should i ask my teacher out?

[sychopad]

sry for the wall of text

I KNOW i should ask her out to find out but it can be awkward
no im not shy,rejections is not an issue,its part of the game
itll be wierd if i get rejected by her for the next 6month cus she is my "teacher" in a language course with no exams/tests etc etc

a little back ground:

im 27 shes 24
there are 5 ppl in the class me and her included
she always ask personal questions from all of us
no questions about love life thu
she keeps so much eye contact with a smile while im answering those questions it makes me uncomfortable after 1min i look away and she keeps looking,
its kinda creepy,and then she asks some follow up questions,
once when we were alone she asked if i had pictures of me being fat since im skinny now,(she knew i was fat cus of those "personal questions")
the other teacher was asking me a question she tap on my shoulder and told me "you know the answer to that" while walking away,but i had no fuking idea what was the answer
we do give each other compliments on clothing once in a while,
once she asked me, only me, if you want something to drink since there is a little kitchen in our school(by school i mean 5 rooms close to each other),ofc i said yes
2days ago i tried looking at her with "laser eyes and a smile on my face" if you know what i mean,like the face when you wanna **** some one just by looking at them, (eye fuking)
then she just look down at the book and with a smirk on her face while playing with her hair once in a while,and no more questions that day
she laugh at my jokes even the stupid ones
for example: as always she ask us all what did you do in the weekend,when it was my turn i said a couple of ****,(busy week),she says "wow thats alot",then i said "there is more" and she asks what else then i said "nothing" (see the level of the stupid jokes?)
yesterday,there was this girl that didnt brought her book to the class,the teacher told he to come sit by her,then i gave my book to the girl and took my chair and sit near the teacher,(REALLY close,our chairs were touching,and there was ALOT of room for her to back off,but she didnt)
i accidentaly touched her elbow with my elbow for a quick 2 sec,she didnt backed off,i looked at her she was answering some one elses question saw a smirk on her face again
after the class she was passing by looked at me for a good 10 sec while walking and kept smiling,


i know body language is there,its text book,but i never seen "nice" girls,
since i just askem out before they get the chance to be nice

i really really rather not have an awkward language course
what do you guys think

 

[BetterCallSaul]

No offense but being 27, you haven't figured this out by now? This whole scenario doesn't sound too complicated and this young woman knows what she's doing.

However being as school is related to a man's professional career in one way or another and his ability to earn, I'll advise treating this as if you're at work, which is don't date anyone at work. However since you said it's another 6 months until class is out, you could ask her out when your classes are finished.

Until then, slowly increase sexual tension between the two of you. Hell make it a game even to see which one of you breaks first. Back in the day when I was still single I was a master at this approach and girls begging for my d!ck without even looking like I wanted the pu$$y. Of course I did want it, but I never let them see that side of me until they were asking me to bang them. Sort of a mindf*ck I guess....wow remembering this now I haven't done that in a LONG time.

Anyway, if you're up for it, see if you can get her to break first.

 

[sychopad]

No offense but being 27, you haven't figured this out by now? This whole scenario doesn't sound too complicated and this young woman knows what she's doing.

However being as school is related to a man's professional career in one way or another and his ability to earn, I'll advise treating this as if you're at work, which is don't date anyone at work. However since you said it's another 6 months until class is out, you could ask her out when your classes are finished.

Until then, slowly increase sexual tension between the two of you. Hell make it a game even to see which one of you breaks first. Back in the day when I was still single I was a master at this approach and girls begging for my d!ck without even looking like I wanted the pu$$y. Of course I did want it, but I never let them see that side of me until they were asking me to bang them. Sort of a mindf*ck I guess....wow remembering this now I haven't done that in a LONG time.

Anyway, if you're up for it, see if you can get her to break first.

yea im overthinking it, thnx for the slap in the face bro,really needed it,

 

[mangotot]

Ask her out the last week of semester. If you ask her out now and it don't go too well, it will be well awkward to say the least.

