should i ask her out?

[conandoyle]

um... well.... i have been close to this girl for some time, in fact, we talk almost every day, and she AIMS me constantly... she asked me out to junior prom, and she's very nice. Well... i'm wondering what i should do after prom... She told me earlier that she usually accepts when guys ask her out, but she actually dumped one of my friends earlier in high school.... Should i ask her out?

 

[BBX]

from the sounds of this, I think your deep in the friend zone. If shes telling you about her and guys, your in the friend zone. when you say close, do u mean u talk to her a lot, or have hooked up with her? if you hadn't hooked up with her, your the friend dude.

 

[conandoyle]

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yea... i just talk to her like... every day

 

[BBX]

maybe youll hook up with her at junior prom, but don't count on it. after that you can ask her out, but I think your knee deep in the friend zone. This sounds quite familiar to something that happened to me.

 

[CalmCoolAndConfident]

Hey dude, your in <play twilite zone theme> the "FRIEND ZONE". Yea I ve been there too, we all have, as hard as it is move on, give her up as friend she will only hurt you. Heres what I try to do to keep myself out of it, set up a date with in 2-3 times of meeting her, and if you strike out the first time go to the next girl. To successuly be a DJ you cannot let yourself get attached, thats the bottom line.

 

[Touchout]

um... well.... i have been close to this girl for some time, in fact, we talk almost every day, and she AIMS me constantly... she asked me out to junior prom, and she's very nice. Well... i'm wondering what i should do after prom... She told me earlier that she usually accepts when guys ask her out, but she actually dumped one of my friends earlier in high school.... Should i ask her out?

Hmm... going to have to disagree with the two before me, personally I feel like this girl wants you.

Lets take a look, SHE asked you to junior prom, SHE im's you constantly, SHE told you she accepts when "guys" ask her out (hint hint).

So, take a chance, go on a few dates, see where it goes.

 

[The Shocker]

I agree with Touchout. Anyway, even if we're wrong, you'll know where you stand, and won't waste time with this girl anymore.

 

[Kev07]

don't ask her out formally, just step it up before/during/after prom