She said no!

AceyR6

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Been going out on dates with this HB for the past 2 months. She seems to be really interested, calling me more then I call her. I was getting all the right vibes from her. She told me all the other guys shes seeing aren't anything serious. I finally asked her out and got a polite no. What to do now? Next?
 

Oscar Wilde

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You can't next. Cos she's already nexted you. Move on, there's plenty out there.
 

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That sucks man. Why didn't you just **** her instead of asking her out? It's probably what she wanted to do in the first place.

I've never had an LTR with an HB (never had a girl I could officially say was my GF) but the ones that I managed to date more than twice gave me sex at least once.
 

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Originally posted by Oscar Wilde
You can't next. Cos she's already nexted you. Move on, there's plenty out there.
hahhahaha Thats Like When you get fired at your job, and you say! I QUIT!

I dont get this post..you say you went out on a couple dates with her..then you finally asked her out and she said no??

am I supposed to read your post in reverse..?
 

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She told me all the other guys shes seeing aren't anything serious.
She was basically telling you to get serious or get out. You waited to long to make your move bro. If you're not fvcking her after the 3rd date then your not moving forward.

now go out, find a new chick, and start again.
 

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I dont get the "I asked her out"- part either...Did she ask you out on all the dates you had been during the previous 2 months? and then all of a sudden you asked her out and she said no?...?
 

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If just you and her were going out, then that should be classed as a date, unless you/her deemed it just friends, in which case you were screwed right from the start.

I'm confused as well, you went out a few times, then asked her out? How did you do that? lol. Sounds like you needed to make a move in there somewhere instead of asking for an 'official' date of some kind.
 

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were the dates which u mentioned for the past two months...group outings?
Seems like she has got tired of waiting for ur FIRST MOVE...
 
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