Die Hard
Master Don Juan
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It's nice to have a set of fixed rules that hold true 99% of the time... Like when you meet a BPD the rule is ''RUN!!!'' I'm always looking to expand my own set of rules and wonder what you guys think about the following rule I just came up with:
The thought ''this girl is LTR material'' should never enter your mind before you even have a steady relationship with her!
I mean, it's ridiculous anyway, it's just not realistic to think you can know this beforehand! On top of that:
* It will evoke expectations in you, which only raises the chance of becoming dissapointed...
* It's mostly just a case of 'the wish being father to the thought'.
* It's basically the first step towards putting her on a pedestal...
So whenever you meet some girl and this thought starts entering your mind, you should get a hold of yourself and put that thought aside! When you're already in a relationship with a girl for a while, the rule might not apply...but when you're still in the dating phase or not even that far yet? Please, get rid of that thought ASAP...
Any thoughts on my ''rule''? Do you agree/disagree?
The thought ''this girl is LTR material'' should never enter your mind before you even have a steady relationship with her!
I mean, it's ridiculous anyway, it's just not realistic to think you can know this beforehand! On top of that:
* It will evoke expectations in you, which only raises the chance of becoming dissapointed...
* It's mostly just a case of 'the wish being father to the thought'.
* It's basically the first step towards putting her on a pedestal...
So whenever you meet some girl and this thought starts entering your mind, you should get a hold of yourself and put that thought aside! When you're already in a relationship with a girl for a while, the rule might not apply...but when you're still in the dating phase or not even that far yet? Please, get rid of that thought ASAP...
Any thoughts on my ''rule''? Do you agree/disagree?