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BigNickCSULB
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ok guys!!
I've been reading post on here for a while now and it has been quite helpful. But, i have a little bit of a different situation and was hoping for some insight. I know to stay away from women with b/f's but this situation has me confused.
This girl and I have known each other for 6 months or so, and she has had a b/f since I met her. Granted, I knew that, but we still hung out together quite a bit. She would call me to hang out, do homework, stuff like that. As we hung out more, she became more physical with me, hugging me, touching my leg (KINO type stuff). I returned the favor, of course, but, I still had the idea that she had a b/f in the back of my mind.
After about 3 or 4 months, the KINO was being stepped up a knotch. When we would walk together, she would grab onto my arm, lots of eye contact, and even some light hand holding. This was definately sending me a signal. So i had to try, and see what kinda reaction i would get, so i tried to kiss her. But, of course, i got the I have a b/f speech, she didn't wanna cheat on him, which i actually respect. It tells me she probably wouldn't do it to me if she was with me.
So, everything was still cool, i didn't make a big deal out of it. We still hung out, but she was still doing the KINO stuff even after all this happened. Part of it is my fault that I let her do it, so I called her on it. I said to her, how do u really feel about me, cuz ur telling me No, but your actions are telling me yes! I had to, i was getting frustrated, and it wasn't fair that she could have her cake and eat it too. She told me, she is attracted to me & she isn't sure why she is with her b/f. But, she's still with him?? What do I do guys? Sounds like she needs some pushing, but im not sure I should be that one to do the pushing??? Help me out guys.
Thanks
Big Nick
I've been reading post on here for a while now and it has been quite helpful. But, i have a little bit of a different situation and was hoping for some insight. I know to stay away from women with b/f's but this situation has me confused.
This girl and I have known each other for 6 months or so, and she has had a b/f since I met her. Granted, I knew that, but we still hung out together quite a bit. She would call me to hang out, do homework, stuff like that. As we hung out more, she became more physical with me, hugging me, touching my leg (KINO type stuff). I returned the favor, of course, but, I still had the idea that she had a b/f in the back of my mind.
After about 3 or 4 months, the KINO was being stepped up a knotch. When we would walk together, she would grab onto my arm, lots of eye contact, and even some light hand holding. This was definately sending me a signal. So i had to try, and see what kinda reaction i would get, so i tried to kiss her. But, of course, i got the I have a b/f speech, she didn't wanna cheat on him, which i actually respect. It tells me she probably wouldn't do it to me if she was with me.
So, everything was still cool, i didn't make a big deal out of it. We still hung out, but she was still doing the KINO stuff even after all this happened. Part of it is my fault that I let her do it, so I called her on it. I said to her, how do u really feel about me, cuz ur telling me No, but your actions are telling me yes! I had to, i was getting frustrated, and it wasn't fair that she could have her cake and eat it too. She told me, she is attracted to me & she isn't sure why she is with her b/f. But, she's still with him?? What do I do guys? Sounds like she needs some pushing, but im not sure I should be that one to do the pushing??? Help me out guys.
Thanks
Big Nick