 

[salinechow]

Ruler is a good poster and a respected memeber I think but.... He is underdeveloped.

I didnt even read the whole post and I can already tell.

Ego validation technique.

This woman is a cat woman in the making.
Lonely, damaged and getting off on the scenario of the position of "power" of teacher student dynamic.
This has bad bad bad written all over it.
You should also have more options than to be considering it.
Pass the class and pass on the girl.
Spin plates.

 

[Igetit!]

Don't ask her anything. For another week or two charge her sexual tension, and after 10 more class sessions pick a day when you notice she's really smiley or flirty.

Then ask her to stay after class to tutor you. Pull a chair up right next to yours at a desk during the tutor session and put your hand on her knee when you're talking to her. See how she responds.

DAMN Ruler.

That's quite an imagination you got there. That advice sounds like a scene straight out of some low budget porno movie. :crackup:

 

[VladPatton]

Sling some dîck her way, yo...

Slap a Brazzers logo on her desk and see her after class, son! Oh shìt!

 

[sychopad]

i did forgot to mention,a month ago it was her birth day which she broughtsome of her birthday cake to the class,we all ate it ,sing happy birthday after that i asked her what she want for her birthday present,she was like "ummm ummm"
for a min or so,then she asked for a "second hand harry potter" book in "english" which would cost me like 5$(im guessing she said it cus its more appropriate),next week i got her some chocolate and told her i couldnt find the book in "english"(not the language im learning),in 2 weeks its my birth day im thinking maybe i should get a cake to the class,and if/when she asked what do you want for your birth day i say "how about a date",what do you guys think about that?

 

[sychopad]

i fogot to mention,it was her birthday a month a go ,she brought some cake to the class,we all sang happy Bday ,after that i asked her what she wants for her birth day present,after a min or two of "ummmm ummm"
she said "second hand harry potter" in "english"(which isnt the same language we are practicing)
any how i got her some chocolate(white chocolate cus she likes white chocolate) next week and told her i couldnt find the book in english,and since you like white choclate i got you some ,she was smiling so hard you could count all her teeths

im thinking since my birth day is in about 2 weeks,i should get a cake and see if she asks me what i want for present and i tell her "how about a date"
what do you guys think?

EDIT: and thank you "bettercallsaul" for the punch in the face,really needed that,seriously thank you

EDIT2: i should add,she seems to have no experience in teaching,since i can take over the class easily,im the class clown and the smartest student in that class,
once i took over the class it was like i was the teacher,i saw her being uncomfortable,so i stoped,then the other two girls started talking,i said "shhhhhhh the teacher is here",
and she whispered "thank you" (this happend when i was sitting next to her as i said in the OP)

 

[sychopad]

Ego validation technique.

This woman is a cat woman in the making.
Lonely, damaged and getting off on the scenario of the position of "power" of teacher student dynamic.
This has bad bad bad written all over it.
You should also have more options than to be considering it.
Pass the class and pass on the girl.
Spin plates.

your saying i shouldnt go for it?
im not gonna lie,it seems a bit odd to me too

EDIT: ofc there are more options BUT wouldnt you wanna date a "teacher",a taboo relationship? just to see how its like?

 

[BetterCallSaul]

i fogot to mention,it was her birthday a month a go ,she brought some cake to the class,we all sang happy Bday ,after that i asked her what she wants for her birth day present,after a min or two of "ummmm ummm"
she said "second hand harry potter" in "english"(which isnt the same language we are practicing)
any how i got her some chocolate(white chocolate cus she likes white chocolate) next week and told her i couldnt find the book in english,and since you like white choclate i got you some ,she was smiling so hard you could count all her teeths

im thinking since my birth day is in about 2 weeks,i should get a cake and see if she asks me what i want for present and i tell her "how about a date"
what do you guys think?

