Sheer ****yness - it seems to be working.

[Python]

I got this girls number and she described me as nice at the start so I up-ed the ****yness and now she tells me she is beggining to like my cheek (English for ****y). I haven't been very funny but my ****yness wasn't superstrong just more sarcasm and teasing and being sure of myself. I'm starting to think this cheekyness is a powerful athrodisiac.

 

[BluEyes]

What's with this ****yness thing?

I'm more than confident..in fact I'd call myself supremely confident, but I make an effort NOT to be ****y/sarcastic. I'm not disappointed with my success, I mean I've changed a lot, but it seems more people on this site are achieving success with ****yness and sarcasm.

Why & how does this work?

I have a fantastic sense of humour, but it's more of an action oriented humour, and while I can captivate the ladies telling cool stories, I've never tried to use sarcasm/****yness.

Please explain, for mr. clueless here!

thanks

 

[CanuckinSK]

What's with this ****yness thing?

I'm more than confident..in fact I'd call myself supremely confident, but I make an effort NOT to be ****y/sarcastic. I'm not disappointed with my success, I mean I've changed a lot, but it seems more people on this site are achieving success with ****yness and sarcasm.

Why & how does this work?

I have a fantastic sense of humour, but it's more of an action oriented humour, and while I can captivate the ladies telling cool stories, I've never tried to use sarcasm/****yness.

Please explain, for mr. clueless here!

thanks

In my experience confidence is the foundation that the house is built on. If you don't have the confidence, it's difficult to carry out the conversation skills successfully.

When I was in HS, I had TONS of confidence, conceit really. I never had to use C+F. I think really confident and happy people just radiate positive vibes that really attract.

 

[noirsake]

Im a super ****y f*cker, girls f*ckin love it

we can tell youre ****y

 

[eminence]

girls love the bad boy that comes with the ****iness, doesn't work for all girls, its good for getting laid though

 

[Boschy]

Like most of these techiques, you can do C&F well or you can stuff it up. Women read everything in your body language, tone of voice and your eyes. If you genuine and relaxed then C&F will work wonders.

If you forget or stuff up the funny/amusing/joking aspect, you end up with arrogance, which can work some some girls but most hate it unless you switch into charm mode before things go sour. Still, why worry about what they're thinking too much if your routine/character is consistent. Women turn off fast if they detect incongruency.

 

[Python]

An example of the stuff I would say is in reply - to her telling me she's going to the gym....

How much do you bench 300/400 lbs?

would that qualify as C+F?

 

[DJ1234]

****yness is nice but just straight ****y doesn't work on every girl and it isn't as good as ****y and funny which is why they call it "C+F" not just ****y.
just dont OD it and the girl will probably like it...

 

[ValleyDJing]

I like to tell girls I'm God. Now that's ****y!

 

[Kev07]

I like to tell girls I'm God. Now that's ****y!

I like that