I'm 20 and my girlfriend is 17. Three days ago we broke up over phone call because she FEELS like she gives 160% of effort in the relationship and I barely give 50%. We live quite far apart and see eachother once a week and sometimes don't see eachother for a week or two. She cried alot and said she loves me and still has feelings for me but she doesn't quite see a future anymore because I don't put more effort in and she's upset that I prioritize my friends, gym, hobbies and job before her. I'll admit I did cry as well. She said shes completely drained emotionally but she never said specifically she wanted to break up (but definitely hinted at it), so I ended things, she agreed to the breakup but wants to meet up for coffee one last time. She is positive with covid and contacted me today that her quarantine ends tuesday (6 days from now) and I told her to bring me my clothes back to my place and she said:
Her: "Absolutely, tell me when you're free"
Me: "Anytime after 2pm next week, ideally on a wednesday"
Her: "I'll let you know because I have a job interview next week"
Me: "Get well soon"
Her: "Thanks, I'll text you before I come"
She's honestly a good woman, sex was good, cooking was good, well mannered and well behaved. Essentially I feel like this is a big test to see if I really am the guy she genuinely desires or if Im putting up a fake. My question is: Knowing all this how should I handle the days following up to the meet up and what should I do when she comes over (I do want her back, because I feel like I am at fault and she's definitely worth it, but I also feel like its a big test)
Her: "Absolutely, tell me when you're free"
Me: "Anytime after 2pm next week, ideally on a wednesday"
Her: "I'll let you know because I have a job interview next week"
Me: "Get well soon"
Her: "Thanks, I'll text you before I come"
She's honestly a good woman, sex was good, cooking was good, well mannered and well behaved. Essentially I feel like this is a big test to see if I really am the guy she genuinely desires or if Im putting up a fake. My question is: Knowing all this how should I handle the days following up to the meet up and what should I do when she comes over (I do want her back, because I feel like I am at fault and she's definitely worth it, but I also feel like its a big test)