EDIT: and thank you "bettercallsaul" for the punch in the face,really needed that,seriously thank you

EDIT2: i should add,she seems to have no experience in teaching,since i can take over the class easily,im the class clown and the smartest student in that class,
once i took over the class it was like i was the teacher,i saw her being uncomfortable,so i stoped,then the other two girls started talking,i said "shhhhhhh the teacher is here",
and she whispered "thank you" (this happend when i was sitting next to her as i said in the OP)

I bolded what I'm focusing on in my reply. Seriously dude? Again, you're 27 and this is what you come up with? Go back and re-read it if you have to. You still seem wrapped up in this teenage fantasy world bull$hit where they imagine something like .... "Ok, so I'll wear this one day, she'll come in looking all hot and stuff, I'll say XYZ, she'll reply with her usual, then I'll comeback saying XYZ*2, then I'll ask her out, she'll say yes, we'll go out and she'll be all over me and I'll bang her in my car"

Is this really what you've come up with for a plan? REALLY? You come off sounding like a damn 16 year old girl. Look if this class is critical for you in some capacity, such as advancing your career or getting a promotion or something leading up to that stuff, wise up and get serious for a minute. You want to ask her out, do it when the class if finished and f*cking man up already. She either says yes or no. Don't be ambiguous about it; make it clear you're into her in a romantic sense and she'll give you an answer so then you can move on with your life. Dig down in your crotch, it may take a while from the sounds of it, and find your balls....grow 'em if you have to..... and act like a damn man for once instead of engaging in this stupid teenage fantasy drama.

 

[sychopad]

I bolded what I'm focusing on in my reply. Seriously dude? Again, you're 27 and this is what you come up with? Go back and re-read it if you have to. You still seem wrapped up in this teenage fantasy world bull$hit where they imagine something like .... "Ok, so I'll wear this one day, she'll come in looking all hot and stuff, I'll say XYZ, she'll reply with her usual, then I'll comeback saying XYZ*2, then I'll ask her out, she'll say yes, we'll go out and she'll be all over me and I'll bang her in my car"

Is this really what you've come up with for a plan? REALLY? You come off sounding like a damn 16 year old girl. Look if this class is critical for you in some capacity, such as advancing your career or getting a promotion or something leading up to that stuff, wise up and get serious for a minute. You want to ask her out, do it when the class if finished and f*cking man up already. She either says yes or no. Don't be ambiguous about it; make it clear you're into her in a romantic sense and she'll give you an answer so then you can move on with your life. Dig down in your crotch, it may take a while from the sounds of it, and find your balls....grow 'em if you have to..... and act like a damn man for once instead of engaging in this stupid teenage fantasy drama.

**** man!! i should have a friend like you irl,no more thinking,ill do it on the next class,like always,no fuks given,will post the results!

 

[BetterCallSaul]

Well I'll say this much, if he comes back with an update of what he plans to do, I'll check back on this. I can at least admit I do like reading follow-ups on what happens after advice is given here and on other red pill forums where members post their successes/failures in approaches or banging some chick.

 

[pyros]

either OP is not 27, or he is really naive and lacks experience with women.

It is not that complicated, forget about all your 'magical' plans or strategies.

As someone above said, just wait for the end of the semester and ask her out for a drink. She either says yes or no. You can ask her in person, on the phone, or by text.

If she says yes which I highly doubt, then proceed. If she says no or gives you some lame excuse, just go find another chick elsewhere.

 

[sychopad]

Well I'll say this much, if he comes back with an update of what he plans to do, I'll check back on this. I can at least admit I do like reading follow-ups on what happens after advice is given here and on other red pill forums where members post their successes/failures in approaches or banging some chick.

ill do what i always do,
will get touchy and whisper some bull**** into her ear (can be any bull****),
for example (while being REALLY serious)(with a low voice) say
"pst, wanna know a secret?" ofc she will say "yes",then grab her arm, get close to her and whisper "you pants has wholes in it"(u know like most jeans that have holes in them)(or something funny about her clothing),make her laugh and depending on her reaction get her number and call her right there grab her phone and add myself to her contacts with a funny name (ex: "Handsome" "hot guy" "shy guy"(shy guy only when i wasnt shy AT ALL) etc etc) these names always gave us alot to talk about while texting

what im gonna whisper will come to mind when im in the field,im not gonna plan it anymore

but you get the idea of how im gonna approach,itll have whispering and touching

 

[sychopad]

either OP is not 27, or he is really naive and lacks experience with women.

