she said no because im bald

[casanova]

Alright so, this girl from my class really like her and we were getting closer. She told me not to get a buzzcut a while back but I did anyway because I wanted one. I wanted to hook up with her at a party and then my friend asked her why she wouldn't and she told me because I'm bald?? Do you guys think that is a real reason or it's just bull **** excuse? I'm so confused and she made me self conscious of my hair cut.

 

[Murk]

She's just one girl, maybe she doesn't like bald dudes. Plenty of girls do, I know plenty handsome attractive bald guys, I also know not so attractive bald guys that do well with women. Shave it all off and grow a beard. Don't be a "proud owner of a few bits of hair".

I'm actually quietly intrigued for the time I have to shave my hair off and grow a beard, go down like a man not a comb-over chump.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

How old is she? And is this college or high school?

 

[marmel75]

Alright so, this girl from my class really like her and we were getting closer. She told me not to get a buzzcut a while back but I did anyway because I wanted one. I wanted to hook up with her at a party and then my friend asked her why she wouldn't and she told me because I'm bald?? Do you guys think that is a real reason or it's just bull **** excuse? I'm so confused and she made me self conscious of my hair cut.

Who cares. Go find other women to take your mind off her. Posts like these always let you know the OP has no other options.

 

[NiceBarn]

I was talking to a girl at work and she nexted a guy because he wore bikini style undies and was lotioning up his legs after a shower. This was right after the first bang lol

 

[hitmanwalking]

Getting a buzzcut can make you look more masculine. A woman who doesn't respond to masculinity is someone who is needy, shallow and approval seeking. Those type of women go for pretty boys. They will never be sexually satisfied but they will feel validated by society.

It's kind of like asian guys going for blondes no matter how shapeless and masculine the woman really is. It's all validation seeking that comes from a place of deep insecurity and over-compensation and has nothing to do with sexual attraction.

 

[sosousage]

Alright so, this girl from my class really like her and we were getting closer. She told me not to get a buzzcut a while back but I did anyway because I wanted one. I wanted to hook up with her at a party and then my friend asked her why she wouldn't and she told me because I'm bald?? Do you guys think that is a real reason or it's just bull **** excuse? I'm so confused and she made me self conscious of my hair cut.

its both reason and excuse. depends how you look without hair. some people look good, most look bad.

ask yourself question, would she date mr perfect if he was bald?
answer is yes

 

[sosousage]

You could be rejected for:

1. Your natural smell
1.a. your cologne
2. Teeth too straight and white
3. Teeth too crooked and yellow
4. Too tall
5. Too short
6. Bald
7. Long hair
8. Too poor
9. Too rich
10. Too funny
11. Too serious
12. Too unavailable
13. Too available
14. Too attractive
15. Too unattractive

Catch my drift? This game is nihilistic, take nothing personally.

its sad reality how broken women are. all you mentioned is correct. and you can clearly see it on tinder where women have many choices. dumb wh0res. due to what i realized about women i will probably never have meaningful relationship because deep inside ill know they are all broken, shallow, offering only vagina, but have as big requirements as their current available dating pool is, and it is big, due to social media and dating apps, which wont die anywhere soon, but will rather extend.

only way to have healthy relationship is to be way aboveeee average in SMV/LMS meaning BUT once you get there it would be stupid to know how shallow women are and still be in monogamous relationship

 

[wifehunter]

 

[ubercat]

Think about it this way if that is how she makes her life decisions why the hell would you want her in your life.

 

[nismo-4]

Ditch that bytch and move on! That's like a girl.dropping you because you have a Samsung phone, a PS4, or you cheer for Alabama.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Personally never heard or seen of someone rejected for getting what we can a fade. These things in Chicago were so in style, dudes barely rocked long hair, they used to get roasted. Its changed cause of media trends, she's testing you and you failed move on

 

[Urbanyst]

its sad reality how broken women are. all you mentioned is correct. and you can clearly see it on tinder where women have many choices. dumb wh0res. due to what i realized about women i will probably never have meaningful relationship because deep inside ill know they are all broken, shallow, offering only vagina, but have as big requirements as their current available dating pool is, and it is big, due to social media and dating apps, which wont die anywhere soon, but will rather extend.

only way to have healthy relationship is to be way aboveeee average in SMV/LMS meaning BUT once you get there it would be stupid to know how shallow women are and still be in monogamous relationship

Red pill truth.

Music to my ears.

 

[marmel75]

its sad reality how broken women are. all you mentioned is correct. and you can clearly see it on tinder where women have many choices. dumb wh0res. due to what i realized about women i will probably never have meaningful relationship because deep inside ill know they are all broken, shallow, offering only vagina, but have as big requirements as their current available dating pool is, and it is big, due to social media and dating apps, which wont die anywhere soon, but will rather extend.

only way to have healthy relationship is to be way aboveeee average in SMV/LMS meaning BUT once you get there it would be stupid to know how shallow women are and still be in monogamous relationship

The same way men reject women for being too fat, having no ass, having no tits, having too big an ass, having too big tits, having the wrong hair color, having a bad body, etc etc etc...

Lets not pretend it doesnt go both ways

 

[devilkingx2]

She told me not to get a buzzcut a while back but I did anyway because I wanted one.

this is where you went wrong, this is where you decided that your haircut was more important than getting the girl lmao

"she didn't like the thing I already knew she wouldn't like but i didn't care and did it anyway" lol

well we can't tell you if it's a personal preference of that girl or if the haircut is ugly, only way to find out is for you to approach 25 more girls and let us know how many of them like or didn't like your hair

one time a girl dyed her hair a color I would hate knowing I was gonna hate it, so I dumped her for making herself unattractive to me

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Attraction is very subjective.

Having said that, if a girl rejects you for some minor physical detail like this, she is very shallow and isn’t worth having anyway.

Personally I tend to see the best physical features in girls I find attractive. Some guy might look at a girl and say “Pff small boobs” and reject her like a d*ck but I might look at her and think “Beautiful face, great sense of humour”.

I’ve got no time for people who are so shallow they just look at one attribute someone has and reject them instantly.

 

[stovepipe]

Some girls are like "if your hairline don't even wanna stay why should I". Girls like that are low quality and not worth pursuing.

I personally tend to find certain women's flaws attractive. So yes, attraction is subjective.

 

[devilkingx2]

Having said that, if a girl rejects you for some minor physical detail like this, she is very shallow and isn’t worth having anyway.

Your hair is not minor, your eye color is minor.

 

[sosousage]

Attraction is very subjective.

Having said that, if a girl rejects you for some minor physical detail like this, she is very shallow and isn’t worth having anyway.

Personally I tend to see the best physical features in girls I find attractive. Some guy might look at a girl and say “Pff small boobs” and reject her like a d*ck but I might look at her and think “Beautiful face, great sense of humour”.

I’ve got no time for people who are so shallow they just look at one attribute someone has and reject them instantly.

then why would you reject all fatties

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

then why would you reject all fatties

I wouldn’t necessarily. I don’t mind girls who have a few pounds extra (think curves rather than fat).

However being obese is not just one flaw, it’s multiple.

- Lack of care regarding own appearance
- Lack of care regarding own health state
- Probable low self esteem
- Low interest in active lifestyle

That’s a dealbreaker for me.

I’d never reject a chick because she dyed her hair or cut it slightly differently, to me that’s trivial stuff personally.