SHE used ME for sex??? WTF

[Immaculate]

OK, I always hear about a man using a woman for sex, then dumping her.
I've never done this. All my sexual encounters have been in relationships.

So I meet this girl off match.com at a bar for drinks. I though we really clicked and she ended up back at my place. I didn't want to have sex with her but she basically forced herself on me until I couldn't resist. So we had sex for like 2 hours. So she says she didn't have sex in 8 months, so I figure she was just horny and maybe I have a new girlfriend.

So we see each other again, same scenario, except at her place this time.

I catch feelings for this girl. First time in years. It felt great.

Then she dropped the bomb.

"I admit I used you for sex I feel bad. I knew we weren't compatible as soon as we met, but I was really horny and used you. I never want to see you again"

WTF? Now I know how it feels for a woman to be used to sex. IT sucks.
And I don't get it because this girl and I have alot in common. She told me she is on meds, but wouldn't tell me what kind.

So here I am, confused as hell. Does a woman use men for sex like this often? I thought it was the other way around. Now this girl sticks out in my head like a sore thumb and I can't stop thinking about her.

I never called her after she told me this, but did send an email, only to get "goodbye forever".

She's not married or anything, I know. She's 30 years old. I just don't get it, and yes it hurts. Even though I'm a guy, I should be happy I got laid right? Well I'm not.

I always thought when you had sex with a girl she would be the one emotionally attached...not the other way around.

 

[Bourne]

You missed out on a chance to have a Fvck Buddy.

Get over it. She used you for sex and you enjoyed it. Big deal.

It probably might not be a bigger deal to you if you didn't think you clicked with her.

 

[Immaculate]

Missed out? She said she never wants to see me again. I didn't do anything to lose out on a f buddy. You mean by catching feelings?

 

[( . )( . )]

Get this moronic feminist idea of "using" someone for sex, sex is a 2 way street and BOTH parties enjoy it (unless 1 or both of you suck at it)

Originally posted by Immaculate
OK, I always hear about a man using a woman for sex, then dumping her.
I've never done this. All my sexual encounters have been in relationships.

So I meet this girl off match.com at a bar for drinks. I though we really clicked and she ended up back at my place. I didn't want to have sex with her but she basically forced herself on me until I couldn't resist. So we had sex for like 2 hours. So she says she didn't have sex in 8 months, so I figure she was just horny and maybe I have a new girlfriend.

So we see each other again, same scenario, except at her place this time.

I catch feelings for this girl. First time in years. It felt great.

You "catch feelings" No you catch oneitis. Reread your post again, this is not how a man should behave, youve taken on board this whole gender role reversal thing, tried to step in a chicks shoes and here wondering why you feel like youve been fvcked in the ass. Its that simple.

Quite an unnatural feeling isnt it?

 

[Jamo]

well

If it happened to me I would have really enjoyed it hehe

BUT women are trying to behave like men, and I have no respect for a women like that...sure I will fvck her, I might pretend to be a friend and use her in the bargain but that is it.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Immaculate, welcome to the real world. Women know that by nature, sex is our weakness. Giving in to those carnal urges without forethought usually means ending up in places somewhere between confusing and down right disastrous.

 

[Wyldfire]

I tried to warn you...

 

[Fa Zhou]

I never called her after she told me this, but did send an email, only to get "goodbye forever".

Smells like a bitter ***** to me.

 

[MightyMate]

Why are You asking? Be happy You git a **** buddy!
If she wont wanna **** no more it means You simly failt in bed

 

[Immaculate]

I didn't "fail" trust me... I gave it to her good for over na hour both times, making her orgasm several times and I didn't even get off. She's just bitter. She told me about an ex cheating on her.

**waits for her to get "horny" again and contact me

 

[MightyMate]

Immacumulate - btw, i remembe You found this perfect gil who loved You. Why do You care of other woman?

 

[Immaculate]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Immaculate, welcome to the real world. Women know that by nature, sex is our weakness. Giving in to those carnal urges without forethought usually means ending up in places somewhere between confusing and down right disastrous.

I brought her back to my place to watch a movie, and just hang out. She started talking about sex. I liked her and said "I'm not giving it to you so soon".. she then put her hands down my pants and from there I was toast!

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

You really don't have any idea of how much you sound like a whiney girl do you?

That's not meant as a flame, it's just an observation. You post exactly what I'd expect a girl in the same situation would post if the guy never called back after she gave it up with a minimum of resistance.

Most guys at some point in their life will cop to banging a fat chick. Why? Because it's convenient and deprivation is a hell of a motivator. You were the fat chick this time. So don't pull another fat chick move and cling to it like it was something more than it was.

Get out there and sarge.

 

[Immaculate]

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[Immaculate]

I don't give a f@ck what I sound like. this is the f@cking internet. Who cares?

You're the one with the hot wife living happily ever after so head on out and "sarge".

 

[MightyMate]

LOL

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Sure, but see this as a GOOD rejection at least she cared to tell you she wasn't into you than drag it out.

But if you think about it, REAL deep. The only purpose people date or have relationships is to have SEX.

Kids? Friendship? LOL You are kidding yourself if you think that way. Maybe Kids, but it's always SEX first.

 

[Immaculate]

I'm thinking this b!tch is married with her husband out in Iraq in this f'd up war... come on, in her thirties, owning/living in a big brick single 500K+ home all alone? Something smells. You always hear about these hoe's cheating while their hubby's serving duty.

 

[Drum&Bass]

Dude I know how you feel, the same sh-t happened to me and honestly, YOU DON'T sound like a woman...You sound like a guy who has his sh!t together and you know what you want in a girl. Not only that you were willing to hold on sex because you were genuine which means you are much more of a man than anyone who tells you otherwise. You'll be over it soon enough trust me, but now you know there are women out there that have common interests as you, so keep working on your game keep looking for opportunity and you'll get what you want.

 

[Immaculate]

Wonder how this would have played out if I didn't give in the first night.

As SOON as I said I wasn't going to f#ck her on the first date, she put her hand down my pants and started massaging my d!ck. Plus we were taking tequila shots. B!tch knew what she was doing.