She tracked down my ex

[Reed247]

I've been dating this korean girl for a long time.
We had a serious problem in January when I accused her of being an escort. I had to get her forgiveness. Since then things have been weird, she would cancel dates, be busy, be sick, on purpose. This pattern has been going on since January. I decided to give up, as from former post people warned me against her. She was claiming to be a christian, no sex, all of this crap.
We made a date tonight (friday) and she asked me out actually. So to make a long story short she knew the reason why I was paranoid about her in January. She tracked down my ex girlfriend. My ex girlfriend was also korean and ended up being a prostitute aka escort. The whole date was weird and uncomfortable until the end of the night, she told me that she found my ex girlfriend and asked her about me. I was really pissed off.
The ex had a lot of dirt on me with her, but my new girlfriend said she was glad she could tell me about it. She trust me now and wants to be with me. I just wonder if the two of them have a game playing. It is a possibility of course.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

So, you are not having sex with your girl but yet you have suspicions that she is a prostituting hor??? HUH??? This doesn't make sense!!! BTW, there is no such thing as an "escort"!!

 

[Lost In Translation]

where there is smoke theres fire

she says no sex

but you have a gut feeling she is a prostitute ?

dude that is a BIG like difference in behavior patterns


she found her oh like just found her its that easy ? she is a virgin christian that can find a little known prostitute with ease...hmm...


ok so she tracked down your ex who is a prostitute

riddle me this

1. how did she find your ex

2. when she went to see your ex was it at the brothel

3. did your ex offer her a job while she was there

4. what the hell you doing with a chick who hangs out with prostitutes to get the dirt on you anyways


ok and after your ex goes and talks to PRETTY WOMAN

she is cool with you now ?

WTF !!!??? LOL


trust your instincts mate

or as PRL would say SAY NO TO PROSTITUTE ACTING HO'S

or something like that lol



Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ the 'pimp' mentality works today because you are living in a time such that there are an overabundance if hors - this is the Pimps playground!! Pimps and hors go together like bread and butter - they are complementary natures!!! Pimps need hors like hors need pimps!! “

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

That was good insight DJ lost-in-translation!!! Reed take heed!! (hey, that rhymes)

Something smells fishy besides the pvssy here - I think Reed needs to investigate this matter fully!!!!! Something is wrong!!!!! We need more info!!!!

 

[spider_007]

what kind of low life psychoes do you hang ou with. the fact that she tracked down your ex is bad enought. What if the two of them hit it off, and your ex starts sending "tricks" her way.

something is not right here. i know you got a thing for korean women (you might be korean your self), but you need to move on and go start meeting some quality women.

 

[sapphire]

Yes, it seems that hoes have a little network in which they can always find each other.

Things just don't add up here.

And just to add, no woman who you have been going out with for a while will abstain from sex unless she has serious issues or is getting it from someone else.

Take the advise here and proceed with extreme caution.

 

[Reed247]

These two women

My current girlfriend went to the same college as the prostitute. There are several hundred Koreans at this college. It's in NYC. She told me she saw her walking near the college.
I showed her a picture of her after she threw a fit about seeing her picture. So she recognized her.
My girlfriend seemed to be happier after she told me about it, because she said "She looks like a prostitute, "she is weird". She said she believed me not her. I was pretty convinced.
BTW this prostitute was a highly paid 600 dollar an hour call girl, not a street walker. So it was hard to differentiate her from a nice girl.
So apparently she told my current girlfriend I beat her and that "I am horrible".
So the evening ended well after we discussed it.
My girlfriend admitted she was mad at me for several months about me accusing her of being the escort.

Why did I accuse her?
I was surfing a website "eros-ny" and I came accross an add with "Tina" (my current girlfriends name). The face was blurred out and it looked like her body shape and hair style. I came to find out it was my EX's picture not hers, advertising under that name.


She called me late last night to apologize for talking to my EX, and said she really wants to be with me. I told her I couldn't get hurt like that again and if someone did that to me they would be really sorry.

Now I was sufing the site again and came accross a picture that looks similar to my current GF and I found out a way to make an appointment with my friends cell # so she will not know it is me.
Just to find out if she is foreal.

She has the most pure look though, and I can't imagine her being a prostitute. You really never know.

