shes doing my head in! need your thoughts!

[Pimp-sicle]

thanks for all the replies, its helped me alot.

just an update though.....all this week we've been sextexting quite a lot and we've agreed to meet up an fu*k.....bad move?

Also shes told me that shes inlove with me and that everytime shes with him she wishes it was me but is still to afraid to break up with him...

You said all the replies have helped alot but your doing EXACTLY what you shouldn't be doing, so I'm just curious as to how this has helped you?

Secondly this girl is nuts and the fact that you believe her WORDS tells me you lack experience with women. Basic rule of the game: FOR A WOMAN'S TRUE INTENTIONS DON'T LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAYS, INSTEAD WATCH WHAT SHE DOES!

Lastly you say you two are going to meet up an fuvk... well hate to break it to you but sex is not something that's arranged like a pre-party drinking session before going out on Friday night. Sex is something that is spontaneous between two people who are highly attracted to each other.

Please do respond and post if you do fuvk her and I'll eat crow.... because I can almost assure you that you will not be boning this chick anytime soon if ever.






PIMP

 

[ink_wizard]

hey pimp, yes i agree with you.
We were ment to meet up last week to "chill" however she started panicing saying "she feels bad going behind her bf's back and she doesnt know if she can leave him" so i said fine, its your choice but im not going to wait any longer... and ive ignored her for last 4 days and ive been spinning more plates and she knows about it an she hates it, she cant stand the fact that im seeing other girls and gets mad at me.....
Then last night she rings me crying saying "she misses me and she loves me alot and knows she should be with me but says she loves her bf too and not to give up on her because "we will happen one day"

but yet shes soo lovey dovey with her bf that its hard to believe anything she says...i dont care if i dont get her but i wouldnt mind banging her and thats it lol as mean as that sounds.....i dunno =/

 

[Kailex]

Then last night she rings me crying saying "she misses me and she loves me alot and knows she should be with me but says she loves her bf too and not to give up on her because "we will happen one day"

but yet shes soo lovey dovey with her bf that its hard to believe anything she says...i dont care if i dont get her but i wouldnt mind banging her and thats it lol as mean as that sounds.....i dunno =/

This is why I hardly come into the Don Juan Discussion anymore.

Look, how many MORE times do I need to come into this thread, along with the others and tell you to STEP AWAY.

She is STILL doing it to you. STILL.
And you are STILL being played.

"We will happen one day" means, you'll be the one I run to if my boyfriend ever dumps me for whatever reason. DON'T be that guy.

And you're not spinning plates. I'd say at most, MAYBE you talked to another girl. My question is, HOW does SHE know that you are "spinning plates" if you've supposedly held NC with her?

Something doesn't add up and it's that YOU are still waiting for her.
You say that all you want to do is bang her, but if that were the truth, you would have moved on by now because you would KNOW that it hasn't happened and it WON'T. Lies are only for those that tell them.

Stop being a fool. Stop talking to her completely. Stop wondering about her.
She DOESN'T miss you, she misses the attention. Give it 2 weeks and she'll find another sap to do that too. In her mind, you are replaceable. In your mind, she isn't.

 

[FastMen]

Then last night she rings me crying saying "she misses me and she loves me alot and knows she should be with me but says she loves her bf too and not to give up on her because "we will happen one day"

but yet shes soo lovey dovey with her bf that its hard to believe anything she says...i dont care if i dont get her but i wouldnt mind banging her and thats it lol as mean as that sounds.....i dunno =/

So you said you "love her" you expected her to "break up" so that she can be with you, only you, but at the same time ..now that the reality has made you "see the light" you dont care if "you dont get her" but "wouldnt mind banging her" .....i cant see where was that "true love" "true connection" between the 2 of you.....

i am in a situation equal to this and you know what.......IM TIRED OF bulsht ....im the one who cares about her and yes i dont see any "Real interest" in me so...FORGET. IT ....she donst even deserve what you want now from her....

 

[ink_wizard]

i thought i should update you all...

So you were right i did get burnt.....she was distant with me all week, not replying back to my messages and just being all cold but still got mad at me when she found i was flirting with other chicks i know on facebook....

So she messages me today telling me she doesnt want anything to do with me, that she doesnt want me an is inlove with her bf an they apparently "worked things out" mind you she was only telling me she loved me a few days before...she even deleted me off facebook..im thinking she just got fed up because i had been flirting with other girls?? cos it really made her mad or if she really did work things out with her bf?
im pretty devasted because i really liked hern D:

So i have a question i want to try and get her back, or atleast be friends with her but shes just ignoring me, any tips???

 

[oscarxp25]

Dude, I was in THE exact situation, but didn't know the details you know for a long time. When I found out the situation, everything from he shadiness to attitude made sense. Drop her man, you shouldn't wait around for her, I don't care how cute she is or good in bed. No one should disrespect you like that.

 

[Kailex]

i thought i should update you all...

So you were right i did get burnt.....she was distant with me all week, not replying back to my messages and just being all cold but still got mad at me when she found i was flirting with other chicks i know on facebook....

So she messages me today telling me she doesnt want anything to do with me, that she doesnt want me an is inlove with her bf an they apparently "worked things out" mind you she was only telling me she loved me a few days before...she even deleted me off facebook..im thinking she just got fed up because i had been flirting with other girls?? cos it really made her mad or if she really did work things out with her bf?
im pretty devasted because i really liked hern D:

So i have a question i want to try and get her back, or atleast be friends with her but shes just ignoring me, any tips???

Jesus... fvckin'... Christ.

From here on out, you deserve every single thing that happens to you.

 

[boomerick]

Why friends with someone who consistantly sh!ts on you?????.....

Oh.....wait a minute......she has a p*ssy and that changes everything doesn't it???.......("I still somehow might get laid")

Would you continue to deal with a guy who sh!t on you and disrespected you like this????....( nope no p*ssy)

You sir are pedistializing the p*ssy at the cost of your self respect.......

I hate to get crappy about it but you should go out and have the word WELCOME tatooed on your forehead because you are acting like a doormat....

As EVERYONE so far has said --- GO SPEND YOUR TIME ON OTHER NEW BETTER QUALITY WOMEN

THIS CURRENT CHICK IS USING, PLAYING, LAUGHING AT, DISRESPECTING, AND DEGRADING YOU......wait a minute.....

YOU ARE LETTING THIS CURRENT CHICK USE, PLAY, LAUGH AT, DISRESPECT, AND DEGRADE YOU......

Fix yourself .......go find other women who really like you.....

Over and Out.