She said I was Silly....

[B Love]

Ok a little back story first...so i met this girl a few weeks ago and we really hit it off. well last weekend on a friday we were supose to meet up and goto this festival. Well I ended up spilling beer on my phone and it stoped working. I tried calling and texting her on my friends phone and she didn't respond. The next day she ends up texting me asking what I was doing that night. We make plans to meet up downtown and I was to call her when I got there to find out where she is. By the time I get there its about 12 and when I call she said she was tired and already left.

So i text her tonight and kinda bust her balls about "standing me up". and we make plans again tonight to meet up after she gets out the movies. the text went like this

me:well give me a call. Remember, you only have 1 strike left
her:ha your silly, ill call but if you dont answer its our loss.

I may be over analizing the situation but the fact that she called me silly sets off some alarms that maybe im not being ****y enought in my aproach. I can tell she really digs me so it might not even matter.

 

[TheRealSupreme]

Ok a little back story first...so i met this girl a few weeks ago and we really hit it off. well last weekend on a friday we were supose to meet up and goto this festival. Well I ended up spilling beer on my phone and it stoped working. I tried calling and texting her on my friends phone and she didn't respond. The next day she ends up texting me asking what I was doing that night. We make plans to meet up downtown and I was to call her when I got there to find out where she is. By the time I get there its about 12 and when I call she said she was tired and already left.

So i text her tonight and kinda bust her balls about "standing me up". and we make plans again tonight to meet up after she gets out the movies. the text went like this

me:well give me a call. Remember, you only have 1 strike left
her:ha your silly, ill call but if you dont answer its our loss.

I may be over analizing the situation but the fact that she called me silly sets off some alarms that maybe im not being ****y enought in my aproach. I can tell she really digs me so it might not even matter.

1. Your over analyzing this. WAY over doing it.

2. YOU stood her up last time if I read it right. You don't show up till 12??? What your signaling her subconscious mind is that your not into her all that much and she may go find someone else.

3. I hope your not doing that pua thing of trying and pretending not to be too interested and trying to build her attraction level by waiting like that.

4. Also you called her from your friends phone and texted her? I didn't get the whole thing or understand it. Allow yourself 1 attempt to call her. Don't play games to see if she is gonna answer cause if she thinks it is you being childish....she will lose interest in YOU.

 

[B Love]

I used my friends phone to try and call her when mine wouldnt work. I'm not trying to not show interest. Although ill admit im still having trouble deciding when to stop messing with her and show my interest in her. I know it will just take time. Either way, Ill see how it goes tonight.