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mrgoodstuff

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The decision is ultimately urs.

Do you make it a habit to give without any returns?

Even monks offering prayers requests "donations"...
I don't . I just don't find it useful being an extra helpful friend for someone I want sex with. Shell use you for relationship attention and get dyck from a man who friendzone her .
 

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I don't . I just don't find it useful being an extra helpful friend for someone I want sex with. Shell use you for relationship attention and get dyck from a man who friendzone her .
People oftentimes feel being taken advantage off, and to me it's because they allow it to happen or because they aren't skilful in staggering "being helpful".

For instance, if you were to bring me coffee every morning, I'll naturally would expect coffee from you and it must meet the taste that I'm accustomed to. Sometimes I might even gently reprimand you for being late or buying the wrong type.

But if you were to buy me coffee sparingly, on certain occasions, I'd most certainly appreciate it and would thank you graciously.

Does this make sense?
 

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People oftentimes feel being taken advantage off, and to me it's because they allow it to happen or because they aren't skilful in staggering "being helpful".

For instance, if you were to bring me coffee every morning, I'll naturally would expect coffee from you and it must meet the taste that I'm accustomed to. Sometimes I might even gently reprimand you for being late or buying the wrong type.

But if you were to buy me coffee sparingly, on certain occasions, I'd most certainly appreciate it and would thank you graciously.

Does this make sense?
The freeloaders and moochers teach us this lesson.

I wouldn't do extra favors just cause someone is visually attractive .

If we do a few friend things for each other, great.

I wouldn't do it to sniff around and hang around . I'd only do it cause she's generous to me.
 
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