she said she didnt want to play games (and if fvcked up)

[dannowillbookem]

haha okay chick whos sixteen...can drive (score)...is a hb 8.5...works alot though...i was playing c&f on her and one day i just asked her out to do the dinner and a movies.

she started talking about how i dont like her and how i just said she was "okay" and how i said she was kinda annoying. these would be good points if i didnt say 'lol' or 'haha' after them. met her on myspace (not the best place to meet chicks i kno but hell if i'll never see them otherwise than why not) anyways i told her i was just kidding when i said that kinda stuff...she was like okay and i said so how about saturday she told me she had to work...i asked if she ever went on dates and she said she was going sunday with a guy to get some coffee, even though she told me she couldnt do **** sunday. i was like i thot u couldnt do **** sunday (all is lost so i might as well get to the bottom of this) and she said she wasnt sure if i was interested, and she was kinda annoyed that i was "just kidding" about stuff i said and asked me to stop playing games.

so i broke. lol

i told her i thot she was pretty and would be interested in going on a couple dates with her. didnt gush or anything, just that. she said okay and that she didnt want to first week of school (this was like the thursday i think, before school started). now school has been in for a week and i plan to not mention it in conversation and probably not initiate much convo (i only see her online/on the fone) and just see if she mentions it.

anyone think i handled things terribly wrong? sorry for the lengthiness just this is a situation i wasnt sure about...

 

[Anomalous]

C'mon, your a senior don juan. HOW THE HELL DID YOU GET IN THIS SITUATION!

You still might have a change, she might want to control you from now on. Don't let her, and she'll be like,"Why doesn't he do want i want him too. Um, he is different."

You screwed up so dont let it happen again.

 

[Zod]

Originally posted by whyshy
C'mon, your a senior don juan. HOW THE HELL DID YOU GET IN THIS SITUATION!

You still might have a change, she might want to control you from now on. Don't let her, and she'll be like,"Why doesn't he do want i want him too. Um, he is different."

You screwed up so dont let it happen again.

The Senior Don Juan is dependent on posts. It's not like it recognizes your PUA skills and adjusts your rank accordingly .

OP -

I don't know if you were neg hitting her, or being serious. But when you are neg hitting you have to remember a few things:

1. You can't be serious when you are neg hitting, you have to say it in a joking way.

2. Is she really a hb 8.5? If you were neg hitting correctly, she probably didn't have very good self esteem, or might have not even been a hb 8.5.

Keep in mind, before you go into some of this more complex stuff in approaches. You should feel her out (no, don't feel her tits) and try to judge some things about her personality.

Generally, most HB's have good confidence. This is why you do not compliment them. And then you can start neg hitting. You can neg hit on something she said, a piece of clothing shes wearing, shoes, purse, etc.

If you are going for 'ground beef' then you probably shouldn't neg hit her. Infact, you may want to compliment her 2-3 times on things.

---- edit.

Wait up, were you neg hitting her online? Then the above stuff probably won't apply to this specific situation.

 

[dannowillbookem]

Originally posted by Zod
The Senior Don Juan is dependent on posts. It's not like it recognizes your PUA skills and adjusts your rank accordingly .

OP -

I don't know if you were neg hitting her, or being serious. But when you are neg hitting you have to remember a few things:

1. You can't be serious when you are neg hitting, you have to say it in a joking way.

2. Is she really a hb 8.5? If you were neg hitting correctly, she probably didn't have very good self esteem, or might have not even been a hb 8.5.

Keep in mind, before you go into some of this more complex stuff in approaches. You should feel her out (no, don't feel her tits) and try to judge some things about her personality.

Generally, most HB's have good confidence. This is why you do not compliment them. And then you can start neg hitting. You can neg hit on something she said, a piece of clothing shes wearing, shoes, purse, etc.

If you are going for 'ground beef' then you probably shouldn't neg hit her. Infact, you may want to compliment her 2-3 times on things.

---- edit.

Wait up, were you neg hitting her online? Then the above stuff probably won't apply to this specific situation.

i think i saw her today...think i know lol it was at the mall and i was with some friends and she was in a music store and it might have been her but by the time i realized, she was gone.

yeah i think 8.5 was a little heavy, she looked better in pics. she made eye contact with me in the store and i noticed she acted strange and then left immediately...i think she might be shy o well the worse that can happen from here is that i next her.

lol how did i get in this situation...

 

[Anomalous]

Originally posted by Zod
The Senior Don Juan is dependent on posts. It's not like it recognizes your PUA skills and adjusts your rank accordingly .

IF YOUR HERE LONG ENOUGH TO GET TO SENIOR, YOU SHOULD HAVE SOME KNOWLEDGE ABOUT DJ'ING!!

 

[Zod]

Originally posted by dannowillbookem
i think i saw her today...think i know lol it was at the mall and i was with some friends and she was in a music store and it might have been her but by the time i realized, she was gone.

yeah i think 8.5 was a little heavy, she looked better in pics. she made eye contact with me in the store and i noticed she acted strange and then left immediately...i think she might be shy o well the worse that can happen from here is that i next her.

lol how did i get in this situation...

All I can say is, Next?

 

[08aisaac]

Ahh what's one chick? Well just go have dinner and a movie and enjoy yourself.

What's past is past. Forget about it.