She's always late... WTF?

[brekke]

Set a date and never show. That is what I would do.

 

[Voice]

As I´ve expected many replies saying she isn´t interested... that´s the major advice of this and other pua foruns.

If one doesn´t know that women can be that (and much more) weird and rude, while still being interested , you know nothing about women....

One of my best friends used to cancel dates with her boyfriend, and do other programs with me... and I can tell you she loved him... She just enjoyed to make him suffer a little..lol

Yep agreed. Just because a girl is into you doesn't mean she's just gonna drop everything for you and worship you. She's gonna make you work a little and play games. Like you said anyone with experience is gonna know this.

Too many people here are afraid if they're not the perfect DJ then they won't get any hb's. Holy sh*t there are so many afc's that get girls just because they don't give up so easy! It's easy to tell if a girl is into you by the way she acts around you. The OP knows this girl is into him, he's fine. He just asked for some advice for how to deal with the lateness. All this advice saying she has low IL is BS. The only one who could possibly judge if the girl has low IL is the OP himself.

 

[Credos]

TRUST ME, I fvcking had persistance, until I was with this HB9... She was alwayse late, she liked doing it, to bug me... I guess... One day she even got me waiting while she knew I had to study for exams the next day...

I hated it, but I sticked with her for another month after that... Than it became all to much for me and I realised that you don't have to put up with all the sh*t that women give you. Sometimes you have to know whens to much and that's a decision you have to make for yourself.

So to the people who are saying that he shouldn't next her and that people who say NEXT are keyjockeys with no experiance, there you have my story.

There's a difference with having persistance and having no self-respect.
But hey, if you don't want advice from "keyjockeys", don't go to a fvcking forum and ask for advice...

 

[JdelaSilviera]

The thing is, people today are more rude than ever.... Let´s talk about male friends instead of a girl. If i "nexted" a friend of mine, because he didn´t return a call, or is always late... I could only possible be an ET... It´s pretty normal now. You can´t get that offended and conclude that people don´t respect you...this is minor stuff if you look at the big picture.

Really, if the girl is hot the fact that she dates him, even being late, it´s because she is interested.... She must have a lot of guys hitting and trying to date her, so if she is with the OP she is interested.

She even could be late, because she doesn´t know the right clothes to use... Having a sister who once told me "4 hours to the party, get out of my room cause I´m choosing the clothes and getting a bath"... that wouldn´t surprise me...

 

[Rescue Mission]

Do you want the TRUTH?

She's always late for the same reason I'm always late too. I also make the calls to let the girl know "hey im running late, be there in 15 minutes".

Why am I always late? Because I either get caught up in a convo on AIM/phone with another chick, or I got held up because I was busting game and lost track of time - it's a simple basic player thing.

YOUR chick is a player too, she's got plenty of guys she's gaming on the side.

 

[Credos]

The thing is, people today are more rude than ever.... Let´s talk about male friends instead of a girl. If i "nexted" a friend of mine, because he didn´t return a call, or is always late... I could only possible be an ET... It´s pretty normal now. You can´t get that offended and conclude that people don´t respect you...this is minor stuff if you look at the big picture.

If a friend is alwayse late, (to me) HE WOULDN'T BE A FRIEND.

Yes I would NEXT him like I would NEXT some stupid chick...

This is my life and it's ending one minute at a time...
Sure I don't care to lose 15 minutes, but still, but I rather not waste it on the arrogance of other people.
The big picture... Includes me...



But everybody can have his personal opinion about that, I don't care, I just post the advice that would fit me best, just like I'm sure you would delaSilviera.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Chronic lateness is often a means of controlling and having power over another person. Usually it's a lifelong habit that is deeply ingrained.

I would have a talk with her and tell her this kind of thing bothers me and that I feel disrespected when it happens. If it happens again, then tell her very calmly that from now on you will give her 5 minutes leeway, and if she's later than that, you will not wait.

If she acts up and complains, don't get sucked into her vortex of drama. Calmly say that this is what I require of people in my life because just as I strive to respect others, I want to be respected. That should be the end of the conversation. If she really is into you she WILL abide by it. If not, you have eliminated dead wood from your life.

 

[jophil28]

Chronic lateness is often a means of controlling and having power over another person. Usually it's a lifelong habit that is deeply ingrained.

I would have a talk with her and tell her this kind of thing bothers me and that I feel disrespected when it happens. If it happens again, then tell her very calmly that from now on you will give her 5 minutes leeway, and if she's later than that, you will not wait.

If she acts up and complains, don't get sucked into her vortex of drama. Calmly say that this is what I require of people in my life because just as I strive to respect others, I want to be respected. That should be the end of the conversation. If she really is into you she WILL abide by it. If not, you have eliminated dead wood from your life.

This ^^

 

[bukowski_merit]

As I´ve expected many replies saying she isn´t interested... that´s the major advice of this and other pua foruns.

If one doesn´t know that women can be that (and much more) weird and rude, while still being interested , you know nothing about women....

If you tolerate this (and much more) weird and rude stuff - then you know nothing about being a man or being alpha...


This sh!t is a basic "run of the mill" sh!t test!

