway, which I find to be extremely effective), but it doesn't even seem that she's fully Asian (part French you said?). Of the 100 or so mixed Asians I have met in my life, I have only met 1 who was conservative. The odds are against you my friend. Good luck.

Hey, it's me, blackwolf/chance - I have multiple accounts because I sometimes post too many threads and I don't want to annoy people. I'm not trolling guys! I did bullsh1t about one thing though. This thread isn't the real deal. i lied a bit because i know everyone would just say the same thing. GO OUT AND FIND A REAL GIRL. i don't want to hear that because i dont go out much anymore (clubbing/bars/drinking) and i actually like staying home. don't get me wrong, i love to go out to see a movie, walk around the city, shopping centers etc. but no night time fun!

jhl, she lives in texas, usa. the real story is here:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=182152

sorry for the lying guys :S