She's Pregnant oh no

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Originally posted by Immaculate
YES IT IS. She lied to me and said she was on the pill...
Then theres a chance she is doing it again about the abortion.



Originally posted by Immaculate
YES IT IS. She lied to me and said she was on the pill...
My first advice to all guys is never trust a girl when she says she is taking birth control.
My second advice is the triple three. Where a condom, have her use a IUD and have her take the pill. That way the chances of getting her pregnant is almost nil.
My third advice havnt you ever heard of STD? (Like AIDS!) I think more than a few guys on this board got seriously scared when they found out their partner had AIDS or some other incurable STD.

Obviously the message is not getting to people.
 

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I feel bad for the guy but I'm pretty much against abortion.

Then again for some people taking personal responsibility isn't an option.

I blame the girl but even so she could have been on the pill and it failed as well.

Some girls are trying to trap guys.

Man I hate pregnancy scares. I think the next scare and my number is up!
 

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Ah the joys of an unavailable male pill, exactly where society (legal system and women) wants it. The cash cow sucker that is man .

I fell for the "I'm on the pill" looong ago. A b!tch saying "I'm on the pill" means "TODAY I dont want a child but tomorrow is a different day, and you better believe that sucker".

I decided awhile back that me being the man and the traditional decision maker that I will be ejaculating into every and all women I fvck with a total non caring attitude.

What? your pregnant. Hmmm me being the main decision maker I dont ever recall telling you I want a child. Thank heavens for the power of denial and the refusal to add my name to any piece of paper that ties me to the child.

I call it what goes around comes around, or whats good for the goose is good for the gander.

Life is good.
 

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Originally posted by whyshy
How did it go? Did she have an abortion?

not yet... still waiting for our aapt at planned parenthood wednesday. Supposedly the firsty appt is to see how fay along she is. then we ave another appt. fri. fr the abortion.

help me i'm in hell.
 

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Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
What the hell are you believin' these skanks for? Why are you believing someone who's sleeping around what she says about the pill? What are you doing stickin' your penis inside somebody you know is speeping with other guys, probably unprotected, without a condom? What are you doing cvming inside of her? Now who's fault is it?

Take some responsibility man, and sack it up. With that attitude you have now I will not be surprised if you go out there and keep doing the same thing. Inocent by means of ignorance is not a defense.
i wouldn't mind having the kid if I loved the girl.. but I have zero feelings for this girl. If only I didn't let the girl of my dreams
leave me 5 years ago.. I really loved that girl and she wanted to marry me.. but I got into drugs and she left me :(

Damn I wish it was her...then I would be excited about te kid.
 

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Originally posted by Immaculate
i wouldn't mind having the kid if I loved the girl.. but I have zero feelings for this girl. If only I didn't let the girl of my dreams
leave me 5 years ago.. I really loved that girl and she wanted to marry me.. but I got into drugs and she left me :(

Damn I wish it was her...then I would be excited about te kid.
Again, you refuse to take responsibility. You know, as in, it is your fault for not wearing a condom and/or not pulling out or messin' around with skanks like that who sleep around, unprotected, with other guys. What are you gonna do different? Stop feeling sorry for yourself about the dream girl that got away and learn something, yeah, LIKE PUT A RUBBER ON!
 

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Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Stop feeling sorry for yourself about the dream girl that got away and learn something, yeah, LIKE PUT A RUBBER ON!
:rolleyes: Cookie cutter response. Chicks lie so its the MANS job to wear a rubber and diminish what HE feels during sex. And once again the b!tch gets away with it.

Well fvck that noise. I say embrace it. I say lets celebrate the fact men now have ZERO say whether or not he will father a child. So women hold ALL the cards when it comes to this subject do they? Women can and do always lie when it comes to this subject do they? But we are supposed to just ignore this glaring injustice and "Be a man" by rolling over and smile while getting fvcked in the ass?

Somethings not adding up here.
 

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Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Again, you refuse to take responsibility. You know, as in, it is your fault for not wearing a condom and/or not pulling out or messin' around with skanks like that who sleep around, unprotected, with other guys. What are you gonna do different? Stop feeling sorry for yourself about the dream girl that got away and learn something, yeah, LIKE PUT A RUBBER ON!

Actually I DID pull out every time.

guess it didn't work or it isn't my kid?
 

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Well it's Monday. A new week.

1st appt. at planned parenthood is Wed.

I'm going totake her I'll let you know how it goes.

Thank god I have some xanax to calm my nerves.
 

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I have been there man, it is terrible.

Ignore the chumps and make sure she has the abortion or your life is ruined

Don't let a stupid mistake ruin three lives! We are thinking beings. Abortion is no different from birth control, each causes a potential person not to be born.