She's not just being a "modern woman" blah blah bullsh!t.... She's already trying to see how much she can get away with... Truthfully - it doesn't matter if she's into him or not; she already respects him much less...

Notice how each time it has gotten worse.... notice that?

Is that the fvcking frame you "accept this is the modern woman" beta guys want to be in???

This b!tch can have attraction for this guy... But she does not have respect for him.... And the less she respects him - the more attraction she loses for him...

Simple formula - you following?

One of my best friends used to cancel dates with her boyfriend, and do other programs with me... and I can tell you she loved him... She just enjoyed to make him suffer a little..lol

Why the fvck is that funny??? Are you a clown or something? "Awww... the woman likes seeing the man suffer a little. She likes showing off her masochistic instincts while crushing his betaized ego har har har"

Guarantee she owns his balls.... but that's acceptable right buddy? Because that's just the way way modern "everybody loves raymond" relationships are...

Do you fight for women's liberation too?

Ok, so I've bee dating this awesome little chick for about a month now, and everything is going great.... except she's always late (and keeps being later every date).

I PROMISE you that if you don't do something about this right now - you will end up dumped, cheated on, or in a very unhappy relationship. This is not a small sh!t test. It is a common one that women will do early on. Failing it as bad as you have will certainly be hard to recover from.

Date#1: She's 20 min late and is bombarding me with texts the whole 20 mins saying how sorry she is.

How did you respond? I'll assume a whole lot of "it's ok, don't worry about it."

As in = "it's ok, you can disrespect me all you want and since you have a pvssy that i want to rub mine against - i'll let you get away with it"???

Busting her @ss hard (see: call on BS) about this is what i would have done. Made sure she understood that i saw this as classless and unacceptable. You would think that a woman would fight this wouldn't you? quite the opposite happens man... She will just get horny when a man stands up to her (but most "men" won't).

If a woman isn't scared of your fire power - then you must be shooting blanks. DON'T SHOOT BLANKS!

Date #2: She just shows up late, no apology.

How late?

Date #3: I call and leave a message telling her I'm on my way. When i get to where we were going, AS SOON as I put it in park and realize she's not there, i get a call...

This woman knows she caught another fish. When will a real shark come along and bite her @ss?

Her: "Yeahh sorry but I'm gunna be SUPER late... SUPER late..."
Me: "Super late meaning... like how late?"
Her: "Like an hour"

Bukowski: "Well im going to be Super SUPER not here." (hangup; phone set to silent. If she wants me to remain in her life she'll have to seduce me back into it. Late once can be dealt with; late 2-3 times in a row is not a mistake; it's a problem!)

Me: "Oh... well I'm gunna go kill time and hang out with my buddy, call me when your close"

NO NO! FVCK NO!!!! You're just going to wait on your little sweet cute angel to find time for you?? Wow... I hope when she called you and told you she was close, you said, "Actually im not going to be able to make it; im having so much fun with my friend; we'll just have to hang out some other time."

Side note: I KNOW she digs me, thats not in question. Heck, in a txt convo the other day she indirectly told me that she was thinking about me and touching herself. Covered.

This is manipulation to keep you interested in her by giving you a carrot to play with. She's dangling it there and laughing at you.

I hope you've gotten more play than that text message.... if you haven't - then you accepting her lateness makes even less sense!

 

[JdelaSilviera]

If you tolerate this (and much more) weird and rude stuff - then you know nothing about being a man or being alpha...


This sh!t is a basic "run of the mill" sh!t test!

She's not just being a "modern woman" blah blah bullsh!t.... She's already trying to see how much she can get away with... Truthfully - it doesn't matter if she's into him or not; she already respects him much less...

Notice how each time it has gotten worse.... notice that?

Is that the fvcking frame you "accept this is the modern woman" beta guys want to be in???

This b!tch can have attraction for this guy... But she does not have respect for him.... And the less she respects him - the more attraction she loses for him...

Simple formula - you following?




Why the fvck is that funny??? Are you a clown or something? "Awww... the woman likes seeing the man suffer a little. She likes showing off her masochistic instincts while crushing his betaized ego har har har"

Guarantee she owns his balls.... but that's acceptable right buddy? Because that's just the way way modern "everybody loves raymond" relationships are...

Do you fight for women's liberation too?





I PROMISE you that if you don't do something about this right now - you will end up dumped, cheated on, or in a very unhappy relationship. This is not a small sh!t test. It is a common one that women will do early on. Failing it as bad as you have will certainly be hard to recover from.




How did you respond? I'll assume a whole lot of "it's ok, don't worry about it."

As in = "it's ok, you can disrespect me all you want and since you have a pvssy that i want to rub mine against - i'll let you get away with it"???

Busting her @ss hard (see: call on BS) about this is what i would have done. Made sure she understood that i saw this as classless and unacceptable. You would think that a woman would fight this wouldn't you? quite the opposite happens man... She will just get horny when a man stands up to her (but most "men" won't).

If a woman isn't scared of your fire power - then you must be shooting blanks. DON'T SHOOT BLANKS!




How late?




This woman knows she caught another fish. When will a real shark come along and bite her @ss?




