She says shes "not ready for that kind of committment"

[Scars]

So I've been getting the signals. She tells me she likes me. Acts like she likes me. Everything was going good. She even asked me to her homecoming (but ended up ditching it for a festival) and I try to take it one step further and she says she isnt ready for commitment. Wtf. Maybe I ****ed up somewhere recently. I'm pretty sure of it. I got really emo today and started popping some pills. Then during my coming down I got pissed at her. Then I was like oh, i miss you blah blah. And **** dude. Idk. she still wants to hang out with me. but like. she is the kinda girl who wont even makeout after 3 months. like it took her that long with her last bf. and she is a virgin. i wanted to go out with her cause i like her, and wanted to speed **** up. but now im like wtf.

im talking to her now. and i suggested an open relationship. i asked her if she would mind me dating other girls. and she thinks its wrong to do that and says she wont kiss other guys. so idk what the **** she wants out of this. **** test maybe?

 

[tigerstyle]

I think that regardless of what your situation actually entails, based off what you have said... moving on would be your best bet. Life is too short to play silly mind games.

 

[window]

she's wasting your time...move on

 

[Monkey]

"not ready for that kind of committment' = low interest

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

... and I try to take it one step further and she says she isnt ready for commitment. ...

What exactly did you do?

 

[NickSCFC2000]

Homecoming? Shouldn't this be in the kids section?