So i met this girl in Denver three weeks ago. i chat her up in the street and she gave me her number. We taxt every other day. She thought i was Cute and i thought she was funny, attached is history of text. Should i keep chat with her or Ask her out already ?
Should I Ask her out on date! Any Suggestion/opinions
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BPH
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Bruh, you're 37 years old and been chatting to this girl for 3 weeks...what the hell is this "what was your first impression of me?" beating around the bush type bullsh**.
I live in salt lake city, Utah
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Awesome doing that this evening
BPH
Master Don Juan
You're 37. You really don't have time for these games and you shouldn't need the ego boost from a woman you've been long-distance texting for 3 weeks to tell you "you're cute".
Why are you even entertaining this?
You live in a city with 3x the population of where I'm at, but you don't see me becoming fu**ing penpals with somebody who lives 8 hours away.
Come on man...
The Duke
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Tell her to come to your city for a good time. Be a little suggestive. I've had long distance girls come see me and there was always sex on the first date.
You need to turn the heat up on her and under your own ass.
This the only girl you are talking to? Don't let them live rent free in your head.
You need to turn the heat up on her and under your own ass.
This the only girl you are talking to? Don't let them live rent free in your head.
Haha it has Nothing to do with age bro
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
Did that she is coming tomorrow the rest Will play out perfectly smooth
The Diver
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Don't ask a girl what she thinks about you; this is approval and validation seeking; "you know you're awesome," and you don't need a girl to tell you that.
Also, there are too many hahaha in your texts, in my opinion.
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You should have already asked her out. Why are you texting randomly for weeks?
Millard Fillmore
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Always make plans to be in person as quickly as possible. Keep texting to a minimum.
Good that she's coming to see you in SLC. Show her a good time, isolate, make your move. That's all there is to it.
Thanks bruh
Lesson learned