She's boring

[Rex Man]

Ok, listen up Eff, this what we like to call a lack of chemistry. It's not that she's inherently boring, but rather, she bores you specifically. And who knows, maybe you bore her.

If some girl comes up to me talking about aircraft, i may fall asleep in her lap, whereas this may be someone elses cup of tea. Don't be so arrogant as to think you are the holy grail of stimulating convo.

My advice? Next her. If you have no real similarities, go find some girl more your speed. I mean, that should be no prob for a convo guru such as yourself.

 

[TheTraveller]

Ok, listen up Eff, this what we like to call a lack of chemistry. It's not that she's inherently boring, but rather, she bores. And who knows, maybe you bore her.

If some girl comes up to me talking about aircraft, i may fall asleep in her lap, whereas this may be someone elses cup of tea. Don't be so arrogant as to think you are the holy grail of stimulating convo.

My advice? Next her. If you have no real similarities, go find some girl more your speed. I mean, that should be no prob for a convo guru such as yourself.

True, but I also think that the DJ principles can put somewhat of a blinder on these types of interactions. Say you act the dj way, and she doesn't seem to take it very well. Do you equate that to her being boring, being shy, not interested? I think by reading and practicing the dj methods and in becoming more confident, we believe that we can have any girl, boring or not. But is that what you want? Is it worth it to even apply the dj principles to these seemingly boring, dull, closed girls?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...Is it worth it to even apply the dj principles to these seemingly boring, dull, closed girls?

That's exactly what I'm saying. It's as if they were kids in a candy store who spend all of their money buying M&Ms knowing that they don't like chocolate; they don't care as long as they have candy.

 

[MR_PERFECT]

If that's the case wouldn't it be easier to just pay for sex and just get it over with? It would be a real time saver.

It depends on the girl. The last one I dated was the perfect girl in every other way. We were having a good time, but it couldn't be a life long relationship.

 

[L777]

Lol, don't know if anyone else noticed, but most young girls (under 25) are boring.

If there was no chance of anything happening, I'd much rather hang out with a bunch of guys than a bunch of girls. Just shag her and move on mate.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

It depends on the girl. The last one I dated was the perfect girl in every other way. We were having a good time, but it couldn't be a life long relationship.

Hold on. She's perfect yet she's not worth being with in a LTR? You make your idea of perfection sound like settling for whomever is interesting at that moment.

 

[Alkali]

Girls are never boring. You're boring.

You can generate excitement if you want to.

 

[MR_PERFECT]

Hold on. She's perfect yet she's not worth being with in a LTR? You make your idea of perfection sound like settling for whomever is interesting at that moment.

It's called fun. What kind of guy is strictly dating girls that he thinks he'll eventually marry? I dated her because she was always up for a good time. If I wanted conversation, I called someone else.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

It's called fun. What kind of guy is strictly dating girls that he thinks he'll eventually marry? I dated her because she was always up for a good time. If I wanted conversation, I called someone else.

So you're saying that your definition of perfection doesn't mean that a woman possess all of the qualities or characteristics that you are attracted to, right?

 

[MR_PERFECT]

So you're saying that your definition of perfection doesn't mean that a woman possess all of the qualities or characteristics that you are attracted to, right?

I said everything was perfect, except conversation, meaning anything physical or competitive, like basketball, pool, sex, bowling, cards, etc...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I said everything was perfect, except conversation, meaning anything physical or competitive, like basketball, pool, sex, bowling, cards, etc...

I see, perfection with exceptions; gotcha!

 

[jimmyjack]

she is boring that's what's bodering you,men get into her pants and if she's still boring let her go.i don't know what you think about getting into her pants.
do you want to marry her cause it's like you want her to be exciting which means you've been thinking of her and you don't want to lose her men you have to think a little bit of what you want with women,if you want to get married to her then get attached to her if not boil her as many times as you want and let her go.it's simple let her be bored as long as she wants.

everybody have thier ways of doing something but copy the good ones if you feel is better.

 

[MooseGod]

If some girl comes up to me talking about aircraft, i may fall asleep in her lap, whereas this may be someone elses cup of tea. Don't be so arrogant as to think you are the holy grail of stimulating convo.

Ohh women in aviation are hooooooot... Lol Which goes to show it's all completely subjective