She wants to do "IT"!

[silverwex]

Hi all,

Maybe some of ya remember me and the situation im in.

Summary: I met this girl two weeks ago, she has now broken up with her bf of 3 years for me. Met her last night for a drink and applied C+F all the way through - worked like a charm and now i dont even have to think about using it - it comes naturally!

Anyway she hinted that if i was "good to her" (in a joking manner) I would get to see her in her nightie and then some...

Thing is im a virgin! There i said it! Shes quite experienced id say and id really love to do it with her but dont wanna make a fool of myself first time!

Should i tell her im a virgin? Shes a 8.5 by the way with a great body!!!

 

[Avsguy01]

Dont tell her your a virgin. Try to keep cool and go with the flow. If you really are doing that bad and you sense shes not have a good time then i would tell her then. That way she can take over and teach you a few things Im sure she wouldnt mind.

 

[vdk]

I can tell your unconfident so do this: Shut your mouth and look into her eyes, then do her. Its amazing what comes out of your mouth when your nervous. Be a man of action, not words.

 

[Grey Fox]

Here's a thought don't crank it for a couple of days so you get a little pent up. Not to the point where it will be all over in 3 minutes, but just enough so that your desire overcomes your fears.(No pun intended.)

-Grey Fox

 

[J-Man]

first time for everything dude.

according to your logic, you should NEVER have sex, because if you ever do, it would be the first time, and you dont wanna screw up your chances with anyone.

you have to start sometime. do it now and next time there a HB (assuming you dont screw it up with this one, which you wont) youll be expirienced.

also dont women like guys who are virgins? i think i heard that from somewhere, but i think it was a girl who said it, so who knows if its true (probably not).

 

[Miles Davis]

Originally posted by J-Man
also dont women like guys who are virgins? i think i heard that from somewhere, but i think it was a girl who said it, so who knows if its true (probably not).

They obviously do. Every non-virgin was a virgin at one point.

dive in head first baby

 

[Miles Davis]

edit.

 

[FlyGuy]

Don't tell her, just go with it. Sex isn't freakin rocket science... if you're that insecure just get a good sex book and read up on some basics.

I'm sure you were already planning on it, but wear a condom. It will dull the sensation enough that you will be able to last more than a minute. I'd also say jerk off before the date if possible, it'll take some of the edge off. If you hold off then you'll bust a nut 20 seconds after you start. Trust me you won't have a problem letting your desires overcome your fears...

 

[Donny Brasco]

Ask any racer, any real racer. It doesn't matter if you win by an inch or a mile; winning's winning.

The Fast and The Furious

Go get some race buddy!!

 

[silverwex]

Thanks guys! Owe ya, will keep ya posted!

Thanks again.

 

[silverwex]

bump...

Any more advice? Its a big deal (to me anyway!)

 

[Gangster Of Love]

She want's to do it? Then give it to her Captain!

Like Buster Douglas said of his fight plan going into the Mike Tyson fight, "Hit him hard, and hit him often."

Come on, I don't know how old you are, but by the time I had sex, I'd seen enough porn to at least know how to fake it 'till I make it. The girl never knew she was my first. Haha.

Don't relieve yourself before. The first time, I didn't go soft the rest of the night, not even right after the deed. The condom should be enough of an aid for your first time.

 

[princelydeeds]

I would jerk off a few times, then go to see her. Let the heavy kissing and all that commence. then do your best. If you nut quickly then tell her the truth. Say that was my first time and I apologize. Then when you get hard again ask her to show you a better way to do her. Hopefully she will be patient and teach you. Screwing a chick with experience is always a good thing. It teaches you alot. Just say I didnt want you to be turned off by my inexpereince, I thought it would be better, blah blah blah, lie your butt off and go AFC on her. If shes cool she will understand if not oh well, you got yours

 

[Reto]

Ever watch porno? It's a good training tool, but don't get freaky on her.

But then again, she might enjoy it...