So all in all I trust her but do not about the fact that she has new hand bags and shoes all of the time. She does have a full time job though. But the bags cost like 500-2000 a pop. Shoes are several hundred.

She seems better after out talk but now I really will have no idea what the two of them talked about in reality. But why would she tell me she even talked to her if she didn't give a damn about me? Why would she go out of her way to lead me on and hurt me when I have done nothing but nice things for her. So there has to be some truth from her.

I could go on about this forever.

 

[Reed247]

These two women

My current girlfriend went to the same college as the prostitute. There are several hundred Koreans at this college. It's in NYC. She told me she saw her walking near the college.
I showed her a picture of her after she threw a fit about seeing her picture. So she recognized her.
My girlfriend seemed to be happier after she told me about it, because she said "She looks like a prostitute, "she is weird". She said she believed me not her. I was pretty convinced.
BTW this prostitute was a highly paid 600 dollar an hour call girl, not a street walker. So it was hard to differentiate her from a nice girl.
So apparently she told my current girlfriend I beat her and that "I am horrible".
So the evening ended well after we discussed it.
My girlfriend admitted she was mad at me for several months about me accusing her of being the escort.

Why did I accuse her?
I was surfing a website "eros-ny" and I came accross an add with "Tina" (my current girlfriends name). The face was blurred out and it looked like her body shape and hair style. I came to find out it was my EX's picture not hers, advertising under that name.


She called me late last night to apologize for talking to my EX, and said she really wants to be with me. I told her I couldn't get hurt like that again and if someone did that to me they would be really sorry.

Now I was sufing the site again and came accross a picture that looks similar to my current GF and I found out a way to make an appointment with my friends cell # so she will not know it is me.
Just to find out if she is foreal. BTW the face is blurred out completely but hair/body look similar and painted toe nails just like my current GF. Same light skin color.

She has the most pure look though, and I can't imagine her being a prostitute. You really never know.

So all in all I trust her but do not about the fact that she has new hand bags and shoes all of the time. She does have a full time job though. But the bags cost like 500-2000 a pop. Shoes are several hundred.

She seems better after out talk but now I really will have no idea what the two of them talked about in reality. But why would she tell me she even talked to her if she didn't give a damn about me? Why would she go out of her way to lead me on and hurt me when I have done nothing but nice things for her. So there has to be some truth from her.

everybody tells me to just move on and leave her but I have no way of knowing if she is honest or not.

I could go on about this forever.

 

[Lost In Translation]

My current girlfriend went to the same college as the prostitute

went... past tense

There are several hundred Koreans at this college

several hundred

It's in NYC

big city lots of people

She told me she saw her walking near the college

the odds of this are..... 1 in 100000000 ?

the prostitute just happened to be strolling along the street and while driving past she recognised her ?

right.....

I showed her a picture of her after she threw a fit about seeing her picture. So she recognized her

from a picture of a korean girl she was able to accidently see her walking along the street when she is not a street walker

in a small city called NYC

you ex WENT to that college

maybe the prostitute is no longer enrolled ?

that would catch her out

maybe she still goes but what was your ex doing there ?

the odds bro are serious like lotto odds

I was surfing a website "eros-ny" and I came accross an add with "Tina" (my current girlfriends name). The face was blurred out and it looked like her body shape and hair style. I came to find out it was my EX's picture not hers, advertising under that name.

ok you might think sigh of relief

but riddle me this, what are the odds now you sure it's your ex of her chosing your current girlfriends name as her professional name ?

multiply that by the odds from her first story she told you

She called me late last night to apologize for talking to my EX

hmm....

Now I was sufing the site again and came accross a picture that looks similar to my current GF and I found out a way to make an appointment with my friends cell # so she will not know it is me.
Just to find out if she is foreal. BTW the face is blurred out completely but hair/body look similar and painted toe nails just like my current GF. Same light skin color.

from this i think you have a problem. no matter what happens you are still searching for evidence to prove you were right.

think about that.

you sorted it all out.

but still you sit on the internet and search for the truth like Neo in the Matrix

WHY ?

your instincts must be SCREAMING at you that you are being played

She has the most pure look though, and I can't imagine her being a prostitute. You really never know.

then why are you searching for evidence that she is ?

stop lying to yourself

So all in all I trust her

LOL

but do not about the fact that she has new hand bags and shoes all of the time. She does have a full time job though. But the bags cost like 500-2000 a pop. Shoes are several hundred.