Bukowski: "Well im going to be Super SUPER not here." (hangup; phone set to silent. If she wants me to remain in her life she'll have to seduce me back into it. Late once can be dealt with; late 2-3 times in a row is not a mistake; it's a problem!)




NO NO! FVCK NO!!!! You're just going to wait on your little sweet cute angel to find time for you?? Wow... I hope when she called you and told you she was close, you said, "Actually im not going to be able to make it; im having so much fun with my friend; we'll just have to hang out some other time."




This is manipulation to keep you interested in her by giving you a carrot to play with. She's dangling it there and laughing at you.

I hope you've gotten more play than that text message.... if you haven't - then you accepting her lateness makes even less sense!

Calm down buldovsky, I don´t argue with tools... With that bitter atittude I´m sure you are not the "apha male", wich is also a completly retarded concept...

 

[Ascyus]

i know a girl who is always late, she will always arrive 30 minutes after class has started. And if we are meeting up she is late as well. Turns out that she is one of those girls that always looks in the mirror, you know the ones that look at anything that they can see their own reflection in. When we are out she will go to the bathroom 6 times in about 3 hours to make sure she is looking good. maybe thats why if she is good looking...

 

[bukowski_merit]

Calm down buldovsky, I don´t argue with tools... With that bitter atittude I´m sure you are not the "apha male", wich is also a completly retarded concept...

Bitter?

Perhaps, but it's not at women. Women are just doing their job and weeding out the weak men (that put them on pedestals).

I'm bitter that "tools" like you let women walk all over them and encourage others to disconnect their spine and take it up the @ss because "it's the way modern women are" (which is far more retarded of a concept than alpha/beta).

If you don't think a woman constantly being late is a sign of disrespect and MUST be dealt with - then you know nothing about women! And considering you've only kiss closed 2 women in 8 months - i believe that statement is accurate... you know nothing about women.

Get your d!ck wet on a consistent bases with many different women and than you may have some input that has experience behind it (not just what you've read in "PUA" literature).

 

[HolyG]

Calm down buldovsky, I don´t argue with tools... With that bitter atittude I´m sure you are not the "apha male", wich is also a completly retarded concept...

LOL OKAY. Enjoy your virginity

 

[Julian]

its called disrespect and you need to put a stop to it the second it happens not "oh ok ill go hang with my buddy call me when u get near teehee". thats some phaggy time cuzz.

it means shes not dependable or reliable as well...it means im calling her out and telling her how undependable and unreliable she is and how anyone could bother relying on her would be stupid to do so. Then its deuces an im out

shes gotta move major to make it up to me for real

dont play that **** bros

 

[Rescue Mission]

Do you want the TRUTH?

She's always late for the same reason I'm always late too. I also make the calls to let the girl know "hey im running late, be there in 15 minutes".

Why am I always late? Because I either get caught up in a convo on AIM/phone with another chick, or I got held up because I was busting game and lost track of time - it's a simple basic player thing.

YOUR chick is a player too, she's got plenty of guys she's gaming on the side.

this is why she is late, in case the OP missed this post in the midst of all of the over-analyzing.

 

[JdelaSilviera]

Rescue there could be a thousand reasons...

Holy G, now let´s have some constructive discussion. Do you really think you need to be an "alpha male" to get laid? I know a lot of nice guys/followers that get laid a lot... but they have a wide social circle. This pua stuff, is largely made for nerds that don´t have many friends, and I bet i would laugh of the attemps of theses "puas" to behave like leaders, when most of them don´t even know how to behave socially.

As Sinn says fun is the biggest attraction switcher...sure many girls want a bad boy... but those girls have issues, a mentally sane hot girl just wants a normal, cool,sociable guy.
Some of my best friends, are really smart and really hot... and you would be amazed how down to earth are the guys they date with...

 

[Ease]

Rescue there could be a thousand reasons...

Holy G, now let´s have some constructive discussion. Do you really think you need to be an "alpha male" to get laid? I know a lot of nice guys/followers that get laid a lot... but they have a wide social circle. This pua stuff, is largely made for nerds that don´t have many friends, and I bet i would laugh of the attemps of theses "puas" to behave like leaders, when most of them don´t even know how to behave socially.

As Sinn says fun is the biggest attraction switcher...sure many girls want a bad boy... but those girls have issues, a mentally sane hot girl just wants a normal, cool,sociable guy.
Some of my best friends, are really smart and really hot... and you would be amazed how down to earth are the guys they date with...

This guy is a virgin.

 

[JdelaSilviera]

This guy is a virgin.

lmao... speaks the guy with 600 posts on the forum... A social beast! I bet you count as f close the girls of webcam porn

 

[Ease]

lmao... speaks the guy with 600 posts on the forum... A social beast! I bet you count as f close the girls of webcam porn

Notice how he doesnt deny it.

38 posts in less than a month, thats more than once a day, get a life bro!

 

[Rescue Mission]

Notice how he doesnt deny it.

38 posts in less than a month, thats more than once a day, get a life bro!

you are a jealous bitter little dweeb......go out and get some pvssy, maybe you'll start thinking and FEELING like a man.

And no, I am nothing even close to a virgin, you moron.