So what? There are enough chumps alive on this earth already

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Originally posted by Immaculate
Actually I DID pull out every time.

guess it didn't work or it isn't my kid?
pre ejaculation occurs during sex and can lead to pregnancy.
 

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Originally posted by dietzcoi
I have been there man, it is terrible.

Ignore the chumps and make sure she has the abortion or your life is ruined

Don't let a stupid mistake ruin three lives! We are thinking beings. Abortion is no different from birth control, each causes a potential person not to be born.

So what? There are enough chumps alive on this earth already

Dietzcoi

if this is the decision he has made, then it needs to be done asap .
sitting around dwelling on it all over and over for days is not helping.
perhaps he shouldnt be going thru planned pregnancy, where they will try to talk you out of it.
have you called the most local areas and found out how much abortion would be without this planned parenthood crap?
where you can walk in, get the ulrasound and the abortion all done at once?

dietz, tell him waiting is bad when you are under "change your mind " circumstances.
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
if this is the decision he has made, then it needs to be done asap .
sitting around dwelling on it all over and over for days is not helping.
perhaps he shouldnt be going thru planned pregnancy, where they will try to talk you out of it.
have you called the most local areas and found out how much abortion would be without this planned parenthood crap?
where you can walk in, get the ulrasound and the abortion all done at once?

dietz, tell him waiting is bad when you are under "change your mind " circumstances.
Look, the appt at planned parenthood is in 2 days .. I think i'll wait till then. They'll try to talk us out of it? Well they won't, and she's gonna get the abortion.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
There's pretty strict rules about giving that pill. It's mostly used right after a rape or molestation. Also, if it's been 8 weeks since you had sex and she conceived, she's actually really about 12 weeks pregnant because they figure gestational age from the first day of the woman's last period.

I would like to know where you get this BS. She already went to the clinic and they told her she is 7 weeks, because that's when she had her last period. Please explain how she could be at 12 weeks now because that's borderline they won't do the abortion.

How many weeks will planned parenthoood perfrom an abortion?
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
if this is the decision he has made, then it needs to be done asap .
sitting around dwelling on it all over and over for days is not helping.
perhaps he shouldnt be going thru planned pregnancy, where they will try to talk you out of it.
have you called the most local areas and found out how much abortion would be without this planned parenthood crap?
where you can walk in, get the ulrasound and the abortion all done at once?

dietz, tell him waiting is bad when you are under "change your mind " circumstances.

well planned parenthoos says 2 appts are needed. The first one to see how far she is, then 2 days later the abortion. I don't know why they don't just do it all at once.
 

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Originally posted by Immaculate
well planned parenthoos says 2 appts are needed. The first one to see how far she is, then 2 days later the abortion. I don't know why they don't just do it all at once.
they just did this to my best friend.
she wanted to go thru planned parenthood thinking the cost would be lower, and it was lower than other places and she is disabled and draws very little on her ssi check.
they make her appointment 3 weeks from when she called due to their high volume demand ok.
by the time she gets in there , she is further along than what she thought. here she thought she was 12 weeks, which was the last week she was allowed to go thru them. turns out she was 16 weeks.
now she can not go thru them.
so we call the only other place in the state to take her. they will do the abortion however now the cost is no longer 400 and something bucks but its like 600 bucks. she doesnt have enough money. we called agencies to help with the money, the national abortion something offered to help with 100 bucks only.
when she has 600 bucks and calls to make the appointment she is 19 weeks and it is like 945 bucks.
when she has 945 bucks , she is 21 weeks and they wont perform the abortion any longer.

now she calls her dr, because in our state, medicaid will pay for it if the dr says she has to have one.
they told her with the last baby, not to have any more due to her heart condition.
her dr sends her to a special high risk dr .
the special high risk dr says no, i will help you have a healthy pregnancy.

her son, was born 8 days ago. he is healthy. the dr now says to the mother, arent you glad you had him?

you see how they work?
 

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
I say lets celebrate the fact men now have ZERO say whether or not he will father a child.
Untrue, because you can choose to:

1) insist that the woman use some sort of birth control, such as contraceptive jelly, right there in front of you, so that you KNOW she did something

2) use a condom every single time

or even

3) say, "I don't want to create a child today, so I'm not going to have intercourse."

A woman can't FORCE you to have intercourse, so if you get a woman pregnant it's because you made a choice to deposit your sperm near a fertile egg, and now have to live with the consequences like every adult does.
 

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1) insist that the woman use some sort of birth control, such as contraceptive jelly, right there in front of you, so that you KNOW she did something
:crackup:
2) use a condom every single time
Why dont I just have a wank?
3) say, "I don't want to create a child today, so I'm not going to have intercourse."
:crackup:

This just gets better.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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