dude if she makes 500 a week and spends 2000 a week where does this magical fairy money come from ?

drug dealer , prostitute or her name is Paris Hilton

everybody tells me to just move on and leave her but I have no way of knowing if she is honest or not.

be honest with yourself

what do your instincts tell you


i have been in a similar situation with a lying cheating h0e once

if is VERY hard to catch them out IN THE ACT

you going to have to work with secondary evidence and make the best decisions that PROTECT YOU


hope it works out for you

Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: TurboLover
Old School Pimp Style
This board member has more game than Milton Bradley.
” I don't have a girlfriend, but I know a girl who would get really mad if she heard me say that. “

 

[Ice Cold]

Dump them both. Find some quality pvssy.

600/hour is not very "highly paid" for new york.

funny stuff

 

[PRMoon]

And so your downward spiral contiues Reed

When are you gonna wise up?
Why do you put youself through all this drama? From what you've told us about this girl she's really nothing special yet you persist in playing these strange social games with her.

Maybe you're just a bad judge of character. I know i don't like abusing myself like you do, but again maybe it's what you're use to. I'll never understand why people do what they do no matter how much i learn.

 

[Reed247]

koreans

No,

She told me she goes to the college so that she can use the computers and libraries, also when I walked by the college a few times I saw my EX (the prostitute) sitting outside. There are several hundred but she can be seen sometimes. Also Koreans all seem to know each other anyway.
I also gave my current girlfriend her name and description/height. Only because I figured it would calm her down when she asked about it.
I mean she wanted to break up with me last night, before she even brought up the escort, she said she felt really uncomfortable with me and I was acting weird. She told me at the end of the night about seeing my ex.
Anway I don't know but I sense she wants to be with me, and that would be some ruthless sh*t if she was planning to ruin me with my EX, why would she? I have done nothing but nice things for my girlfriend and she cares about me.
She knows how I feel about prostitutes and cheating women, I told her I can't go through that again. She seemed reassuring to me.
I guess one day I will know what this relationship will come of.

Why would she have brought it up unless she really does care?

 

[italostud]

When your exes start talking it's never a good thing. They could very well be up to something. They could be talking every day, you don't know. Take it from me, just get out now.

 

[PRMoon]

As it so happens I had a very nice Korean g/f last year. Our relationship was very nice and had none of the headaches that you've described. She treated me to dinner, always introduced me to her friends, always was happy to see mine. She flaked on a date with me ONCE that was the only bump we had.

You can't even introduce your girlfriend to your mom, and you think you're in a good relaionship?
The only person you're fooling is yourself.

 

[DJDamage]

Things have ended badley with your ex which means like it or not your ex is your enemy not your friend and not neutral.

Your girlfriend who is treating you like sh1t is consorting with the enemy and you are asking a stupid question:

Anway I don't know but I sense she wants to be with me, and that would be some ruthless sh*t if she was planning to ruin me with my EX, why would she?

ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THEN WORDS! read it 10 times if you have too!

You will soon be rudley awaken from your fantasies with this girl and she will have the last laugh.

 

[Reed247]

yeah but

But I thought she was acting like a piece of sh*t because I accused her of being a prostitute earlier this year... That's what she told me she was upset about last night with our relationship.
I like getting outside perspective though.
I admitted to my girlfriend that I hit my EX after she told me to F*CK off. But I kicked her in the A** that was it. It was to ruin the looks of her A** for weeks.

It sucks I can't live the girlfriend fantasy I have, because realistically life isn't like that, women are zunts and cold blooded.

Check out this book called "HATING WOMEN"

It's about how screwed up women in America are today. It just came out, new release.
Women worldwide think being a prostitute is controlling men. It's more like destroying self respect and diginity as a woman.

 

[JSH]

NO, control yourself. Go with your instincts, find a new girlfriend. There is obviously no trust in this relationship and without trust you will not be comfortable together. Dont hate all women, just because you have been played, but dont treat things as coincidences.

You keep justifying to us that why your gf met up with your ex. WHY?

Is it because you honestly dont believe the justifications? Would you have posted this if you were comfortable with the behaviour. It also reinforces a guideline that i use, never talk about exes unless it is to compare your new girl favourably.

 

[penkitten]

stalking sucks