she wont let me see/feel her tits...gah

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i dont know .... do some girls only let certain guys see/feel their tits or some **** or just insecure.

The other night i was nailing this girl for the first time that i've been seeing for over a month. Ok the lights were out, but she barely let me see her pvssy, it took some persistence from me but i got to see it for a few seconds....wouldnt even let me eat her.

Whole time she had her bra + shirt on, she wouldnt even let me feel them up or take off the rest of her top clothes. She has really small/petite tits.

She mentioned something about revealing too much and not having anything else to discover....she's just makin excuses if you ask me.

I wanna see her 100% naked but i dont know what its gonna take.
 

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let her know once in a while how hot she is and dont make it obvious.....she will soon become more confortable with you and it will be easier to get her to open up to you. now if your a crack baby and have no patience at all then hmm...1 sec let me ponder.

Try getting her so hot and not giving her any ****....when she wants you so bad, let her know the only way she can get anything is your way...lol i dunno thats weird, thats a gurls most fav thing to be done to them (eating them)

She must have a pshychological problem like maybe she was harassed as a child and had to show her boobies alot,, no maybe she has a nasty rash and she doesnt want to realveal the herpes on her kitty...

na, seriously i had a gurl who didnt like to give head because she was molested by her brother as a chid, so i never asked or forced her, she did it on her own terms.
 

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Originally posted by Captain Popular
let her know once in a while how hot she is and dont make it obvious.....she will soon become more confortable with you and it will be easier to get her to open up to you. now if your a crack baby and have no patience at all then hmm...1 sec let me ponder.

Try getting her so hot and not giving her any ****....when she wants you so bad, let her know the only way she can get anything is your way...lol i dunno thats weird, thats a gurls most fav thing to be done to them (eating them)


Good tip! thanks

She must have a pshychological problem like maybe she was harassed as a child and had to show her boobies alot,, no maybe she has a nasty rash and she doesnt want to realveal the herpes on her kitty...

na, seriously i had a gurl who didnt like to give head because she was molested by her brother as a chid, so i never asked or forced her, she did it on her own terms.
Maybe some psychological problem. She told me about all her other sex experiences, altho i didnt bring up the tits part (if she revealed them).

Speaking of brother...she told me when she was a teenager, her younger bro dreamt that he fvcked her....haha
 

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Honestly dont talk about it now..you might make her feel uncornfortable...think she does it to spite you..no, she has a reason and it's your job to get her to open up.......lol i would never in my life tell my sister i drempt that i ****er her regardless if i did or not....dumbass brother and sick if i might say????
 

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insecure. too big. too small. :yawn:


I wanna see her 100% naked but i dont know what its gonna take.
In the short term.... Get her very horny. It funny how many insecurities are forgotten at that moment. Then demand that she take all her clothes off.
 
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This is definitly her problem, not yours. If you were able to have sex with her, then she must have some sort of insecurity or what not that would cause her to not want to expose herself. You have her feeling intimate with you, and that's a good thing. I'd just give her some time, and i agree w/ the other guy, let her know that you think she's beautiful, and she'll feel more comfortable with you seeing her body (and like he said, keep it subtle). She probably just has some personal issues w/ her body.
 

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Why don't you just laugh at her?

Don't be so impatient. Just make fun of her. Just say (jokingly please), if I had no boobs, I would be embarrassed too/ I understand, I don't like to show my biker gang tatoos to just anybody.

As long as you're nailing her what do you care, anyway? She'll come around.
 

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no tits? dude tits are the greatest thing the mighty Lord ever created.

To not show them is straight blasphemy.
 

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Well, since you are *getting some* - I think she might have some insecurities/shame about the whole ordeal. She doesn't seem comfortable with her sexuality - this is something that can only be come around through trust.

Patience will come through.
 

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Similar situation.. a friend of mine told me, in the early stage of his relationship that his girl wouldn't take her shirt/bra off during sex.. she has big tits too...

anyway.. you gotta do what ya gotta do son!

your girl is really insecure.... i've never personally encountered a girl like this...

if she won't even let you see her fcuk box you have a problem.. many women will turn down oral sex because they feel like it was sprung on them and they're insecure about odours/taste.... you should inspect her genital area for bumps, blisters and ulcers.. lol..

TURN THE LIGHTS ON!!

you need to tell her that you think she is sexy, and that you like her body, tell her you like her bum, tell her u like her tits.. she'll come around..

but,

TURN THE LIGHTS ON.... unless you're both really fat.
 

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As some of the posters said, maybe she is insecure of her body.

Maybe you didn't warm her enough before you had sex with her. She doesn't know yet how you feel of her body to prior to having sex with her its important that you have a good makeout session which will in turn escalade to sex.

Rub her breasts and squeeze them and tell her you love them, and you want to see them and then take off her shirt and bra, then suck on them. Then rub her crouth area with your hand and simulate oral sex on her crouch saying you love it and do the same.

If you let her know and show her before hand you love her body, she will show it to you during sex.

DjDamage
 

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Originally posted by dipset_mafia

TURN THE LIGHTS ON!!
This is not a porno shoot, most chicks at first want the light off because they are shy (After you have fvcked them a few times then they will feel more comfertable with the lights on). If you want lights at the early going, opt for a scented candle, she will think its romantic but only you will know its for seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. :D
 

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Yep, I had one FB like this. Every time we'd have sex, she wouldn't let me take off her bra. We've been banging on and off for about 3 years now. She's a single mom and will probably be one for the rest of her life. Only within the past 2 months has she allowed me to take off her bra during sex!

I asked her many times why she wouldn't let take off her bra. Each time she replied with, "I'm insecure about them." and we left it at that. Hell, I can't fuck her tits anyway.

I'm not a shrink, so I didn't care to diagnose her problem. I was getting what I wanted.

edit: wanna see her? lol she's about an UG5.5, but loves to fuck.

I'm not proud of this one, but:

http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/j_ker...://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/j_kerouac/my_photos
 

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Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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if a woman isn't comfortable with you seeing her naked, why the hell are you having sex with her?

You obviously haven't gained her trust enough at this point.

you should have stopped and told her that you don't want o have sex until she feels comfortable with you. she probably would have then become comfortable and turned hte lights on and gotten naked.

i mean, sex is NO fun when a woman isn't comfortable with her body. so she basically laid there while you pounded away on her.... wow, sounds like a real erotic time.

btw, that picture is of a transexual. she had a d*ck didn't she?

J
 

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haha you guys make me laugh....

Anyway i think she does have some insecurities about her body. One time i wanted to look at her fingernails but she shrugged away (her hands are small). the next time i assured her i loved how her hands fit nicely into mine, she lets me touch em everytime.

As for trust, she does trust me a lot. if she didnt she wouldnt let me kino her everywhere since the first date. Well next time, i'll do what i can to make her feel better about her body. Guess this one's gonna take some time to pry open.
 

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Try hearing and smelling them. You have 5 senses for a reason. And it actually feels really good to have a warm tit in your ear during frosty winter.
 
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