shjttt test. How should I respond to this??

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Hey boys. For more context look at my last post. But this girl just shjtt test me on snap. Haven’t replied yet. Any tips on how to pass this one?

Her - “I’m just going to cut to the ****, I know you’re probably talking to other bitchs, and I just want to let you know, I’m not playing any games”

This girl is a crazy ***** that has had a crush on me for years and randomly txt me asking if I wanted to fck.

We’ve basically been sexting back and fourth but haven’t done the deed yet bc we live in different states.
Not really a sh1t test. More just some of the meaningless things chicks say in early phase dating. Like others have said - until you have the first date secured you really have nothing. Stop being her texting buddy and set a date and make it happen.
 

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Not really a sh1t test. More just some of the meaningless things chicks say in early phase dating. Like others have said - until you have the first date secured you really have nothing. Stop being her texting buddy and set a date and make it happen.
preach. noted.
 

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"I’m just going to cut to the ****, I know you’re probably talking to other bitchs, and I just want to let you know, I’m not playing any games”

I have never got such a text from a girl...... I don't see where she either implies or expresses she wants you to have sex with her. Am I missing anything?

This is a cross examination question. She wants to know if you are or not talking to other girls, women, donkeys, hens, goats...etc. She is puting words in your mouth and acts in your life.

I would simply reply to her "me neither." Or "Ok" or " thanks for the information" or "I know".
She probably won't believe you. When you reply to her make sure you act nonchalant and disregard the whole text. Act indifferent.
 
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"I’m just going to cut to the ****, I know you’re probably talking to other bitchs, and I just want to let you know, I’m not playing any games”

I have never got such a text from a girl...... I don't see where she either implies or expresses she wants you to have sex with her. Am I missing anything?

This is a cross examination question. She wants to know if you are or not talking to other girls, women, donkeys, hens, goats...etc. She is puting words in your mouth and acts in your life.

I would simply reply to her "me neither." Or "Ok" or " thanks for the information" or "I know".
She probably won't believe you. When you reply to her make sure you act nonchalant and disregard the whole text. Act indifferent.
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me and her have been talking about meeting and ****ing for the past week. she’s out of state so I haven’t figured out a way to do it with my schedule yet... But I already replied to her. here is our convo so far.

I replied with “good to know. so who’s bringing the handcuffs.”

Her - “so you are”

Me - “Yes, I am”

Her - hmm have fun

Me - “ I am being 100% honest with you”

Her (still waiting for reply)

fck i feel like the 100% honest thing was the wrong way to go...
 

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"I’m just going to cut to the ****, I know you’re probably talking to other bitchs, and I just want to let you know, I’m not playing any games”

I have never got such a text from a girl...... I don't see where she either implies or expresses she wants you to have sex with her. Am I missing anything?

This is a cross examination question. She wants to know if you are or not talking to other girls, women, donkeys, hens, goats...etc. She is puting words in your mouth and acts in your life.

I would simply reply to her "me neither." Or "Ok" or " thanks for the information" or "I know".
She probably won't believe you. When you reply to her make sure you act nonchalant and disregard the whole text. Act indifferent.
me and her have been talking about meeting and ****ing for the past week. she’s out of state so I haven’t figured out a way to do it with my schedule yet... But I already replied to her. here is our convo so far.

I replied with “good to know. so who’s bringing the handcuffs.”

Her - “so you are”

Me - “Yes, I am”

Her - hmm have fun

Me - “ I am being 100% honest with you”

Her (still waiting for reply)

fck i feel like the 100% honest thing was the wrong way to go...
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When she said hmm have fun I wouldn't have responded.
 

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But, you sh!t the bed when you double texted with "I'm being 100% honest with you."
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okay. yeah. she said said “I appreciate it. and I’m being 100% honest with you. have fun.”

I haven’t replied.
 

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Don't reply.