It is not that complicated, forget about all your 'magical' plans or strategies.

As someone above said, just wait for the end of the semester and ask her out for a drink. She either says yes or no. You can ask her in person, on the phone, or by text.

If she says yes which I highly doubt, then proceed. If she says no or gives you some lame excuse, just go find another chick elsewhere.

well,i remember overthinking stuff when i first asking one married woman out,which turned out to be the easiest one i had til now !!!
i guess i overthink situations that never happend to me before,
clubs/street/bars are easiest

EDIT: but yea i get what your saying

 

[JohnChops]

Slap a Brazzers logo on her desk and see her after class, son! Oh shìt!

THIS DO THIS lol i slappedo n on my friends car, he gets a lot of strange looks now .

 

[sychopad]

Update

just got back from from my date with her

heres what happendthe important parts)

we arrived at the same time to the class,started up with "how are you" "what you did in the weekend" and **** like that,
while grabing her arm i asked her "how do you say""can i ask you out on a date?" in X language?
then she told me that in X language
(i saw it in her eyes that shes thinking that im asking her out,it seemed stupid to say the same thing to her but i said something else instead)
then i said with X language "jee. i dunno,but your too young for my taste,too skinny"(with a smile on face ofc)
while she was laughing and playfuly punching me,i said "im jking im jking,but you still punch like a little girl"
any how,i took her number saved her to my contacts as "little girl" and let her see it,and told her im going to bowling after the class if you want you can join (i didnt wanted to say it,it just came out)
(thnx to ruler for saying "Why would you ask her? Tell her you're going out to dinner and she can join you" it just suddenly came to my mind)

class went smoothly,after the class i went home and changed and texted her the bowling address,
she didnt know how to throw OR she acted like she didnt,idc
i showed her how to with ALOT of body touch(molesting i would call it,it was obvious she wanted it),after making fun of her (throwing like a little girl)
after bowling we went to a bar,we kissed,BUT i was pulling back while kissing
(god knows i didnt wanted to,i was telling my self your 27 ACT LIKE A MAN you fuking *****,lol kept remembering what BettercallSaul said to me)
after the last pull she got mad (i was thinking FUK YOU BetterCallSaul lol)
this part i messed up by saying "i like the tension"
then i saw her get defensive,so i just stoped saying anything else(thinking omg it went to **** so fast)

i payed for the drinks
went out walked her to her house without touching(she was still pissed at me,and i wasnt saying anything either in a 10min walk),
we got to her house,she said "i would ask you to come in for coffe"(she did the air quote) but the kissing wasnt fun,
i said "i dont have the sugar(with air quote)(referring to condom) for the coffe either,so its ok"(but i had it T.T)
we laughed and kissed her good bye,tommorow we will go for another drink "in this great place i know" (which happends to be near my house)and probably get laid after that,unless something really really bad happends which i doubt it will :moon:


special thnx to "bettercallsaul" you got me laid tomorrow with a "teacher"
im gonna go fap now,so i can be good in bed tomorrow
2weeks no fap ill *** in 5sec

 

[BrainDamage92]

Dude you shouldve fuked her by now what do you want to fall in love or smth? Dont drag it. Fuk her right in the pvssy. And no it will be no problem since its not formal education or work.


GO

GO

GO

EDIT: OH MAN WHY WOULD YOU FUK IT UP WITH THE PULLING BACK AND THE TENSION COMMENT LIKE THAT Oh boyyy...

 

[JohnChops]

Lol he didn't **** up he did fine.