She wants you to chase her. Women get off on this sh!t.
yeah I know. i really wanna fck this girl man. she’s hanging out with her girl gang rn, so I think she is just tryna be all big ***** mode in front of her friends.
 

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"I’m just going to cut to the ****, I know you’re probably talking to other bitchs, and I just want to let you know, I’m not playing any games”

I have never got such a text from a girl...... I don't see where she either implies or expresses she wants you to have sex with her. Am I missing anything?

This is a cross examination question. She wants to know if you are or not talking to other girls, women, donkeys, hens, goats...etc. She is puting words in your mouth and acts in your life.

I would simply reply to her "me neither." Or "Ok" or " thanks for the information" or "I know".
She probably won't believe you. When you reply to her make sure you act nonchalant and disregard the whole text. Act indifferent.
me and her have been talking about meeting and ****ing for the past week. she’s out of state so I haven’t figured out a way to do it with my schedule yet... But I already replied to her. here is our convo so far.

I replied with “good to know. so who’s bringing the handcuffs.”

Her - “so you are”

Me - “Yes, I am”

Her - hmm have fun

Me - “ I am being 100% honest with you”

Her (still waiting for reply)

fck i feel like the 100% honest thing was the wrong way to go...
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"Good to know" was enough. "Who is bringing the handcuffs" sounds like you know all about her, and you taking her for granted. Now she is gone and left you wonder, and with the pants down. Also " being 100% honest line" is another big fvcked up.
 
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Me “good to know. so who’s bringing the handcuffs.”

Her - “so you are”

Me - “Yes, I am”

Her - hmm have fun (this was it, have fun with yourself is what she meant to tell you.)

You didn't get it right away, but she actually turned you down at have fun. Sounds like ok goodbye, have fun.bye bye.
 

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Hey boys. For more context look at my last post. But this girl just shjtt test me on snap. Haven’t replied yet. Any tips on how to pass this one?

Her - “I’m just going to cut to the ****, I know you’re probably talking to other bitchs, and I just want to let you know, I’m not playing any games”

This girl is a crazy ***** that has had a crush on me for years and randomly txt me asking if I wanted to fck.

We’ve basically been sexting back and fourth but haven’t done the deed yet bc we live in different states.
Yes I'm talking to other women who are not as bitchy as you are now. *Smirk*
 

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Hey boys. For more context look at my last post. But this girl just shjtt test me on snap. Haven’t replied yet. Any tips on how to pass this one?

Her - “I’m just going to cut to the ****, I know you’re probably talking to other bitchs, and I just want to let you know, I’m not playing any games”

This girl is a crazy ***** that has had a crush on me for years and randomly txt me asking if I wanted to fck.

We’ve basically been sexting back and fourth but haven’t done the deed yet bc we live in different states.
Meet her at a motel.
 

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yeah I know. i really wanna fck this girl man. she’s hanging out with her girl gang rn, so I think she is just tryna be all big ***** mode in front of her friends.
Focus your attention on other women. You seem way too thirsty for this girl and your messages will reflect that if you continue.
 

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Hey boys. For more context look at my last post. But this girl just shjtt test me on snap. Haven’t replied yet. Any tips on how to pass this one?

Her - “I’m just going to cut to the ****, I know you’re probably talking to other bitchs, and I just want to let you know, I’m not playing any games”

This girl is a crazy ***** that has had a crush on me for years and randomly txt me asking if I wanted to fck.

We’ve basically been sexting back and fourth but haven’t done the deed yet bc we live in different states.
We have only one question, how much do you like her on a scale from 1-10 (10 being a lot)?

If the answer is in the 7-10 range then go for it. If the answer is below 7, then don't. Plenty of girls you can lose your virginity to that you are actually into. That is, of course, if your virginity is important to you. If it's not, then go for it and get the experience under your belt so that when you sleep with a girl you are really into, you won't be as bad (Everyone is bad the first time).

Hope this helps.


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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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